Breaking The Stereotype!

UofMfan · 05-28-2010, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by June

Hi, I'm June and I'm a Femme. I stuck my hand up a chicken butt this week and want everyone to appreciate this as a traditionally Butch thing to do, but I broke through the stereotypes and just went for it.

Oh you trailblazer!

Hi, I am butch, I can change the oil, tires and the engine if need be, but I rather pay someone else to do it as my time is very valuable.

I scream "like a girl" (maybe because I once was one) when I unexpectedly find large moths in my apartment.

That is all I am willing to share right now and only because I don't want any puppies to be kidnapped or hurt during this exercise.

Gayla · 05-28-2010, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by UofMfan

Oh you trailblazer!

I can change the oil, tires and the engine if need be, but I rather pay someone else to do it as my time is very valuable.

I scream "like a girl" (maybe because I once was one) when I unexpectedly find large moths in my apartment.

That is all I am willing to share right now and only because I don't want any puppies to be kidnapped or hurt during this exercise.

Thanks for playing but... the bold parts above are what I meant when I asked people not to qualify or justify. It's really hard for me not to do. "I own womens shoes." (but only two pairs and that's because I kinda have to for work blah blah blah). The reasons why don't matter and it doesn't make me "less butch". I guess I'm just challenging people to not worry about perception and just be honest. My hope is that someone may come to this site, confused because they think they're butch but wear women's underwear, and find a place where they can discover that's ok.

apretty · 05-28-2010, 05:49 PM

i will drive through alleys and swerve off of the road to check out something that someone's discarded. also, i'd race you to a dumpster.

just now we were picking up e's truck and i 'caught' myself walking 5 steps ahead and readying myself to deal with talking to the mechanic, looking over the bill, whatever the stuff is that you do--if it's your truck. (not sure if that speaks to my femme-ID or it just means i'm controlling/bossy but it's typical-me)

Rook · 05-28-2010, 06:58 PM

hmm...
gonna give this a shot...

♦ I panic when I see hornets/wasps/yellow jackets real close by....I don't "Squeak", or "Scream all Girly"....but you'll Definitely know, w/o a shred of Doubt

♦ I will Coddle random furcritters, and baby talk....

♦ Not fond of Camping in the Forest...

♦ Although I enjoy Surfing, I prefer a very Chlorinated Pool {less sharks, y'know?}

♦ I'm really picky about my shampoo/conditioner/body-hand soaps....And clothes detergents....

♦ I'll spend Lots of time in a Greenhouse/Flower Store...

♦ Occasionally, instead of Home Improv. area, you'll probably find me in the baby/toddler area lost in thought over what I'd purchase IF i ever had kids...

♦ My bedsheets have Got to be clean, and soft and very Warm, occasionally, I'll pick Light colours...If I can afford egyptian cotton 400 + thread CT., I'll be on cloud 9 for weeks.

♦ Don't know much about car maintenance..

♦ Even less of Plumbing...

♦ Don't even try to ask me to repair anything {unless u have the # of a Pro or an Explicit Manual}...

♦ I'm a good Cook, and I luv makin desserts...

♦ I like all sorts of Ballads, Power Ballads, Love Songs, Classics, Sexy stuph etc etc....

{i'm sure there's more...but..for now...meh}

Mitmo01 · 05-28-2010, 05:51 PM

I cry like and wail and hurt at things like hurt animals or crying little kids or if i feel sad--i used ot hate feeling so sensitive and i always have to fight that voice inside that says stop crying you look stoopid

My Woman is the Dom and i like it that way--bossy women are hot

I have long curly hair and it will always be long i wish i could dread it --hey im a beach bum from hawaii and my hair has always been long and usually bleacehd from the sun if i had my way lol

my underwear is like the el cheapo hanes from wally world in all kinds of fantastic colors because i dont really give a fuck about what i wear underneath my clothes since they dont usually stay on long anyway lol and the people that i care about dont give a fuck what i wear underneath my clothes lolol

I do not own womens shoes and no womens clothes but mah woman can rock the hell outta a skirt lol

I wouldnt change the oil on my car for anything id rather someone else do it

but i can change a tire and i can lift heavy shit when i want but im a lazy fucka

JustJo · 05-28-2010, 05:52 PM

I'm Jo and femme...

