Instant Turn-Offs - Page 12

homoe · 02-02-2019, 06:59 PM

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Those who go on and on about their ex....

Gemme · 02-02-2019, 07:49 PM

Personally, someone that doesn't floss or practice oral hygiene is a turn off so I don't mind seeing them get down to it. As long as they don't spit toothpaste on me, I'm good.

kittygrrl · 02-02-2019, 09:11 PM

i don't want to see her bathroom routine and i'm glad not to share mine, unless it's bathing/showering together

Orema · 02-03-2019, 06:03 AM

I don’t mind flossing and oral hygiene, provided it’s not done at the dinner table, but I’m instantly turned off by bathroom humor.

PlatinumPearl · 02-03-2019, 10:00 AM

People that suck their teeth or pick their teeth with a toothpick, napkin or something else while having dinner at a restaurant or while walking out of a restaurant...

C0LLETTE · 02-03-2019, 01:57 PM

I don't care how often you floss ( brushing is nice ) but I do want you to be able to name 5 European countries ( at a minimum ).

C0LLETTE · 02-03-2019, 02:45 PM

Gays who support or vote for Trump...and I don't give a flying "f" what the rationale is.

JDeere · 02-03-2019, 03:27 PM

Judgemental people

People who assume without asking questions first

People who judge a book by it's cover

cathexis · 02-04-2019, 06:14 AM

Bigots
LIARS, worst of all
People who claim to support a cause without fully understanding what it's
all about.
Blind Faith in any human endeavor(politics, history, economics, religion, etc.)

kittygrrl · 02-07-2019, 07:06 PM

condescending..cruelty, for no good reason..natural grace turns me on

charley · 02-08-2019, 12:07 AM

Bullying, control freaks, liars, wilfulness

~ocean · 02-08-2019, 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by charley

Bullying, control freaks, liars, wilfulness

you just described TRUMP !

charley · 02-08-2019, 06:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~ocean

you just described TRUMP !

chuckling... I watch too much news (lol)

However, I have interacted with others who are like that..., and discovered that because of the criteria to do meditation as I do, they can't do it

There is always a price/consequence resulting from the choices that people make... Then again, if they had intelligence/goodness in them, they wouldn't make those "choices", and they would see the difference between choice and right/correct action. It is relatively easy now for me to discern those kinds of people.

Vincent · 02-15-2019, 03:58 PM

Is there an instant turn ons thread?

I find ,that I would rather just think,"not my type"

As I'm pretty odd and tend to annoy people,"not in a I'm a jerk way"just I tend to think outside the box a lot

JDeere · 02-15-2019, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vincent

Is there an instant turn ons thread?

I find ,that I would rather just think,"not my type"

As I'm pretty odd and tend to annoy people,"not in a I'm a jerk way"just I tend to think outside the box a lot

Yes there is a turn on thread but im not quite sure where its hidden on the board!

Chad · 10-27-2019, 09:57 AM

Being invited to a home that is filthy and gross.
Cheaters
Liers
Druggies
Thieves

JDeere · 10-27-2019, 02:10 PM

Cheaters
Liars
Players you know the more than one woman deal
Wimp ass folks who couldnt bust a grape in a fruit fight

kittygrrl · 10-27-2019, 04:04 PM

uncertain
indifferent
spiteful

RebelDyke · 10-27-2019, 04:30 PM

these are all really good ones.. I could add these to the long list

over-dramatic
doesn't take accountability
twists your words
makes everything your fault
they are too stubborn to talk about problems
cannot compromise
always makes it about them
and always wants it their way
or does not care about your milestones or pivotal moments of life
has double standards
then if they hide things...like stupid little things about themselves and blow it off like it was none of your business... ya have to think ...hmm if they lied about that.. what else they lyin' bout?

but i think most importantly on having all these traits.. they still believe they are nice people.

(these are the short list of traits I have experienced over the years of dating...)

Gemme · 10-27-2019, 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RebelDyke

these are all really good ones.. I could add these to the long list

over-dramatic
doesn't take accountability
twists your words
makes everything your fault
they are too stubborn to talk about problems
cannot compromise
always makes it about them
and always wants it their way
or does not care about your milestones or pivotal moments of life
has double standards
then if they hide things...like stupid little things about themselves and blow it off like it was none of your business... ya have to think ...hmm if they lied about that.. what else they lyin' bout?

but i think most importantly on having all these traits.. they still believe they are nice people.

