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			I need a vacation, I think. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My candles today are for all that are dealing with illness. Also, for the families of the 11 workers killed in the Gulf. And one more for my sister as she cares for her husband of 45 years as an Alzheimer's care-taker. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	And another for those that have transgressed against me. Forgiveness frees the soul for more important work. Send your Woo out to all those that are having a tough time.... together, we can make a difference. Really!  
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			It's not often I light one for myself, so today I did. I have a swollen finger from one of the cats I was trying to give a pill to the other day. He stuck his claw in it pretty deep and it hurts really bad. Yesterday I had a fever and slept on and off most of the day. Today it's not as red as it was yesterday, but it still worries me. I've been cleaning and soaking it then covering with a band-aid. I'm hoping it gets better without having to fight to get an appointment to the free clinic.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			 I light this candle for: 
		SnackTime, her Parents and the family! And for "Sadie" their dog! May her transendance be swift! ![]() May you all feel the healing from within this flame. May you feel the strength and warmth of all who assist in power. May the pain be less and the healing to you be swift. May Sadie... Know how vvery much she is loved. And may her transendance be graceful and easy. 
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	Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~  | 
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			Today, I lit a candle for my daughter.....and a candle for the good in all of us to rise above the bad.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Mean~spirited people wear me out.......... This is such a pure thread..... and an oasis in my day. Namaste. ![]()  | 
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			Just an update so no one worries.....saw doc, he said I have cat scratch fever and infection. Sent me home with Vibramycin. Must take for 10 days and hopefully all will be better after that. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Thanks for the prayers 
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			Today my candles are lit for reflection for those who come here. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			When we take a moment to pause in reflection, it is only then that we can truly see, ourselves. ![]()  
		
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 Spirit Dancer I just wanted to thank you for this Post! When I read it..I felt a beutifully healing serge...And I know others will as well. Also, Thank you for all the energy and healing everyone has offered to My family personally...I will tell you, I know it is helping. I would again like to bring my sister to light again, She has taken my brother in laws death so hard. I light a candle for Sharron David: That she will feel the love that surrounds her Know what is possible from here And be able to get a glimpse of beauty in each day. Also that her grand/great grandchildren will be a source of concistant Joy Thanks again. 
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	Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~  | 
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			For your sister .. Lady Pamela. Sending her Peace and Strength. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			For my beloved dog Bud who I had to put to sleep today. I got him when he was 2 and had him 14 years. We had an incredible journey together. He had a full life and was very much loved not only by me but my family. I know that everything has a time, a beginning and end but I will miss him so much. He looked at me when he was leaving and its almost like he said it was all going to be ok. I'm sure this is true but my heart still aches. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			RIP my sweet Bud. I love you. 
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 I light this candle from your candle Sachita 
		![]() May the energy and prayers placed upon it, Bring you comfort and help you through your saddness May it help you to keep the joy alive created by Bud May it also light the way For Bud to transend quickly Namatse 
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	Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~  | 
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	Sending a sunshine kiss on your cheek, a soft wind through your hair, and a smile as you have sweet memories. As I pet my 16 year old PeacyBoi and he purrs, I know the seasons are shorter than we ever can know. For today , may the spirit of love come from all and share the energy from the power of our souls, present and past. Tommi  | 
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			I would like to light a million candles for all those here on bf who are suffering in any way..be it..emotion, physical or mental.. I know that for me this site has been a release of the everyday nonsense..I love reading the silly stuff as much as the not so silly stuff...After a while I feel like I know you...and I feel for you..I do not like to see anyone in any sort of distress..... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I light a candle for all of you!..have an amazing day if you can..and if you can't have a great one!    ![]() ![]()  
		
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