I own and use a snowblower. When the electric starter died I just started using the pull-start.

I remodeled my home office - including hanging sheet rock, framing in a window and moving all the furniture alone. This included using power tools...which I own.

I've never had my hand up a chicken, but have had my entire arm up a pregnant cow more times than I can count. Smallest hands on the dairy...tag, I'm it.

When it's time to put the air conditioner in the bedroom window, I just carry it up to the second floor from the basement. It weighs about 60 lbs.

I have ridden a bull. I did not make it to the buzzer.

apretty · 05-28-2010, 05:57 PM

i want one of these:

SassyLeo · 05-28-2010, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by apretty

i want one of these:

OOOOH imagine the FUN you could have in that?!

My grandparents lived in the Sierra Nevadas... my poppy had one of these:

Though he used it to go out in the woods of their land, so it was not as nice as this one.

I always told him that I wanted it. If he ever decided to get rid of it...to tell me!

He sold it and then he died a couple years ago.

I still want one.

scootebaby · 05-28-2010, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by JustJo

I'm Jo and femme...
I have ridden a bull. I did not make it to the buzzer.

awww honey i told you we didnt NEED that buzzer! lol

oh wait this is "break the stereotype"...habit sorry! please continue

Mitmo01 · 05-28-2010, 06:14 PM

oh yeah i forgot i will run and hide and go into spasms when spiders or wasps or hornets are in my vicinity

mah woman has had to protect me many times from the evil creatures and yes i can scream loudly when they come near me although i always try to run away first lol

Massive · 05-28-2010, 06:39 PM

Let's see:
I sew.
I make jewelry.
I don't follow sports, they bore Me to death, like I'll fall asleep, deliberately if you try to make Me watch it.
I don't do anything mechanical.
I cry watching shows about animal cruelty and I always cry when the Ewoks friend dies in Return of the Jedi, every single time ...
I love the colour pink, I even had hot pink hair up until recently.
I write poetry for My babygirl.
I admit to always feeling happy whenever the good guy gets the girl in a movie.
I use hand lotion, frequently, and if my fingernails are in a sorry state, I use clear nail polish on them.
That's all I can think of for now, I'm sure I'll have more to add at a later date though.

Gayla · 05-28-2010, 06:44 PM

~ I bake.

~ I talk. A lot.

~ I like fruity drinks served in coconut shells with little paper umbrellas.

05-28-2010, 06:58 PM	#4
Rook Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A.G - Stone Butch - GenderFuck Preferred Pronoun?: Hym, Hyz...or, just b respectable, it's not that hard.. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Columbus Posts: 2,280 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,227 Thanked 3,182 Times in 1,287 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	hmm... gonna give this a shot... ♦ I panic when I see hornets/wasps/yellow jackets real close by....I don't "Squeak", or "Scream all Girly"....but you'll Definitely know, w/o a shred of Doubt ♦ I will Coddle random furcritters, and baby talk.... ♦ Not fond of Camping in the Forest... ♦ Although I enjoy Surfing, I prefer a very Chlorinated Pool {less sharks, y'know?} ♦ I'm really picky about my shampoo/conditioner/body-hand soaps....And clothes detergents.... ♦ I'll spend Lots of time in a Greenhouse/Flower Store... ♦ Occasionally, instead of Home Improv. area, you'll probably find me in the baby/toddler area lost in thought over what I'd purchase IF i ever had kids... ♦ My bedsheets have Got to be clean, and soft and very Warm, occasionally, I'll pick Light colours...If I can afford egyptian cotton 400 + thread CT., I'll be on cloud 9 for weeks. ♦ Don't know much about car maintenance.. ♦ Even less of Plumbing... ♦ Don't even try to ask me to repair anything {unless u have the # of a Pro or an Explicit Manual}... ♦ I'm a good Cook, and I luv makin desserts... ♦ I like all sorts of Ballads, Power Ballads, Love Songs, Classics, Sexy stuph etc etc.... {i'm sure there's more...but..for now...meh} __________________

