Forgiveness

girl_dee · 11-12-2017, 07:27 AM

In general, how would you forgive someone who is not remorseful? This is where forgiveness is granted or not granted for me.

~ocean · 11-12-2017, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

In general, how would you forgive someone who is not remorseful? This is where forgiveness is granted or not granted for me.

forgiveness always was a personal ending to a sensitive subject with someone :either special or just a social situation.

girl_dee · 11-12-2017, 01:07 PM

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forgiveness always was a personal ending to a sensitive subject with someone :either special or just a social situation.

i am not sure it would be an ending though.

homoe · 11-12-2017, 07:40 AM

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In general, how would you forgive someone who is not remorseful? This is where forgiveness is granted or not granted for me.

I am a Cancer we can forgive BUT we NEVER forget................

~ocean · 11-12-2017, 07:43 AM

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I am a Cancer we can forgive BUT we NEVER forget................

yada yada so u took your ginko.....lol

candy_coated_bitch · 11-12-2017, 03:10 PM

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In general, how would you forgive someone who is not remorseful? This is where forgiveness is granted or not granted for me.

There are people who have been in my life, abusers for example, that I feel no need to forgive. Ever. I know it's healing for some but I don't see a point in making a huge deal expending energy forgiving them

As far as lesser transgressions I think for me whether or not a person is remorseful also counts with me. If a person has no remorse I am most likely just going to move on with my life and not look back. If it's something really small I may not move on from that person but hearing an I'm sorry is always nice.

Chad · 11-12-2017, 03:23 PM

For me forgiveness is directly connected to the offense. If it is a great offense directed to me specifically then I would rather not have that person in my life so there would be no forgiveness.

If someone that I love and respect makes a mistake and I am indirectly affected then I would most likely forgive them.

Remorse does matter but some actions are unforgivable.

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