Here come the lesbians, here come the leaping lesbians...

Liam · 05-28-2010, 05:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pretty Woman

Only one has clearly identified as a lesbian. I will make it 2. I AM A FEMME LESBIAN.I've been reading alot of these posts this week (not this one, but others on id and nomenclature), hy, she, masculine, feminine, trans included, why weren't trans included, this is misogynistic, etc. I think you get the point.

So I am struck by the lack of clarity thus far from the postings here and from folks that are usually very clear in other types of postings...are you a lesbian? I think that was the OP here.Why the lack of clarity?

I thought it was rather clear, that I am a guy, however I am an EX-LESBIAN. I heard a member in our community express a need for a lesbian thread, and that is why I created this. I have no intention of participating further in it. Thanks to all of the lesbians and their allies who have posted thus far.

Lynn · 05-28-2010, 05:55 PM

I'm usually one of the first on the block to raise my hand to the lesbian question. Just sat down to the computer after work and dinner. Am I late to the party?

Yes, I am a lesbian. First and foremost, of all my "orientations" and proclivities. Lesbian!

Stoney · 05-28-2010, 06:09 PM

okay......Ill settle for a sniff test. ..

Beau · 05-28-2010, 06:14 PM

L-E-S-B-I-A-N spells me
Skipping gaily through this thread to say unequivocally, I'm a lesbian, dyke, gay, bulldagger. Some people call this form of queer "butch".

ETA: I wrote this merely 3 days ago because I thought Bully had started a thread to help identify and/or acknowledge those who are lesbians on the site. And yeah, I'll post this everyday if I have to.

I don't want to, though. All this skipping and gaiety is exhausting.

Soft*Silver · 05-28-2010, 06:36 PM

funny that this thread came up today, on the day I was telling someone I was thinking BFP had become a gender debate planet, not a BF site.

I am a lesbian tho people have tried to call me other things. Some call me bisexual. Some call me queer. Some call me straight. Shrug. I call myself lesbian. I am a lesbian who has dated and been partnered with CIS men, transmen, TG, male IDd lesbians, female IDd lesbians and once, a long long time ago, a femme lesbian. She proved to me that there were indeed limits to who I would date..lol

I hate the word queer. I grew up in the day when queer was a hate word. Ya I know, reclaim it and use it. Well, you can use it if you want. I hate it. I am a lesbian. And I am not going to polish up my opinion by saying "I dont like it"...because its politically incorrect to say you hate anything that someone might label themselves as. Sorry. I am talking about me and only me and I would hate that word if it were identified with me.

I am a lesbian who has loved FtMs and TG and STILL considered myself a lesbian. For awhile I was kinda lost about the label and then I just didnt care what the politics of the day had become. I am a lesbian.

I LOVE being a lesbian. And I love who I love and they can have any label they want...I will love them by name not label.

amiyesiam · 05-28-2010, 07:31 PM

Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce:
I too, am a lesbian!!
No one has ever said anything about this to me.
but then most people aren't negative to me
but then I bite
or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that

Corkey · 05-28-2010, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amiyesiam

Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce:
I too, am a lesbian!!
No one has ever said anything about this to me.
but then most people aren't negative to me
but then I bite
or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that

There's my leaping Lesbian....love ya Baby!

Starbuck · 01-09-2011, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Beau

L-E-S-B-I-A-N spells me
Skipping gaily through this thread to say unequivocally, I'm a lesbian, dyke, gay, bulldagger. Some people call this form of queer "butch".

ETA: I wrote this merely 3 days ago because I thought Bully had started a thread to help identify and/or acknowledge those who are lesbians on the site. And yeah, I'll post this everyday if I have to.

I don't want to, though. All this skipping and gaiety is exhausting.

LOL! I LOVE IT

05-28-2010, 05:55 PM	#2
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,412 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9668976	I'm usually one of the first on the block to raise my hand to the lesbian question. Just sat down to the computer after work and dinner. Am I late to the party? Yes, I am a lesbian. First and foremost, of all my "orientations" and proclivities. Lesbian! __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c

05-28-2010, 06:14 PM	#4
Beau Timed Out How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: . Posts: 178 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 71 Thanked 339 Times in 87 Posts Rep Power: 0	reposting from the "other" Lesbian thread L-E-S-B-I-A-N spells me Skipping gaily through this thread to say unequivocally, I'm a lesbian, dyke, gay, bulldagger. Some people call this form of queer "butch". ETA: I wrote this merely 3 days ago because I thought Bully had started a thread to help identify and/or acknowledge those who are lesbians on the site. And yeah, I'll post this everyday if I have to. I don't want to, though. All this skipping and gaiety is exhausting.

05-28-2010, 06:36 PM	#5
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,896 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474858	funny that this thread came up today, on the day I was telling someone I was thinking BFP had become a gender debate planet, not a BF site. I am a lesbian tho people have tried to call me other things. Some call me bisexual. Some call me queer. Some call me straight. Shrug. I call myself lesbian. I am a lesbian who has dated and been partnered with CIS men, transmen, TG, male IDd lesbians, female IDd lesbians and once, a long long time ago, a femme lesbian. She proved to me that there were indeed limits to who I would date..lol I hate the word queer. I grew up in the day when queer was a hate word. Ya I know, reclaim it and use it. Well, you can use it if you want. I hate it. I am a lesbian. And I am not going to polish up my opinion by saying "I dont like it"...because its politically incorrect to say you hate anything that someone might label themselves as. Sorry. I am talking about me and only me and I would hate that word if it were identified with me. I am a lesbian who has loved FtMs and TG and STILL considered myself a lesbian. For awhile I was kinda lost about the label and then I just didnt care what the politics of the day had become. I am a lesbian. I LOVE being a lesbian. And I love who I love and they can have any label they want...I will love them by name not label. __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

05-28-2010, 07:31 PM	#6
amiyesiam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/they Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: pa Posts: 2,703 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,488 Thanked 10,135 Times in 2,161 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce: I too, am a lesbian!! No one has ever said anything about this to me. but then most people aren't negative to me but then I bite or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that __________________ A year from now you will wish that you started today~Karen Lamb

05-28-2010, 06:09 PM	#3
Stoney Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch lesbian feminist Crone Preferred Pronoun?: Wicked Witch Relationship Status: happily content Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 135 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 112 Thanked 229 Times in 60 Posts Rep Power: 245966	okay......Ill settle for a sniff test. ..