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Old 05-11-2018, 05:12 PM   #1
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I also highly recommend this fun coloring book. Nice to see representation of Butches of all kinds!






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i may or may not have ordered this.
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for me - I love the female body and brain, with the masculine energy. It’s just a wonderful mix!
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Thanks, my beautiful friend, Femmadian! for your butch love!!

Thanks to all the wonderful posts here....much love felt!
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Awwww...thank you girl_dee
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Thanks, my beautiful friend, Femmadian! for your butch love!!

Thanks to all the wonderful posts here....much love felt!
Ah c'mon not all comments can be taken as a direct compliment to all butches.

Loving this thread but respect must be deserved, it's not a given for all.
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Ah c'mon not all comments can be taken as a direct compliment to all butches.

Loving this thread but respect must be deserved, it's not a given for all.
Runner I think this comment is very mean spirited.

This is the `General Butch Appreciation` thread so yes I do believe posts can be taken and are indeed meant to be taken as a compliment to all Butches, so long as the Butch reading it feels it fits comfortably with their own particular brand/fit of being on the Butch spectrum.

I give due respect to people until they prove they are not worthy of it. Given your comment I would say on this topic you would fall into that category.

I fall to see why you take issue with someone who is gracious enough to thank some of the posts on here.

Please fell free to DM if you wish to discuss this further as I do not want to derail this thread.

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Old 05-21-2018, 02:23 PM   #9
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Old 05-21-2018, 03:40 PM   #10
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Runner I think this comment is very mean spirited.

This is the `General Butch Appreciation` thread so yes I do believe posts can be taken and are indeed meant to be taken as a compliment to all Butches, so long as the Butch reading it feels it fits comfortably with their own particular brand/fit of being on the Butch spectrum.

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Indeed.

I'm not sure where the whole "earning respect" comment came from, but I think such sentiments are unnecessary and do not add to the overall aim of the thread.

For clarification purposes, I started this thread as a way to show a general appreciation for all butches (yes, all) and to have a place to inject a bit of butch/femme specificity and also positivity into this space. If someone sees themselves or a loved one in one of the posts, that's great! That's what it's here for. If not, no problem, but if that's the case, then there are other threads to choose from. I do not appreciate the snark directed at other thread participants.

If we could keep things on topic and not make it personal, that would be lovely.

Thanks!
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Old 05-11-2018, 08:06 PM   #11
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I may or may not have, as well.

I have no idea what I am going to do with it.

But, it seemed important to buy.
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Loving all the posts so far, everyone! Great stuff!



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"She brought me crotchless panties and untied the bows like I was a present that had been wrapped just for her, and before I melted into mindless throbbing waves of orgasm I had a political epiphany: Women who decried being objectified had never had the opportunity to feel like this."

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One thing I appreciate about butches is how they carry their visibility. I envy them and i don’t.
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