(these are the short list of traits I have experienced over the years of dating...)

Yes, yes and yes a few other times! Where was this post when I could have used it a few years ago?

02-02-2019, 07:49 PM	#222
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02-02-2019, 09:11 PM	#223
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,675 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,710 Thanked 22,140 Times in 7,211 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	i don't want to see her bathroom routine and i'm glad not to share mine, unless it's bathing/showering together __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

02-03-2019, 10:00 AM	#225
PlatinumPearl Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Human Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Canada Posts: 1,150 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 966 Thanked 2,419 Times in 890 Posts Rep Power: 21474846	Instant Turn-Offs... People that suck their teeth or pick their teeth with a toothpick, napkin or something else while having dinner at a restaurant or while walking out of a restaurant...

02-03-2019, 01:57 PM	#226
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,171 Times in 4,339 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I don't care how often you floss ( brushing is nice ) but I do want you to be able to name 5 European countries ( at a minimum ). __________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

02-03-2019, 02:45 PM	#227
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,171 Times in 4,339 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Gays who support or vote for Trump...and I don't give a flying "f" what the rationale is. __________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

02-02-2019, 06:59 PM	#221
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02-03-2019, 06:03 AM	#224
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file and sometimes a sinner. Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,688 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,476 Thanked 34,735 Times in 8,962 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	I don’t mind flossing and oral hygiene, provided it’s not done at the dinner table, but I’m instantly turned off by bathroom humor.

02-03-2019, 03:27 PM	#228
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Judgemental people People who assume without asking questions first People who judge a book by it's cover

02-04-2019, 06:14 AM	#229
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02-07-2019, 07:06 PM	#230
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,675 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,710 Thanked 22,140 Times in 7,211 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	condescending..cruelty, for no good reason..natural grace turns me on __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

02-08-2019, 12:07 AM	#231
charley Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: gentle stonebutch [vanilla] Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2017 Location: canada Posts: 497 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 906 Thanked 1,204 Times in 422 Posts Rep Power: 0	Instant turn-offs Bullying, control freaks, liars, wilfulness

02-15-2019, 03:58 PM	#234
Vincent Member How Do You Identify?: Transman Preferred Pronoun?: Him,he Relationship Status: just me Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tweed Heads Australia Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,207 Thanked 936 Times in 335 Posts Rep Power: 12178444	Is there an instant turn ons thread? I find ,that I would rather just think,"not my type" As I'm pretty odd and tend to annoy people,"not in a I'm a jerk way"just I tend to think outside the box a lot __________________ https://soundcloud.com/conormont https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb1y2xyfYSw If Not Me-Who If Not Now-When If Not Here-Where

10-27-2019, 09:57 AM	#236
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,312 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Turn-offs Being invited to a home that is filthy and gross. Cheaters Liers Druggies Thieves

10-27-2019, 02:10 PM	#237
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Cheaters Liars Players you know the more than one woman deal Wimp ass folks who couldnt bust a grape in a fruit fight

10-27-2019, 04:04 PM	#238
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,675 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,710 Thanked 22,140 Times in 7,211 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	uncertain indifferent spiteful __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-27-2019, 04:30 PM	#239
RebelDyke Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her/Hers...please no male ID..it's insulting Relationship Status: settled and content Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: oz Posts: 2,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,574 Thanked 3,223 Times in 1,574 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	these are all really good ones.. I could add these to the long list over-dramatic doesn't take accountability twists your words makes everything your fault they are too stubborn to talk about problems cannot compromise always makes it about them and always wants it their way or does not care about your milestones or pivotal moments of life has double standards then if they hide things...like stupid little things about themselves and blow it off like it was none of your business... ya have to think ...hmm if they lied about that.. what else they lyin' bout? but i think most importantly on having all these traits.. they still believe they are nice people. (these are the short list of traits I have experienced over the years of dating...) __________________ *"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox* "The cave that you fear holds the treasure you seek" Please, cancel my subscription to your issues.