05-28-2010, 05:51 PM	#5
Mitmo01 Member How Do You Identify?: Disobedient Thing... Preferred Pronoun?: Rebel Soul in the blood..Heathen as well Relationship Status: Marked and Loved....I Belong to Her.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Omaha Posts: 984 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,523 Thanked 1,354 Times in 579 Posts Rep Power: 927728	well im gonna bite this one off lolol I cry like and wail and hurt at things like hurt animals or crying little kids or if i feel sad--i used ot hate feeling so sensitive and i always have to fight that voice inside that says stop crying you look stoopid My Woman is the Dom and i like it that way--bossy women are hot I have long curly hair and it will always be long i wish i could dread it --hey im a beach bum from hawaii and my hair has always been long and usually bleacehd from the sun if i had my way lol my underwear is like the el cheapo hanes from wally world in all kinds of fantastic colors because i dont really give a fuck about what i wear underneath my clothes since they dont usually stay on long anyway lol and the people that i care about dont give a fuck what i wear underneath my clothes lolol I do not own womens shoes and no womens clothes but mah woman can rock the hell outta a skirt lol I wouldnt change the oil on my car for anything id rather someone else do it but i can change a tire and i can lift heavy shit when i want but im a lazy fucka

05-28-2010, 05:52 PM	#6
JustJo Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: pushy broad Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Follow your heart; it knows things your mind cannot explain. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Southeast corner Posts: 5,633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,417 Thanked 25,406 Times in 4,660 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I'm Jo and femme... I own and use a snowblower. When the electric starter died I just started using the pull-start. I remodeled my home office - including hanging sheet rock, framing in a window and moving all the furniture alone. This included using power tools...which I own. I've never had my hand up a chicken, but have had my entire arm up a pregnant cow more times than I can count. Smallest hands on the dairy...tag, I'm it. When it's time to put the air conditioner in the bedroom window, I just carry it up to the second floor from the basement. It weighs about 60 lbs. I have ridden a bull. I did not make it to the buzzer. __________________ I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters

05-28-2010, 06:39 PM	#11
Massive Member How Do You Identify?: Trans man Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: not looking Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Northern England Posts: 945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,669 Thanked 2,383 Times in 765 Posts Rep Power: 17762095	Let's see: I sew. I make jewelry. I don't follow sports, they bore Me to death, like I'll fall asleep, deliberately if you try to make Me watch it. I don't do anything mechanical. I cry watching shows about animal cruelty and I always cry when the Ewoks friend dies in Return of the Jedi, every single time ... I love the colour pink, I even had hot pink hair up until recently. I write poetry for My babygirl. I admit to always feeling happy whenever the good guy gets the girl in a movie. I use hand lotion, frequently, and if my fingernails are in a sorry state, I use clear nail polish on them. That's all I can think of for now, I'm sure I'll have more to add at a later date though. __________________ You may not be able to choose your bio-family, but you can choose your Family

05-28-2010, 05:49 PM	#3
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,374 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	i will drive through alleys and swerve off of the road to check out something that someone's discarded. also, i'd race you to a dumpster. just now we were picking up e's truck and i 'caught' myself walking 5 steps ahead and readying myself to deal with talking to the mechanic, looking over the bill, whatever the stuff is that you do--if it's your truck. (not sure if that speaks to my femme-ID or it just means i'm controlling/bossy but it's typical-me)

05-28-2010, 05:57 PM	#7
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,374 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	i want one of these:

05-28-2010, 06:14 PM	#10
Mitmo01 Member How Do You Identify?: Disobedient Thing... Preferred Pronoun?: Rebel Soul in the blood..Heathen as well Relationship Status: Marked and Loved....I Belong to Her.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Omaha Posts: 984 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,523 Thanked 1,354 Times in 579 Posts Rep Power: 927728	oh yeah i forgot i will run and hide and go into spasms when spiders or wasps or hornets are in my vicinity mah woman has had to protect me many times from the evil creatures and yes i can scream loudly when they come near me although i always try to run away first lol

05-28-2010, 06:44 PM	#12
Gayla Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kinky Butch Top Preferred Pronoun?: I'm not picky Relationship Status: She makes me dance like a fool and forget how to breathe. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SF CA Posts: 3,229 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 877 Thanked 7,077 Times in 1,966 Posts Rep Power: 0	~ I bake. ~ I talk. A lot. ~ I like fruity drinks served in coconut shells with little paper umbrellas.