Instant Turn-Offs

Gayandgray · 08-09-2017, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe

Anyone constantly bragging about all their "material" possessions!

I have a friend that does this and it's so annoying! I asked her just last week when she died was she gonna be able to fit all her crap in her coffin? Because you can't take all your stuff with you when you die!

Kätzchen · 08-11-2017, 07:00 PM

Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness.

Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean).

Be Clean. Bee On Time.

Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced...

cinnamongrrl · 08-11-2017, 07:27 PM

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PlatinumPearl · 01-22-2018, 12:10 PM

Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me.

However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

~ocean · 01-22-2018, 12:28 PM

When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date .

RockOn · 01-22-2018, 04:01 PM

emotionally cold personality

*Anya* · 01-22-2018, 05:32 PM

I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker.

Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this.

I think it is kind of creepy.

*wink, wink*

Ooh.

PlatinumPearl · 08-17-2022, 09:25 PM

Weak, cowardly and deceitful people/person.

Kätzchen · 08-17-2022, 09:38 PM

Smoking cigarettes or smoking anything. Smoking can and will kill you.

Such a huge turn off.

Im glad i have been smoke free since June 6th. Ive had many stressful events happen since i quit but i never once wanted to light up and smoke. That was a very bad, unhealthy habit i have had for years and im so glad i finally saw the light.

Canela · 08-17-2022, 11:08 PM

Those who drink yet lie about it. Just own your stuff man…

Stone-Butch · 08-18-2022, 05:26 PM

When going on a first date to a party let your date know if you are a "drug user socially". Works both ways. No surprises.

kittygrrl · 08-19-2022, 01:15 PM

Boundaries...when you step on/over them(on purpose)

Reach *BANNED* · 08-19-2022, 01:57 PM

Disrespect and rudeness in any form.. shown to Me.. or to anyone else.

08-11-2017, 07:00 PM	#2
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a Brick House (Femme) Relationship Status: Busy (involved with a special someone here at home) Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,275 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,290 Thanked 33,636 Times in 10,728 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Two (2) Dirty cars.... or ..... tardiness. Please, PLEASE, for the love of Johnson & Johnson Wax and chamois cloths, clean your car, get it detailed, make sure the floor boards and under the seats are vacuumed, and for the LOVE of Windex, please make sure the windows are spotless, mirrors too. Also, make sure the interior seats are well groomed. Make sure the car smells divine (synonym for clean). Be Clean. Bee On Time. Bonus points for making sure all tires are properly aired and balanced... __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. ”Without justice, democracy dies,” — Jess Michaels (Epstein survivor). Please join the greater efforts of everyday American’s in boycotting billionaire business and news agencies until all contents of the Epstein Files are revealed and the entire collection of corrupt officials face justice for their Un-American acts endangering us and others globally.

08-11-2017, 07:27 PM	#3
cinnamongrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?: wild woman Relationship Status: No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time… Posts: 7,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,247 Thanked 27,604 Times in 6,959 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, __________________ Last edited by cinnamongrrl; 08-11-2017 at 07:29 PM. Reason: wrong forum...sorry im tipsy

01-22-2018, 12:10 PM	#4
PlatinumPearl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Human Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 1,150 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 966 Thanked 2,418 Times in 890 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Language Profanity. You can be absolutely amazing but if you use foul language consistently to express yourself it's an instant turn-off for me. However, with that being said there are time where it can be appropriate though...

01-22-2018, 12:28 PM	#5
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,012 Times in 4,723 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	When someone with a negative assumption and comments on something you say, that's not needed. That type of rudeness is a huge turn off . I'm very attracted to a classy person as a friend or date . __________________ ~ Always, ocean

01-22-2018, 05:32 PM	#7
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,443 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I just saw a guy do this on TV and it reminded me of this: a winker. Someone that winks at me in the middle of a conversation. People that are winkers tend to do it no matter how serious the conversation. I don't even like it if someone is flirting and does this. I think it is kind of creepy. wink, wink Ooh. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

01-22-2018, 04:01 PM	#6
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	emotionally cold personality

08-17-2022, 09:25 PM	#8
PlatinumPearl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Human Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 1,150 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 966 Thanked 2,418 Times in 890 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Instant Turn-Offs Weak, cowardly and deceitful people/person.

08-17-2022, 09:38 PM	#9
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a Brick House (Femme) Relationship Status: Busy (involved with a special someone here at home) Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,275 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,290 Thanked 33,636 Times in 10,728 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Smoking cigarettes or smoking anything. Smoking can and will kill you. Such a huge turn off. Im glad i have been smoke free since June 6th. Ive had many stressful events happen since i quit but i never once wanted to light up and smoke. That was a very bad, unhealthy habit i have had for years and im so glad i finally saw the light. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. ”Without justice, democracy dies,” — Jess Michaels (Epstein survivor). Please join the greater efforts of everyday American’s in boycotting billionaire business and news agencies until all contents of the Epstein Files are revealed and the entire collection of corrupt officials face justice for their Un-American acts endangering us and others globally.

08-17-2022, 11:08 PM	#10
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status: Well loved… Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 2,375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,644 Thanked 6,502 Times in 1,694 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Those who drink yet lie about it. Just own your stuff man… __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

08-18-2022, 05:26 PM	#11
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,747 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,370 Thanked 9,432 Times in 3,090 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Instant Turn Offs When going on a first date to a party let your date know if you are a "drug user socially". Works both ways. No surprises.

08-19-2022, 01:15 PM	#12
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wrapped in a shawl Posts: 9,764 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,730 Thanked 22,161 Times in 7,228 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Boundaries...when you step on/over them(on purpose) __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

08-19-2022, 01:57 PM	#13
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,274 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	Disrespect and rudeness in any form.. shown to Me.. or to anyone else.