Instant Turn-Offs

[homoe]

Originally Posted by Chad

Been there done that. Watch your back buddy. I have spent too many nights worried that a femme would stab me in my sleep.

Yikes, thankfully I've never experienced this concern....

[Chad]

Originally Posted by homoe

Yikes, thankfully I've never experienced this concern....

I am glad too, no one should experience the yuckiness that I have lived.

[cathexis]

Originally Posted by homoe

Yikes, thankfully I've never experienced this concern....

homoe and Chad, explain this to me, I don't get it. 2 people who became fulfilled enough with their tryst that they have fallen asleep, one (presumably the femme) awakens psychotic, stabs you and steals items from you.

Let's break this down: You meet chic, presumably at a club, have a few alcoholic or non-alcoholic beverages.

You choose to leave said drinking establishment with her going to a place where a bed exists. You become horizontal (dressed or not-unclear). Do an activity causing you both to take a deep dive into sublimation.

Suddenly, unbenounced to the butch of the species, the femme suddenly arises wielding a knife, threatening the previous sex partner, actually injuring the sex partner. I have not heard of this practice. In how many cases of casual tryst does it occur?

This type of behavior seems more prevalent in certain types of spiders, chimpanzees, or grasshoppers. Is anyone familiar with this occurring in any others out there? I'd be particularly interested in higher primates, with special interest in these types of aggression in Bonobo and the Orangutan.
Would like to do this first study before going to Fet Life's BDSM Theory. I ask, please that no one else act on this topic. Thank You.

[homoe]

Originally Posted by cathexis

homoe and Chad, explain this to me, I don't get it. 2 people who became fulfilled enough with their tryst that they have fallen asleep, one (presumably the femme) awakens psychotic, stabs you and steals items from you.

Let's break this down: You meet chic, presumably at a club, have a few alcoholic or non-alcoholic beverages.

You choose to leave said drinking establishment with her going to a place where a bed exists. You become horizontal (dressed or not-unclear). Do an activity causing you both to take a deep dive into sublimation.

Suddenly, unbenounced to the butch of the species, the femme suddenly arises wielding a knife, threatening the previous sex partner, actually injuring the sex partner. I have not heard of this practice. In how many cases of casual tryst does it occur?

This type of behavior seems more prevalent in certain types of spiders, chimpanzees, or grasshoppers. Is anyone familiar with this occurring in any others out there? I'd be particularly interested in higher primates, with special interest in these types of aggression in Bonobo and the Orangutan.
Would like to do this first study before going to Fet Life's BDSM Theory. I ask, please that no one else act on this topic. Thank You.

cathexis, it has NEVER happened to me. You'll have to depend on Chad for an explanation.

[kittygrrl]

when it's important to think/plan ahead and you don't

[Chad]

Originally Posted by cathexis

homoe and Chad, explain this to me, I don't get it. 2 people who became fulfilled enough with their tryst that they have fallen asleep, one (presumably the femme) awakens psychotic, stabs you and steals items from you.

Let's break this down: You meet chic, presumably at a club, have a few alcoholic or non-alcoholic beverages.

You choose to leave said drinking establishment with her going to a place where a bed exists. You become horizontal (dressed or not-unclear). Do an activity causing you both to take a deep dive into sublimation.

Suddenly, unbenounced to the butch of the species, the femme suddenly arises wielding a knife, threatening the previous sex partner, actually injuring the sex partner. I have not heard of this practice. In how many cases of casual tryst does it occur?

This type of behavior seems more prevalent in certain types of spiders, chimpanzees, or grasshoppers. Is anyone familiar with this occurring in any others out there? I'd be particularly interested in higher primates, with special interest in these types of aggression in Bonobo and the Orangutan.
Would like to do this first study before going to Fet Life's BDSM Theory. I ask, please that no one else act on this topic. Thank You.

This sounds like that movie Fatal Attraction. If you experienced that situation then I am sorry about that. I have nothing to add here.

[cathexis]

Originally Posted by Chad

This sounds like that movie Fatal Attraction. If you experienced that situation then I am sorry about that. I have nothing to add here.

Sheesh, this was an attempt at jocularity. Life ain't that serious. Homoe got it...I think. Or maybe my sense of humour is Really that twisted. Anyway, Happy Chanukah!

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Chad

This sounds like that movie Fatal Attraction. If you experienced that situation then I am sorry about that. I have nothing to add here.

But you are the one that said this .... *points down*

Originally Posted by Chad

Been there done that. Watch your back buddy. I have spent too many nights worried that a femme would stab me in my sleep.

I don't have the same sense of humor as cathexis but I believe this post is the catalyst for cathexis' post that confused you.

[Chad]

Originally Posted by Gemme

But you are the one that said this .... *points down*

Yes, and what I said is true based on my own life experiences. I have posted other life experiences here in different threads like the in the scarred thread.

These are my life experiences. I don't pretend to understand other human's life experiences.


I don't have the same sense of humor as cathexis but I believe this post is the catalyst for cathexis' post that confused you.

Perhaps you are correct.

[homoe]

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A cheapskate, penny-pincher, tightwad, miser, skinflint....well you get the picture......

[charley]

Originally Posted by homoe

Yikes, thankfully I've never experienced this concern....

Ditto... idk what to say, the entire subject is foreign to me, never knew anyone like that. Even talking with other womyn, no-one they knew had behaved like that. Having said that, of course, there are womyn who hook up with others in a kind of arrangement instead of a relationship, where they expect something in return for sex - that is, a financial incentive, whence the expression "gold-digger", in other words, a "partner" who likes/loves you not for who you are, but for what you can provide them with. For richer or poorer, in sickness or in health would mean nothing to such a person. Whether butch or femme, straight or gay, etc., they always have an agenda, and it is very difficult to know what such a person really thinks. Of course, our society still promotes this "arrangement".

um.... from the expression, caveat emptor... might be better to say caveat "tryst" !