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Old 04-26-2018, 07:46 PM   #1
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I've had a tendency to date younger women mostly because some my age act way too old....and I am very young at heart. I have experienced the comments "oh you are a dirty old butch"...why should I be perceived like that when men have been doing it for ages.

An age gap is not the gap to worry about, if we can relate, understand and enjoy life with each other what's wrong with that. There may be some life experience that we can't relate to, but I assure you that some younger women have experienced more than I ever will.

So if she doesn't know a show called The Brady Bunch I'm okay with that as long as we both respect, care for and love each other isn't that all that really matters.
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as long as u are attracted to each other enjoy !! I personally like to dance to the same beat. I find the greying of the temples and smile wrinkles very very sexyyyy ~ and the conversation ohhhhhhhh baby take me now lolol ~
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I have always enjoyed older femmes. In my
culture/family I learned that age brings fullness
of experience, out of this world sensuality, intelligence
and beauty. Yes, the young can have these qualities
as well, but really the fullness of time is what brings
downright gorgeous elegance...Now, as I'm 65 soon to
be 66yo I continue to enjoy older femmes...No judgement,
but an older femme continues to do it for me.

Now yes I run and am very active, so the older femmes
that I engage with are not necessarily as active, but
their intelligence is brilliant, and they love to dance
need I say more? And they love to love in all the ways
that we are compatible...Would I engage a femme in
her fifties? Perhaps if she is completely in her life, but
it would more likely be a femme in her sixties, seventies,
and yes a gorgeous and elegant 80's.

I once painted the portrait of a 97yo woman, who could
tango the hell out of anyone younger, not to mention her
sizzling intelligence, courage, and elegant tastes. She was
straight so I did not pursue but...oh, yes
it's the older femme for me!

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Agree with Salty about own age seeming to act much older. My Partner who is 5 years younger even feels older than I am. Also, the neighbor who is just 6 years older acts (and therefore looks) older than me.
Neighbor even feels older than my mom would be had she still been alive.
I don't get it.
All but those much younger find my music and nightlife intolerable.
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I used to date older as in 10 or more years. Yeah didnt work.

Now i only want to date someone my age or 3 years older.
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What matters is the connection. I have indeed been in live-in relationships with a femme 20 years younger than me and also with a femme who was born in the same year I was. I haven't been in a huge number of relationships but most of them have been near my age, but age differences work fine for me too.

Femmes of all ages are amazing and potentially someone I could have incredible relationship with - partner, friend, etc. I certainly would never say a femme was too old.
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