"straight" women and Butches.

*Anya* · 07-01-2018, 12:18 PM

Gretchen,

If you are not a troll, you need to find a very, very, good therapist because you need much more help than a forum can give you.

I am quoting tantalizing simply because she separated out the most offensive (out of several) parts of your posts.

Quote:

Originally Posted by tantalizingfemme

I hope you don't say the words tall, curvy, well-endowed, busty, cleavage, feminine, etc. verbally as often as you have in your two posts.

Your last two sentences - creepy, perverted, offensive, talking about sexually assaulting someone, and just gross.

Are you really looking for advice or just a forum to repeat yourself and say gross things about women's bodies on a website full of women?

Quote:

Originally Posted by tantalizingfemme

This is a troll post.

Medusa · 07-01-2018, 01:22 PM

Admin speaking:

Gretchen, it’s fine to ask for help but the folks here are just regular people and even the actual therapists who come here would be remiss to try to hash this out with you in a public setting.

Please understand that there are a LOT of survivors of sexual trauma and harassment here. Hell, you may be one yourself. I just want you think about how it feels to folks when you talk about how hard it is for you to “control your urges”. That is super unsafe for people who have been the survivors of other people who had issues controlling their own urges.

Also? You’re a brand new member here and folks tend to be leery and protective of this space when a brand new person comes out of the gate posting really incendiary posts.

Thanks,
Angie aka The Admin

Medusa · 07-01-2018, 02:14 PM

Gretchen1965-

I am going to ban the IP address that you are posting from.

We do not allow VPNs, ip cloaks, or other devices designed to conceal your identity.

You are free to sign back up on the forum from your home location if your true intent is to participate in discussions but please know, I will be paying closer attention to the signups and will be cross-referencing the IP address used to sign up on this site with all posts and ip locations in our database.

If I find that you are a current member and have created a second screen name, I will ban you permanently from this site.

Thanks,
Angie

Martina · 07-01-2018, 05:10 PM

I read it through twice now. Not sure. But my bet would be that it's a guy. Why that would give anyone a chuckle is beyond me.

imperfect_cupcake · 07-03-2018, 01:27 PM

I was about to suggest to Gretchen she go and see a sex worker who specialises in teaching basic social skills and help explore fantasies. I knew a few, and did a lot of that work myself when I was still in the trade.

But then I remember reading something about the US shutting down all the safe advertising sites.

Therapist, and Sex worker. Both if you have the dosh.

Martina · 07-03-2018, 02:18 PM

She said she is super short and likes super tall women. But then she said she can't help looking "down" at these women's breasts when she talks to them. She's a troll.

FireSignFemme · 07-03-2018, 03:14 PM

Well man, women or child I don't know, but what I do know is this - whatever a person's age, there are definitely better ways to go about expressing oneself and seeking help. I'm in my 50's and if I ever ran around saying stuff like that, oh I would certainly hope someone around me would be lucid enough to have me institutionalized. I'd say whoever is doing it, regardless of age, has to be very, very immature.

*Anya* · 07-03-2018, 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Martina

She said she is super short and likes super tall women. But then she said she can't help looking "down" at these women's breasts when she talks to them. She's a troll.

Quote:

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme

Well man, women or child I don't know, but what I do know is this - whatever a person's age, there are definitely better ways to go about expressing oneself and seeking help. I'm in my 50's and if I ever ran around saying stuff like that, oh I would certainly hope someone around me would be lucid enough to have me institutionalized. I'd say whoever is doing it, regardless of age, has to be very, very immature.

All of it was bad enough but this clinched for me:

"I know this sounds perverted. Like, just, I always have to hold back urges to just touch some tall curvy women breasts or butt. I just get urges to reach out and grope breasts, or slap their butts, or whatever."

Male and a troll.

Dominique · 07-04-2018, 04:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme

Well man, women or child I don't know, but what I do know is this - whatever a person's age, there are definitely better ways to go about expressing oneself and seeking help. I'm in my 50's and if I ever ran around saying stuff like that, oh I would certainly hope someone around me would be lucid enough to have me institutionalized. I'd say whoever is doing it, regardless of age, has to be very, very immature.

Cellar dweller! 😱

07-01-2018, 01:22 PM	#2
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Medusa Mentally Delicious How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: Mme. Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 10,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,995 Thanked 42,685 Times in 7,831 Posts Rep Power: 10000025	Gretchen1965- I am going to ban the IP address that you are posting from. We do not allow VPNs, ip cloaks, or other devices designed to conceal your identity. You are free to sign back up on the forum from your home location if your true intent is to participate in discussions but please know, I will be paying closer attention to the signups and will be cross-referencing the IP address used to sign up on this site with all posts and ip locations in our database. If I find that you are a current member and have created a second screen name, I will ban you permanently from this site. Thanks, Angie __________________ . . . Buy ButchFemmePlanet Merch Here: https://teespring.com/stores/butchfemmeplanetcom-merch

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Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I read it through twice now. Not sure. But my bet would be that it's a guy. Why that would give anyone a chuckle is beyond me. __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

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Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	She said she is super short and likes super tall women. But then she said she can't help looking "down" at these women's breasts when she talks to them. She's a troll. __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

07-03-2018, 01:27 PM	#5
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I was about to suggest to Gretchen she go and see a sex worker who specialises in teaching basic social skills and help explore fantasies. I knew a few, and did a lot of that work myself when I was still in the trade. But then I remember reading something about the US shutting down all the safe advertising sites. Therapist, and Sex worker. Both if you have the dosh.

07-03-2018, 03:14 PM	#7
FireSignFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: N/A Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: WA Posts: 4,434 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37,962 Thanked 10,282 Times in 3,146 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Well man, women or child I don't know, but what I do know is this - whatever a person's age, there are definitely better ways to go about expressing oneself and seeking help. I'm in my 50's and if I ever ran around saying stuff like that, oh I would certainly hope someone around me would be lucid enough to have me institutionalized. I'd say whoever is doing it, regardless of age, has to be very, very immature.