Here come the lesbians, here come the leaping lesbians...

Soft*Silver · 05-28-2010, 06:36 PM

funny that this thread came up today, on the day I was telling someone I was thinking BFP had become a gender debate planet, not a BF site.

I am a lesbian tho people have tried to call me other things. Some call me bisexual. Some call me queer. Some call me straight. Shrug. I call myself lesbian. I am a lesbian who has dated and been partnered with CIS men, transmen, TG, male IDd lesbians, female IDd lesbians and once, a long long time ago, a femme lesbian. She proved to me that there were indeed limits to who I would date..lol

I hate the word queer. I grew up in the day when queer was a hate word. Ya I know, reclaim it and use it. Well, you can use it if you want. I hate it. I am a lesbian. And I am not going to polish up my opinion by saying "I dont like it"...because its politically incorrect to say you hate anything that someone might label themselves as. Sorry. I am talking about me and only me and I would hate that word if it were identified with me.

I am a lesbian who has loved FtMs and TG and STILL considered myself a lesbian. For awhile I was kinda lost about the label and then I just didnt care what the politics of the day had become. I am a lesbian.

I LOVE being a lesbian. And I love who I love and they can have any label they want...I will love them by name not label.

amiyesiam · 05-28-2010, 07:31 PM

Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce:
I too, am a lesbian!!
No one has ever said anything about this to me.
but then most people aren't negative to me
but then I bite
or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that

Corkey · 05-28-2010, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amiyesiam

Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce:
I too, am a lesbian!!
No one has ever said anything about this to me.
but then most people aren't negative to me
but then I bite
or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that

There's my leaping Lesbian....love ya Baby!

scootebaby · 05-28-2010, 07:56 PM

whaaaaaaaaa??? i just realized im supposed to be a "leaping" lesbian...ummm i havent "leaped" since i was uhhhh 27....does that mean im not a lesbian now???

JustJo · 05-28-2010, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by scootebaby

whaaaaaaaaa??? i just realized im supposed to be a "leaping" lesbian...ummm i havent "" since i was uhhhh 27....does that mean im not a lesbian now???

Don't worry baby...I'll vouch for you

Lady Pamela · 05-28-2010, 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scootebaby

whaaaaaaaaa??? i just realized im supposed to be a "leaping" lesbian...ummm i havent "leaped" since i was uhhhh 27....does that mean im not a lesbian now???

Here!
Let me make sure you understand...lol

This means Proud:

This means lesbian in sign :

Yes ...I am a Proud Lesbian....Smiles

Toughy · 05-28-2010, 08:13 PM

the Lesbian Concentrate album is now running through my mind...........Meg did 'leaping lesbians' and then there was 'ode to a gym teacher' and of course..........'filling up and spilling over endless waterfall'............

_______________________

Andrew, I know you didn't mean anything harmful.......butch can be lesbian and woman and female.....it's not just your femme sisters who are lesbians....your butch sisters are also lesbians...

_________________________

AND>>>>>>>>>>> yeppers I am a lesbian....although I have never been particularly fond of that term......I prefer 'big ole dyke' or bulldyke or butch dyke.......

my sexual orientation is strictly towards other females/women and pretty specific to femmes who get I am butch and I am woman. Who celebrate both genders I live in on a daily basis. They are damn hard to find these days.....in my experience

tribalwomon · 05-28-2010, 09:05 PM

Hello.....i'm tribalwomon..lesbian of color...who is so into Meg Christian..

Lady Pamela · 05-28-2010, 09:16 PM

Peekin in to say,

Count me in!

I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN!

AND PROUD TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH THEM AS WELL!

ANY QUESTIONS?

suebee · 05-28-2010, 09:18 PM

I'm a big fat lesbian!

.....but you can call me Sue

Softhearted · 05-28-2010, 09:43 PM

OMG! How come I've missed this thread!!!!!

<------------------ LESBIAN - WOMAN - FEMALE

which would translate into my language by: lesbienne - femme - femelle

Tommi · 05-28-2010, 10:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toughy

the Lesbian Concentrate album is now running through my mind...........Meg did 'leaping lesbians' and then there was 'ode to a gym teacher' and of course..........'filling up and spilling over endless waterfall'............

