WHO is on your Mind ... Why?

candy_coated_bitch · 08-16-2019, 05:25 PM

My sister. Because I get to see her tomorrow and it will be very special sister time before the baby comes.

Stone-Butch · 08-16-2019, 10:51 PM

My sister passed a year ago and I dont think I will ever get over it. I envy those who still have family as there are only two of us and my brother is much older than me . I think of them all almost every day.

cathexis · 08-17-2019, 03:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

My sister passed a year ago and I dont think I will ever get over it. I envy those who still have family as there are only two of us and my brother is much older than me . I think of them all almost every day.

You are not alone. Lost my mom in '85, dad in 1991, and older, estranged brother in 2001. That's the end of a branch of our family tree ( no other siblings, one lost niece).

Your pain may never completely leave, but I wish for you my course. May your daily thoughts about family gone before, turn to memories of the good times had together. Sadness to thankfulness of the good times. Pain turns to nostalgia. Nostalgia wanes to thoughts of life's gifts. That you had time to cultivate memories to help shield from the pain of having them gone.

Orema · 09-04-2019, 09:33 AM

Those to whom I didn't give it up.

Not sure why this is on my mind, but I think about this every now and then.

kittygrrl · 09-04-2019, 06:45 PM

my mom and dad..i like to imagine they are having the best kind of visit

Tuff Stuff · 09-05-2019, 10:19 AM

Me.
This is going to be one long ass journey. Like the song from talking heads "once in a lifetime",that's the only way I can explain it to myself. I've lost all my family but she hasn't and she'll be fine. Okay, now I'm thinking about my wife.

Tuff Stuff · 11-12-2019, 12:16 PM

All that salmon...jeezus!!!

kittygrrl · 11-12-2019, 02:20 PM

it's not who..it's a what...Meyer Lemons-wish i had a few

Silk · 11-17-2019, 03:29 AM

Several faces fill my thoughts at this time of year. Those of family and friends who are lost to the past are there not to make me grieve but rather to make me remember that I was blessed to share some time with them. My fur babies now beyond the bridge warm my heart with the generosity of unconditional love that they left here.
But all these cherished memories are blighted by the memory of the cold gaze of a particularly deceitful creature who wormed her way into our home a couple of years ago taking advantage of a family that sought to provide comfort to a stranger for Thanksgiving and delayed the stay with sob stories and con games for 45 days virtually holding us hostage and leaving only after draining my 85 year old mother’s bank account (unknown to me until the thug had moved out of the state) and “borrowed” several hundred dollars from me to make the move. The destruction of and theft of property, elder abuse - psychological, emotional and physical made the loss of a few thousand dollars a bargain to have this person vacate the property. Unfortunately the memory of that time has dimmed what was once a bright season for our family.
My beloved Galahad has worked minor miracles in helping all of us heal. She is a singular beacon of integrity, honesty, and honor and this year is lighter and brighter than the last and last year was a lifting of a veil.
So many faces ... angels some once human and some furry, one poison thorn, one perfect knight, friends, family, neighbors. I am blessed even with the thorn for it taught me to see more clearly.

Chad · 11-23-2019, 11:50 AM

My physical therapist, he has me at 70 % post surgery. I was thinking of a gift for him when we reach 100%. What to get a natural healer is a hard decision.

Our goals are that I can bowl again, work my land, climb a latter, and ride my bicycle again.
The bike is a throwback from my knee replacement but I really miss it.

Blade · 11-28-2019, 02:08 AM

My cousin, he died this weekend 3 yrs ago.

I was watching TV and a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving came on. It made me think of him and how he loved Charlie Brown when we were growning up. Wish I could have helped ya buddy but you couldn't/wouldn't help your self.

candy_coated_bitch · 11-28-2019, 10:25 AM

My niece because I can't wait to see her!!!!

homoe · 11-12-2019, 02:47 PM

~~~

Pie perhaps?

kittygrrl · 11-12-2019, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

~~~

Pie perhaps?

H, definitely

Lemon Meringue..
i would love to use Meyer Lemons..sigh

Tuff Stuff · 01-12-2020, 02:30 PM

I think it's safe to say..Me,again.

I'm finding peace of course in not only me but the whole f***ing world. Odd?,for my own sanity, yes.

Next..

JDeere · 01-12-2020, 05:42 PM

My hunny..

Shes uber sick and I can't do anything to help seeing as its an ldr and I can't get up to see her yet.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-12-2020, 06:38 PM

My bitch of an aunt. I had a dream about her last night - she had decided to raise cows in her basement, and for some reason I had to clean it all up. I've never had to clean her house and she has never raised cows, but for some weird reason this dream has kept popping up in my mind all day.

Chad · 01-13-2020, 09:31 AM

Friends, life with humans is interesting. Sometimes with friends you spend everyday together and then things change. Folks get married or have kids and life gets busy but you never stop loving each other and when the "pause" lets up there you are back together.

Interesting for sure.

