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Old 12-09-2018, 11:06 PM   #1
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Where are the hefty ftms? I have some questions for y'all about top surgery and weight, etc!
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Where are the hefty ftms? I have some questions for y'all about top surgery and weight, etc!
I can try n help
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Are all top surgery docs worried about weight? Or are there ones who will work with you on weight stuff?
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Are all top surgery docs worried about weight? Or are there ones who will work with you on weight stuff?
I believe all doctors are concerned about weight, particularly surgeons. There are risks and issues with weight when it comes to any kind of surgery. Talk to your doctor.
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I believe all doctors are concerned about weight, particularly surgeons. There are risks and issues with weight when it comes to any kind of surgery. Talk to your doctor.
Im talking about the ones that are obsessed with a persons weight and bmi. To the point they are assholes.
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Im talking about the ones that are obsessed with a persons weight and bmi. To the point they are assholes.
I dont know about over there,but in terms of outcomes,it is best to lose weight,and build as much muscle in your chest as you can,then they can reconstruct around the muscle.
Also outcomes depend on if your on T or not.

regarding doctors I talked more to other transmen,there is a doctor here who hates fat people,I didnt go to her.
my guy,did surgery in 2 stages,masectomy first and then reconstruction 6 mths later.

being both fat and lean,my chest looks much better when I'm lean,and have built up my pecks,its harder being nearly 60 now,but these days I like being healthy.

I dont know if I really answered your question,no matter the surgery,doctors always go on about weight.

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I dont know about over there,but in terms of outcomes,it is best to lose weight,and build as much muscle in your chest as you can,then they can reconstruct around the muscle.
Also outcomes depend on if your on T or not.

regarding doctors I talked more to other transmen,there is a doctor here who hates fat people,I didnt go to her.
my guy,did surgery in 2 stages,masectomy first and then reconstruction 6 mths later.

being both fat and lean,my chest looks much better when I'm lean,and have built up my pecks,its harder being nearly 60 now,but these days I like being healthy.

I dont know if I really answered your question,no matter the surgery,doctors always go on about weight.

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Yes you helped, thanks. I came across a doctor that is a fat hater/ shamer so I left. Now I'm looking for one who isn't rude and is actually willing to help and understands.
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Going through the hoops to schedule my top surgery now should be scheduling it in the next couple of months. Little nervous as with any surgery but the result is worth it. Kind of getting excited to finally do this
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