Ah...lesbian icons

scootebaby · 05-28-2010, 10:16 PM

lol thanks for clearing that up for me Lady Pamela

Lady Pamela · 05-28-2010, 10:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scootebaby

lol thanks for clearing that up for me Lady Pamela

Sure thing..Wouldn't want ya lost!

Afterall, thats are good friends are for..Right?....smiles

Gayla · 05-28-2010, 11:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi

Ah...lesbian icons

I drove back and forth across the country, twice, in a Nova, listening to Blue Rider over and over on cassette.

I've got a good selection of Chris Williamson on mp3 and occasionally plug her into Pandora just to see what comes up.

CherylNYC · 05-28-2010, 11:14 PM

Yup. I'm a leaping, flying, cartwheeling lesbian.

FeminineAllure · 09-04-2010, 10:41 PM

Here to be counted. I am a lesbian.
However, I prefer to crawl on in instead of leaping at the moment.

TrackerGirl1969 · 09-24-2010, 11:02 PM

I'm new here, but I AM a lesbian.
I refuse to leap though!

Jess · 09-25-2010, 06:06 AM

Welcome aboard Tracker! I don't think leaping is a requirement... some of us stroll, skip, saunter and swagger!

It's not how you get here.. it's that you did!

Enjoy the site!

Jess and christie

justjoanie1 · 09-25-2010, 07:39 AM

I'm a non-leaping lesbian. Me leaping would not be a pretty site.
New here, so how about I just peek around the corner and see who is here! (well, maybe not, that would just make me a peeking lesbian)

05-28-2010, 06:36 PM	#1
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	funny that this thread came up today, on the day I was telling someone I was thinking BFP had become a gender debate planet, not a BF site. I am a lesbian tho people have tried to call me other things. Some call me bisexual. Some call me queer. Some call me straight. Shrug. I call myself lesbian. I am a lesbian who has dated and been partnered with CIS men, transmen, TG, male IDd lesbians, female IDd lesbians and once, a long long time ago, a femme lesbian. She proved to me that there were indeed limits to who I would date..lol I hate the word queer. I grew up in the day when queer was a hate word. Ya I know, reclaim it and use it. Well, you can use it if you want. I hate it. I am a lesbian. And I am not going to polish up my opinion by saying "I dont like it"...because its politically incorrect to say you hate anything that someone might label themselves as. Sorry. I am talking about me and only me and I would hate that word if it were identified with me. I am a lesbian who has loved FtMs and TG and STILL considered myself a lesbian. For awhile I was kinda lost about the label and then I just didnt care what the politics of the day had become. I am a lesbian. I LOVE being a lesbian. And I love who I love and they can have any label they want...I will love them by name not label. __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

05-28-2010, 07:31 PM	#2
amiyesiam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/they Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: pa Posts: 2,703 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,488 Thanked 10,135 Times in 2,161 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Gayly prancing in, with an occassional leap, to twirl around and announce: I too, am a lesbian!! No one has ever said anything about this to me. but then most people aren't negative to me but then I bite or maybe they are scared of me, cause ya know, I'm mean like that __________________ A year from now you will wish that you started today~Karen Lamb

05-28-2010, 08:13 PM	#7
Toughy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: pervert butch feminist woman Preferred Pronoun?: see above Relationship Status: independent entity Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,826 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,068 Thanked 7,653 Times in 1,522 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	the Lesbian Concentrate album is now running through my mind...........Meg did 'leaping lesbians' and then there was 'ode to a gym teacher' and of course..........'filling up and spilling over endless waterfall'............ _______________________ Andrew, I know you didn't mean anything harmful.......butch can be lesbian and woman and female.....it's not just your femme sisters who are lesbians....your butch sisters are also lesbians... _________________________ AND>>>>>>>>>>> yeppers I am a lesbian....although I have never been particularly fond of that term......I prefer 'big ole dyke' or bulldyke or butch dyke....... my sexual orientation is strictly towards other females/women and pretty specific to femmes who get I am butch and I am woman. Who celebrate both genders I live in on a daily basis. They are damn hard to find these days.....in my experience __________________ We are everywhere We are different I do not care if resistance is futile I will not assimilate www.butchfemmesocials.com/

