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			I'm a 23 year old butch. Any other baby butches here?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Acts 23... Really is 43... Looks 33 !
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			divorce happens..all that glitters ain't gold Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			some think of baby butch as a place of acceptance, ... like say she's 36 and understands for the first time who she is. a lesbian and a butch (example). i guess age does and doesn't factor in, for some, by definition. i don't have a preference.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			i could be wrong lol. i'm 45 and i'm not sure that i've "grown up". i don't give it much thought. some do, that's aight!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm 24 and definitely identify to the butch part, but not so much the baby portion.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I am 21 and a young butch, I don't like the term baby. I know I'm a young one, but I'm learning. Though, I'm quite a gentleman at my age, but I was raised as such. And, I have no problem being a young butch. I know I'm growing up, but i still have my immaturity. I just feel it makes me interesting and who i am. As with all of us.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			stud-I only used that term because: 1. I've heard/seen it b4 2.It sounds cool/funny.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			And besides, i am totally fine with being a young butch, because i get along with everyone.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Thanks for mentioning this. I've heard others use "baby butch" in this way as well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Honestly, I feel that age and maturity varies in people. Like baby butches can be any age. You couikd be me, and be 25 and still be discovering the lifestyle. Or you could be in your thirties or forties and be new or late to the game. Either way you look at it, we are all learning and growing.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Hello, I'm also 23, almost 24.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			hey, I’ve just recently entered my 20s
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Very curious as to how many butches under 30 there are who are still active here.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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