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Old 06-03-2017, 10:03 AM   #1
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Eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are tired.
Otherwise, run as fast as you can and slam into life.

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that life is too short to hold on to anything but good stuff.
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Holding a constant grudge against anyone is an incredible waste of your own energy and happiness. Let that shit go.
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That I am under no obligation to fill every pause,
silence or gap, I do not have to appoint myself entertainer, soother, diplomat and conversational tour guide all the time and its quite alright to let others fill those pauses and put a little effort in and that does not make me a bad person. PS: This is a real time person to person observation not relating to interactions here on the Planet...just thought I should clarify !
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That being in the moment is much more enjoyable than fretting about the future.
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That being in the moment is much more enjoyable than fretting about the future.
So true!!!! I'm learning this as well!
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I'm working on having faith and not second guessing things.
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that life is too short to hold on to anything but good stuff.
I've learned that an attitude of gratitude is more than just a platitude.
I've learned that affirmations work, but so do "nahfirmations."
I've learned that yesterday is gone and tomorrow is a mystery, but if I focus on having a good today, it predicts a good tomorrow, and if I keep at it, my yesterdays will make for good memories.

But most importantly, I have learned that you don't have to try on pants to know whether they'll fit. All you have to do is wrap the waistband around your neck and if the two sides connect, they'll fit.
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But most importantly, I have learned that you don't have to try on pants to know whether they'll fit. All you have to do is wrap the waistband around your neck and if the two sides connect, they'll fit.

If this had not worked, I wasn't going to post. How on earth did you learn that?
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Loving a child is unlike any other sort of love.
I thought I understood what it was to love someone. I have been in love. I have lost myself in love. I love.
Yet, it was my son who taught me the true feeling and sense of love. He was in the icu recovering after an operation gone terribly wrong which left him near death. In the quiet of those silent bedside nights praying for his recovery and praying with all my being that I could take his place, my epiphany arrived: "Love" for me is unconditional, selfless, patient, inviolable and pure. How much this young man teaches me.
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Loving a child is unlike any other sort of love.
I thought I understood what it was to love someone. I have been in love. I have lost myself in love. I love.
Yet, it was my son who taught me the true feeling and sense of love. He was in the icu recovering after an operation gone terribly wrong which left him near death. In the quiet of those silent bedside nights praying for his recovery and praying with all my being that I could take his place, my epiphany arrived: "Love" for me is unconditional, selfless, patient, inviolable and pure. How much this young man teaches me.
when you have a grandchild u feel all that love x2 beautiful post nd I am glad your son is ok God Bless
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Anger and resentment stick around and will play hide and seek with you, when you don't want it to.
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If this had not worked, I wasn't going to post. How on earth did you learn that?
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That sometimes you gotta forget the past, give up holding grudges, and give people(including family) another chance.
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