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Old 06-08-2010, 12:23 AM   #161
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Working the soil in my garden with the sun on my back. Feeling like I am part of growth.
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Loving and being loved.

Surviving through the day until she brings home better medicine.

Getting dinner, though I couldn't taste it.

Reading to her.

Puppy curled up between us.

Big puppy under my leg with her nose mashed into the other desk chair sound asleep.

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Old 06-08-2010, 02:38 AM   #163
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Not much today; maybe tomorrow will be better.
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Old 06-08-2010, 08:57 AM   #164
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Old 06-08-2010, 09:24 AM   #165
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Sitting at the edge of the estuary, fishing pole in my hand, looking up at the stars in the sky, and knowing that somewhere, there is a God that watches over me.
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A sweet and gentle rain........knowing there is more of the same to follow in the next couple of days. <smile>


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Old 06-08-2010, 06:36 PM   #168
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There is one particular spot on our property - there's a crook in the brook, and a large rock that I like to sit on. There are pine and cedar trees all around, and always lots of wildflowers this time of the year. I could sit there for ages and just watch the brook flow. I want to build a cabin there some day so I can fall asleep listening to the brook that my father, and grandfather, and generations before liked to listen to on a late spring afternoon.
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Old 06-08-2010, 07:12 PM   #169
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my morning meditation...and a pot of tea
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Knowing I have a solid connection to Spirit's blessings.
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Not much today; maybe tomorrow will be better.
Knowing you're so special. Makes my spirit smile.
Here's to best days!
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Old 06-08-2010, 09:41 PM   #174
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The red road, and the elders sage advice
even when days seem dark, there is always
light when we least expect it.
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Closing my eyes.....
Feeling the wind
Hearing the water
Smelling the rain
Tasting the sun
...opening my eyes
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I find peace watching them slumber
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the grand baby.
her smile.
her noises and coos.
her look of wonderment.

all of it.
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-Down time with close friends
-listening to music
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-attending to details of my life
-living in the present moment
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