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LMAO... yeah like that, real inconspicuous...
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The leaping lesbian song! And Ode to A Gym Teacher. I'd dig the old albums out of the attic but I have nothing to play them on. Whatever happened to Meg Christian? Robin Tyler? Tret Frue(?) Lucy Blue Trembley? Cris Williamson?
I like many terms that describe lesbians especially dyke! If someone calls me a dyke, I always thank them for noticing. I dont care for queer...its too non descriptive. Or bull (fill in word of choice) ....its an animal rights thing.
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But Linda Perry... 4nonBlondes and after.... that's another story altogether, yowza... ![]() Does that count? ![]() *more rock & roll* Metro
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Maybe its a generation gap thing. I never heard of Linda Perry or 4 nonblondes and after. lol.
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I was invited by some old friends to the Michigan fest a few years back, but I won't go there because they don't allow some women in, namely those of a trans experience.
(I probably wouldn't go anyway, not my thing so much, but that pretty much clinches it) *seriously not a stick in the mud just sayin'* Metro
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I've never been to a Michigan Festival but have heard some wonderful and not so wonderful stories from others.
I live a half hour from Ptown, so I usually catch my entertainment there....ahhh the old days when Lea Delaria and The Dyketones ruled, The Pied Piper didnt have mens afternoon tea dances, and I was a hell of a lot younger. Everywhere I look now are little baby dykes.......as seen thru my AARP eyes. Have to say, it is nice to see all the new names I havent seen before and feel the lightness of the energy here. It feels good. ![]()
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i am a dyke and a lesbian. They both roll off my tongue easily. i did NOT major in Women's Studies although many of my friends back in the day did. i hated women's music except for a few performers. i liked Ferron. Remember "It won't take long" -- about the coming revolution. ![]() i am a bit of a culture snob, and my Marxist feminism stresses the Marxism over the feminism. But i am a dyke. i own the culture, and it owns me. i am a dyke BEFORE i am a femme because i WAS a dyke before i was a femme. i have certainly had my differences with the mainstream lesbian community. Back in the day -- a huge one was my kink. But i am and will always be a lesbian. |
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Dyke, no...why? hell if I know, I just feel femme and consider the word Dyke as describing someone "Butch". Most straight folk I know call me dyke in a derogatory sense, they use my appearance as a compass ( heavily tatted and pierced) so... I'll just wear my t-shirt that says '" I'm not a Dyke but my girlfriend is". For what ever reason, I dont find the word offensive if a LGBT uses it.
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I honestly try not to use either.
I agree with the ones that say the "straight" world seems to refer to us all (our community) as lesbians or dykes. I however, do not feel i am either. I identify as a gay femme. That is what I prefer. So many labels ...so little time.... |
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While the word lesbian doesn't fit resound with me..
I am a big old queer femme dyke..
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Count me in! If I don't make it onto The List I'm gonna kick somebody's ass!
I will answer to lesbian, dyke, gay, and/or queer. I usually end up using whichever word seems right in the moment, but 'lesbian' and 'dyke' are my clear faves. When I'm speaking to queer people who think that 'lesbian' is somehow pejorative, (usually the younger, genderqueer crowd), I make a point of calling myself a LESBIAN FEMINIST. Then I wait for one of them to say something, anything, stupid. I admit to puerile joy watching them squirm in the aftermath. When I'm speaking to people who ID as stonebutch or stonefemme who think that their stone ID means that they could not possible be lesbians, I make sure to call myself a stonefemme lesbian. When I'm speaking to lesbians who would prefer me to assimilate I call myself a dyke. Relentlessly. BUT, if I ever find myself using the word 'dyke' in a work environment, or anywhere else where straight people might hear me, I make a point of telling them that they are NOT allowed to use that word.
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With a kick ass attitude and post like this you are definitely on THE LIST! Love it. ![]()
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i love love LOVE the word Dyke. If i call you a Dyke, it's a HUGE compliment!
To me, the word embodies a bold, sexy, brash butch. yuuuuuuu ummm! ![]() i LOVE that Massi considers Hymself a Dyke, cause i know i do!! Dykes are just plain HOT in my book!! ![]() ![]()
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This is a lesbian owned bed and breakfast located off the San Marcos River, just outside of Austin. www.riverbarnsuites.com. The owner has kayaks for use and takes you on kayak rides down the river if the river is up enough. IT's a really nice place.
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The admin recently added lesbian-phobia/phobic to the TOS in the list of isms/language, etc. to be moderated on the Planet!! KEWL!! Way kewl!! Way aware!!
5. No Intolerant Behavior! - Racially offensive, Sizist, Sexist, Transphobic, Classist, Elitist, Misogynist, Homophobic, Lesbian-phobic or otherwise hateful speech is NOT acceptable here. If you make an asshattish or hateful comment, you can expect your fellow community members to want to engage with you about it. Also, making a comment that is racist, ageist, sexist, sizist, Lesbian-phobic or generally offensive and then adding "It's just my opinion" or "It's my First Amendment Right!" does NOT negate your personal accountability for what you just said. |
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