Showing scars: what are your relationship fears?

kittygrrl · 08-17-2020, 12:19 AM

waking from a bad dream..but i feel i should say at least a few things..first i can't argue with a person's experience..we've all made mistakes and should fine tune our expectations and disappointments...hopefully moving forward and trying to do better..i'm an old school femme in a Gen X world i don't expect butches to play by my rules nevertheless, i'm deeply appreciative of being able to choose what is perfect for me..may we all find our way into paradise

Orema · 08-17-2020, 05:36 AM

I am wound so tightly it seems I’m scared of almost everything when it comes to a relationship.

And that’s okay.

For now.

Bèsame* · 08-17-2020, 12:11 PM

Narcissistic behaviors. I can see the red flags now.

Do what you say. Don't even leave a question hanging. Go ahead contradict yourself...I can see it.

08-17-2020, 12:19 AM	#1
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: baker Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wrapped in a shawl Posts: 9,772 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,737 Thanked 22,162 Times in 7,229 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	waking from a bad dream..but i feel i should say at least a few things..first i can't argue with a person's experience..we've all made mistakes and should fine tune our expectations and disappointments...hopefully moving forward and trying to do better..i'm an old school femme in a Gen X world i don't expect butches to play by my rules nevertheless, i'm deeply appreciative of being able to choose what is perfect for me..may we all find our way into paradise __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

08-17-2020, 12:11 PM	#3
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,188 Thanked 41,036 Times in 10,778 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Narcissistic behaviors. I can see the red flags now. Do what you say. Don't even leave a question hanging. Go ahead contradict yourself...I can see it. __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

08-17-2020, 05:36 AM	#2
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file and sometimes a sinner. Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,736 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,504 Thanked 34,770 Times in 8,977 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	I am wound so tightly it seems I’m scared of almost everything when it comes to a relationship. And that’s okay. For now.