05-28-2010, 09:05 PM	#8
tribalwomon Junior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: baltimore, maryland USA Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21 Thanked 7 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	lesbian Hello.....i'm tribalwomon..lesbian of color...who is so into Meg Christian.. __________________ We are simlpe... we are complex..we are many pieces..many masks..everhere...evergone...slowly disappearing into woven threads of water...that turns into STONE...irene

05-28-2010, 09:16 PM	#9
Lady Pamela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A Lady..Femme..Free Spirit with a touch of survivalist woman in me. Preferred Pronoun?: Spiritual Warrior..She Ra..Baby Doll, or anything close..ha! Relationship Status: In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Live in Utah but take trips to Arkansas. Plan to move there eventually. Posts: 2,579 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,073 Thanked 5,940 Times in 1,609 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Peekin in to say, Count me in! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUND LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! I'M A PROUD LESBIAN! AND PROUD TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH THEM AS WELL! ANY QUESTIONS? __________________ Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~~ Author unknown ~~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~~ Lady Pamela ~~

05-28-2010, 07:56 PM	#4
scootebaby Timed Out How Do You Identify?: yes dear Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: south florida Posts: 2,494 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,264 Thanked 6,737 Times in 1,777 Posts Rep Power: 0	whaaaaaaaaa??? i just realized im supposed to be a "leaping" lesbian...ummm i havent "leaped" since i was uhhhh 27....does that mean im not a lesbian now???

05-28-2010, 09:18 PM	#10
suebee Member How Do You Identify?: TOWANDA! Preferred Pronoun?: Queen Bee Relationship Status: Good 'n married. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Eastern Canada. But if I make a wrong turn at the lights I get stopped by a border guard. Posts: 1,499 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,355 Thanked 2,756 Times in 820 Posts Rep Power: 16450092	I'm a big fat lesbian! .....but you can call me Sue __________________ "Compassion, in which all ethics must take root, can only attain its full breadth and depth if it embraces all living creatures and does not limit itself to mankind." -Albert Schweitzer

05-28-2010, 09:43 PM	#11
Softhearted Member How Do You Identify?: --- Preferred Pronoun?: ---- Relationship Status: --- Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: --- Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 454 Thanked 285 Times in 109 Posts Rep Power: 1556234	OMG! How come I've missed this thread!!!!! <------------------ LESBIAN - WOMAN - FEMALE which would translate into my language by: lesbienne - femme - femelle

05-28-2010, 10:16 PM	#13
scootebaby Timed Out How Do You Identify?: yes dear Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: south florida Posts: 2,494 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,264 Thanked 6,737 Times in 1,777 Posts Rep Power: 0	lol thanks for clearing that up for me Lady Pamela

05-28-2010, 11:14 PM	#16
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,116 Times in 1,205 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Yup. I'm a leaping, flying, cartwheeling lesbian. __________________ Cheryl

09-04-2010, 10:41 PM	#17
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Here to be counted. I am a lesbian. However, I prefer to crawl on in instead of leaping at the moment. __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you

09-24-2010, 11:02 PM	#18
TrackerGirl1969 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: somewhere in between Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Oregon Posts: 3 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 4 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	I'm new here, but I AM a lesbian. I refuse to leap though!

09-25-2010, 06:06 AM	#19
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,700 Times in 1,682 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome aboard Tracker! I don't think leaping is a requirement... some of us stroll, skip, saunter and swagger! It's not how you get here.. it's that you did! Enjoy the site! Jess and christie

09-25-2010, 07:39 AM	#20
justjoanie1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lake Placid, FL Posts: 13 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 13 Times in 7 Posts Rep Power: 1355	non leaping I'm a non-leaping lesbian. Me leaping would not be a pretty site. New here, so how about I just peek around the corner and see who is here! (well, maybe not, that would just make me a peeking lesbian)