08-16-2019, 05:25 PM	#1
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 31,825 Times in 6,109 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	My sister. Because I get to see her tomorrow and it will be very special sister time before the baby comes. __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

08-16-2019, 10:51 PM	#2
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,645 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,267 Thanked 9,324 Times in 3,017 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Thinking of My sister passed a year ago and I dont think I will ever get over it. I envy those who still have family as there are only two of us and my brother is much older than me . I think of them all almost every day.

09-04-2019, 09:33 AM	#4
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,616 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,449 Thanked 34,703 Times in 8,942 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Regrets Those to whom I didn't give it up. Not sure why this is on my mind, but I think about this every now and then.

09-04-2019, 06:45 PM	#5
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,441 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,633 Thanked 22,013 Times in 7,116 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	my mom and dad..i like to imagine they are having the best kind of visit __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

09-05-2019, 10:19 AM	#6
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Catch and Release Me. This is going to be one long ass journey. Like the song from talking heads "once in a lifetime",that's the only way I can explain it to myself. I've lost all my family but she hasn't and she'll be fine. Okay, now I'm thinking about my wife.

11-12-2019, 12:16 PM	#7
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	All that salmon...jeezus!!!

11-12-2019, 02:20 PM	#8
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,441 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,633 Thanked 22,013 Times in 7,116 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	it's not who..it's a what...Meyer Lemons-wish i had a few __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

11-17-2019, 03:29 AM	#9
Silk Junior Member How Do You Identify?: An American Bohemian Femme Relationship Status: Galahad bleeds black and orange and I'm proud to ride pillion. Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: Surrounded by love. Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23 Thanked 113 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 1073754	Several faces fill my thoughts at this time of year. Those of family and friends who are lost to the past are there not to make me grieve but rather to make me remember that I was blessed to share some time with them. My fur babies now beyond the bridge warm my heart with the generosity of unconditional love that they left here. But all these cherished memories are blighted by the memory of the cold gaze of a particularly deceitful creature who wormed her way into our home a couple of years ago taking advantage of a family that sought to provide comfort to a stranger for Thanksgiving and delayed the stay with sob stories and con games for 45 days virtually holding us hostage and leaving only after draining my 85 year old mother’s bank account (unknown to me until the thug had moved out of the state) and “borrowed” several hundred dollars from me to make the move. The destruction of and theft of property, elder abuse - psychological, emotional and physical made the loss of a few thousand dollars a bargain to have this person vacate the property. Unfortunately the memory of that time has dimmed what was once a bright season for our family. My beloved Galahad has worked minor miracles in helping all of us heal. She is a singular beacon of integrity, honesty, and honor and this year is lighter and brighter than the last and last year was a lifting of a veil. So many faces ... angels some once human and some furry, one poison thorn, one perfect knight, friends, family, neighbors. I am blessed even with the thorn for it taught me to see more clearly. __________________ Blessings and Balance. Namaste

11-23-2019, 11:50 AM	#10
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	On my mind My physical therapist, he has me at 70 % post surgery. I was thinking of a gift for him when we reach 100%. What to get a natural healer is a hard decision. Our goals are that I can bowl again, work my land, climb a latter, and ride my bicycle again. The bike is a throwback from my knee replacement but I really miss it.

11-28-2019, 02:08 AM	#11
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	My cousin, he died this weekend 3 yrs ago. I was watching TV and a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving came on. It made me think of him and how he loved Charlie Brown when we were growning up. Wish I could have helped ya buddy but you couldn't/wouldn't help your self. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

11-28-2019, 10:25 AM	#12
candy_coated_bitch Pixie Stick How Do You Identify?: The arteest formerly known as musicfemme. Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happily taken. Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northampton, MA Posts: 11,293 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,723 Thanked 31,825 Times in 6,109 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	My niece because I can't wait to see her!!!! __________________ My Etsy Shop My Patreon My Website

11-12-2019, 02:47 PM	#13
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01-12-2020, 02:30 PM	#15
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Monkey Talk I think it's safe to say..Me,again. I'm finding peace of course in not only me but the whole f***ing world. Odd?,for my own sanity, yes. Next..

01-12-2020, 05:42 PM	#16
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,834 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	My hunny.. Shes uber sick and I can't do anything to help seeing as its an ldr and I can't get up to see her yet.

01-12-2020, 06:38 PM	#17
GeorgiaMa'am Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: widowed - involved, poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 6,440 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,572 Thanked 28,476 Times in 5,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	My bitch of an aunt. I had a dream about her last night - she had decided to raise cows in her basement, and for some reason I had to clean it all up. I've never had to clean her house and she has never raised cows, but for some weird reason this dream has kept popping up in my mind all day. __________________ -GeorgiaMa'am It's true that you are blessed and lucky It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you. -10,000 Maniacs

01-13-2020, 09:31 AM	#18
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	On my mind Friends, life with humans is interesting. Sometimes with friends you spend everyday together and then things change. Folks get married or have kids and life gets busy but you never stop loving each other and when the "pause" lets up there you are back together. Interesting for sure.