Does a Soulmate really Exist?

cathexis · 02-17-2019, 01:14 AM

Yes, soulmates exist, and I was very lucky to have found Her 25 years ago. We tell people when they ask us that we not only love one another, but are still in love which are two different sets of emotions.

My Partner and I will celebrate our Silver Anniversary together this coming September.

cutegrrl · 08-11-2020, 03:26 PM

Bumping this thread...

Orema · 08-12-2020, 12:34 PM

I don’t think we have soul mates but I’m not sure. And it doesn’t bother me either way. I’m able to live a good life even if I don’t meet my soul mate, if one exists.

I think the chances of finding a soul mate among so many chioces is almost impossible.

And if there are soul mates I wonder if we’re limited to one?

I guess I have more questions than answers.

Stone-Butch · 08-12-2020, 04:05 PM

I don't know if there is or not. I hope if there is I find her before this trip is over. Sounds like a nice thing.

MaddieRobbie · 08-31-2020, 03:30 PM

I never really warmed up to the term "soulmate". Reason is - and this is strictly my opinion - it surrenders too much of a relationship to fate. I believe in chemistry, in the joy of being known, and sharing a deep, unique connection - plus a little bit of luck - but after those things we need to work really hard to keep it alive.

"Soulmate" always seemed too passive to me. Or an excuse to not stick around and see where things could go with someone, you know?

~ocean · 08-31-2020, 06:38 PM

I do believe in a soulmate ~ if your lucky enough to have one in your life . My personal opinion is that a soulmate has no boundaries ~ it's that one person you can be totally be uninhibited with ~ the comfort zone is a feeling that's required and enjoyed by both people. A love that's never questioned ~ it's just there . That desire you have knowing that your love emotionally and physically is sexy ~

kittygrrl · 08-31-2020, 08:26 PM

Do they exist? yes
Will i recognize her? depends
Do i have more then one? hopefully

08-12-2020, 04:05 PM	#4
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08-31-2020, 03:30 PM	#5
MaddieRobbie Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Free Join Date: Aug 2018 Location: Brooklyn Posts: 96 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 311 Times in 79 Posts Rep Power: 2491088	Soulmate? I never really warmed up to the term "soulmate". Reason is - and this is strictly my opinion - it surrenders too much of a relationship to fate. I believe in chemistry, in the joy of being known, and sharing a deep, unique connection - plus a little bit of luck - but after those things we need to work really hard to keep it alive. "Soulmate" always seemed too passive to me. Or an excuse to not stick around and see where things could go with someone, you know?

08-31-2020, 06:38 PM	#6
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,018 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I do believe in a soulmate ~ if your lucky enough to have one in your life . My personal opinion is that a soulmate has no boundaries ~ it's that one person you can be totally be uninhibited with ~ the comfort zone is a feeling that's required and enjoyed by both people. A love that's never questioned ~ it's just there . That desire you have knowing that your love emotionally and physically is sexy ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

08-31-2020, 08:26 PM	#7
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: sipping on honey wine Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,652 Thanked 22,078 Times in 7,158 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Do they exist? yes Will i recognize her? depends Do i have more then one? hopefully __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

02-17-2019, 01:14 AM	#1
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,706 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Yes, soulmates exist, and I was very lucky to have found Her 25 years ago. We tell people when they ask us that we not only love one another, but are still in love which are two different sets of emotions. My Partner and I will celebrate our Silver Anniversary together this coming September.

08-11-2020, 03:26 PM	#2
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08-12-2020, 12:34 PM	#3
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,628 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,456 Thanked 34,711 Times in 8,945 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	I don’t think we have soul mates but I’m not sure. And it doesn’t bother me either way. I’m able to live a good life even if I don’t meet my soul mate, if one exists. I think the chances of finding a soul mate among so many chioces is almost impossible. And if there are soul mates I wonder if we’re limited to one? I guess I have more questions than answers.