Love is...<3

Martina · 06-28-2017, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Bèsame*

thank you baby****

I have to say that this is one of the blessings of being single. After my last relationship, I was so relieved to realize there would be no more Dancing with the Stars. However, in the spirit of the thread,

Love is when one's first instinct is not to defend, but to understand.

girl_dee · 06-28-2017, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Martina

SNIP

Love is when one's first instinct is not to defend, but to understand.

THIS..... when someone is very defensive it causes me not to want to speak to them about hard topics...then i causes me to feel blamed, then my defense kicks in.... and nothing is resolved....

Love is... just trying to understand what the other person is feeling or going through....and acknowledging them so they feel heard

AmazonDC · 06-28-2017, 08:55 PM

Keeping a calm tone while hanging bkinds and having to fix them to a spot I had already put them in the first place... gotta love My babygrl

girl_dee · 07-07-2017, 03:25 AM

Love is trust........

2qt · 07-07-2017, 07:02 AM

Love is when words don't need to be spoken because the reflection from their eyes staring into yours echo volumes of content instead.....

Love is when there is no rhyme or rythem to understand the logic's of what you feel because what you feel defies all the logic.....

hopelessromantic69 · 07-07-2017, 08:24 AM

Love is when the feeling consumes you like a blue flame, penetrates your soul..leaving your heart sighing with relief and saying "there you are...at last"

Bèsame* · 07-07-2017, 01:28 PM

Love is soap bubbles, red/white/blue glow Sticks and a spray bottle. Love is having a good time

bright_arrow · 03-16-2019, 12:55 PM

Love is having a crappy day and being picked up with flowers, your favorite ice cream and binge watching S3 of Queer Eye for hours to bring you out of the funk <3

kittygrrl · 03-16-2019, 04:03 PM

love is good if you can find da kine

MrSunshine · 03-16-2019, 06:32 PM

Love is... a recall on my pickup that won’t cost ME 4500$ Whew!

Kätzchen · 01-14-2020, 11:45 PM

Love is the ability to say "No" to any one or any thing that does not lift you up or provide an positive outcome that improves your life or well being.

In my mind, being able to say "No" is a healthy form of love: be it for yourself or expressed toward another. Being able to do that is a form of self care because it builds confidence in making choices to improve ones' life.

kittygrrl · 01-15-2020, 08:38 AM

love is saying "No" w no regrets

Bèsame* · 01-15-2020, 10:44 AM

Love is...

The ability to say yes to new adventures, friends, feelings, conversations, and remembering life is short.

Love is... finding a positive outlook.

Love is...a happy life!

07-07-2017, 08:24 AM	#6
hopelessromantic69 Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: all male Relationship Status: Single but unavailable Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Eugene OR Posts: 394 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 108 Thanked 478 Times in 195 Posts Rep Power: 3686584	Love is when the feeling consumes you like a blue flame, penetrates your soul..leaving your heart sighing with relief and saying "there you are...at last" __________________ Stefan

07-07-2017, 01:28 PM	#7
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,431 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,181 Thanked 41,029 Times in 10,773 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Love is soap bubbles, red/white/blue glow Sticks and a spray bottle. Love is having a good time __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

03-16-2019, 04:03 PM	#9
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,730 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,718 Thanked 22,150 Times in 7,220 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	love is good if you can find da kine __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

03-16-2019, 06:32 PM	#10
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01-14-2020, 11:45 PM	#11
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sailing in a wooden shoe with Wynken, Blinkyn, and Nod. Posts: 16,254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 33,631 Times in 10,723 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Love is the ability to say "No" to any one or any thing that does not lift you up or provide an positive outcome that improves your life or well being. In my mind, being able to say "No" is a healthy form of love: be it for yourself or expressed toward another. Being able to do that is a form of self care because it builds confidence in making choices to improve ones' life. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki.

06-28-2017, 08:55 PM	#3
AmazonDC Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: DC Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: colorado Posts: 499 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 346 Thanked 1,485 Times in 430 Posts Rep Power: 13453159	Keeping a calm tone while hanging bkinds and having to fix them to a spot I had already put them in the first place... gotta love My babygrl

07-07-2017, 03:25 AM	#4
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07-07-2017, 07:02 AM	#5
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,966 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312204	Love is when words don't need to be spoken because the reflection from their eyes staring into yours echo volumes of content instead..... Love is when there is no rhyme or rythem to understand the logic's of what you feel because what you feel defies all the logic.....

03-16-2019, 12:55 PM	#8
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Love is having a crappy day and being picked up with flowers, your favorite ice cream and binge watching S3 of Queer Eye for hours to bring you out of the funk <3

01-15-2020, 08:38 AM	#12
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,730 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,718 Thanked 22,150 Times in 7,220 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	love is saying "No" w no regrets __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

01-15-2020, 10:44 AM	#13
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,431 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,181 Thanked 41,029 Times in 10,773 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Love is... The ability to say yes to new adventures, friends, feelings, conversations, and remembering life is short. Love is... finding a positive outlook. Love is...a happy life! __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.