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 I love to dance too!! I miss going out to clubs just for that purpose. Oh, I could still go-but I am not a fan of the noise and all that comes with it now. But, you know what? I should look into other ways to get My dance on, besides in My place. Sweet memory in regards to your Mom. My Mom used to listen to Elvis and The Supremes- and I can remember she had her record player in her bedroom on top of her dresser. She would always play her music when she was cleaning. I would go in her bedroom and she would come in and take My hands and dance with Me too, though I do not know what age I was. Thank you for bringing back that memory for Me.  | 
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			when my father was in the hosp. my mom wanted his jewellery so it would not get "lost".  He handed me his watch, wedding ring and initial ring (same initial as mine). I gave my mom his wedding ring (which she gave to my brother). I have his watch and ring and wear his ring often. My father passed away 3 days later and my mom 5 years later. I have my moms wedding ring as well. (which I hope to give some lady some day).  I have many things belong to them but that ring is the last thing my father put in my hand before going into a coma and passing. It is my prized possession that keeps him close to me.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I wear a ring on my thumb, often.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			mine is like a spinner,,,, helps me when i spin the thumb ring....
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I don't know whether to post in the femme zone (because I don't feel femme) but I can't post in the butch zone 'cause  I know I'm not butch. But I guess that's not the sort of thing for this thread? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Another thing... I have a Master's degree that I have never used.. Not very proud of that one TBH  
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			I have a thing for keys. To the point where I have done research on them. Whether skeleton, winding keys.. just any type. I am fascinated by them. I just received in the mail today two necklaces I ordered off from Etsy that are steampunk themed- one is a skeleton key and the other is a winding key that you would use for a pocket watch.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I had an addiction to sixties cars. I owned 9.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Many years ago I extensively studied the anatomy of the back and massage on my own and considered an occupation as a chiropractor. I abandoned pre-med when I found my true passion in working with persons with disability.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I do not have cable or satellite tv. I refuse to pay extreme amounts so businesses can shove commercials into my life. I have hulu and netflix, no commercials.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Winter is my favorite season.  I love big snowflakes.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			it takes me all of 15 minutes to get ready for work.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Both of my parents have died but I don't miss them, because I can communicate with them when I need to. I suppose it's as a result of this I know I'm protected.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			First impressions speak volumes. I can read between the lines! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I love the wind...it gives me a sense of freedom and connection with something bigger...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Even tho I've moved away from Seattle over two years ago, I refuse to let anyone else cut my hair besides my regular guy. Both me and Mary go back over to Seattle for our 'beauty appointments".........
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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