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			Ok, that works!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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		#21183 | 
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			Thinking about J calling me Mom for the first time. No awkward conversations about can I call you this, refer to you as... No just natural and spontaneous as if it were a routine matter of course. I didn't want make a big deal out of it, chance leaving her feeling uncomfortable so just carried on our conversation without pause, as if between us nothing remarkable, just an everyday occurrence. However inside I was super happy – she's like the daughter I never had.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Twas last night.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			My sister and her family and my honey and myself went the next town over to the annual bonfire they have. It was a hellishly hot day to light a mound of wood on fire but it sure was purty. They have a few vendors and a live band played great music. The kids had a blast. My only regret is not bringing the fur kids. It was a lovely night. I nearly didn’t go because I was tired from work and then, next thing I knew, they were shutting it down. I’m not too old to stay out past 9! Yayyy 
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			My dad making me an egg sandwich for breakfast.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			Well wishes and hellos from friends and family.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Harlow coming up to me while we were outside. She's been complaining all day and she said "mommy hold me" She doesn't do that often anymore. So I of course picked her up and she instantly snuggled in and went to sleep on my shoulder. We were out on the porch but she slept for a good 45 mins.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			She may wipe off my kisses but she still needs me sometimes! 
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			River time and family time!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			![]() ** There is a part of me that agrees.  | 
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			ME TOO !  but I do think it is important to move around a bit, stretch, bend, take walks, all balanced by decent and proper food intake, etc. I don't believe in jogging (never understood jogging), exercise bikes, gyms, etc. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I did do quite a bit of sports when younger, and still have those muscles in my legs. Human beings are rather fragile, and one should know one's limits. When younger, we think we are immortal, and sometimes push the body past its limits, causing damage which only comes out much later. So, if I can say anything, it is to listen to your body. When tired, I take naps! Because of meditation, I have also understood that the brain is just a biological organ as well, and that it can wear out eventually when always being in use, in the exact same way that a motor/engine in a car wears out as well. Like the doctor said, everything wears out eventually. So, having a mind, one contacted the brain and told it not to register anything that wasn't a real need, which it did! That way, I maintain a minimum activity in "brain" activity, which keeps me alert, calm and also helps my body, which usually requires about 7-8 hours' sleep. I think that overactive thinking will kill a person - shorten their life needlessly. I take a page out of my grandmother's book who lived well into her 90's, that when she ate something which didn't "agree" with her, she just stopped eating it! Go gentle into that good night!  
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			2 small green tomatoes 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			A compromise. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Also, a very cold Dr. Pepper. (It's the little things) 
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			Coming into work and finding a box of triple chocolate chip cookies at my desk from a friend. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			The breakfast lady knowing my order when I walked in the door. 🙂
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Listening to my wife make plans to attend a "high tea" with my mom next week. I love that she (my wife) and my mom enjoy time together. I'm so lucky to have both of them in my life.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			A big bunch of gorgeous red roses on my bedside table.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Watching my professor grade one of my tests and not marking anything wrong.    
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Can you say over-achiever?? haha well. it made ME smile anyway 
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