The Older LGBTIQ Crush Thread - Post Age 40

Penelope · 06-11-2010, 07:52 AM

While I am not (yet) 40, I have *always* crushed on older butches/TGs/FtMs.

Aside from one foray in to dating a younger butch (a cute "baby dyke"!), I have always dated older than myself.

It's the more mature butches/etc that catch my eye ~ they seem to have a certain swagger about them, a rough exterior but soft(er) on the inside. I like the chiseled look they have earned over the years, the salt & pepper or gray that colors their hair.

Most I have found to be warm and funny, full of wisdom gained thru years of life experiences, and 'gentlemenly' like in their nature (manners and character, not old fashioned).

Currently I am seeing a wonderful, mature (well over 40) guy who embodies all of the above, and yes, I had a crush on him before we ever started talking.

I think I'm the luckiest girl in the world!

06-11-2010, 07:52 AM	#11
Penelope Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: In Love♥ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Ohio Posts: 117 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10 Thanked 187 Times in 54 Posts Rep Power: 975054	Just wanted to add ... While I am not (yet) 40, I have always crushed on older butches/TGs/FtMs. Aside from one foray in to dating a younger butch (a cute "baby dyke"!), I have always dated older than myself. It's the more mature butches/etc that catch my eye ~ they seem to have a certain swagger about them, a rough exterior but soft(er) on the inside. I like the chiseled look they have earned over the years, the salt & pepper or gray that colors their hair. Most I have found to be warm and funny, full of wisdom gained thru years of life experiences, and 'gentlemenly' like in their nature (manners and character, not old fashioned). Currently I am seeing a wonderful, mature (well over 40) guy who embodies all of the above, and yes, I had a crush on him before we ever started talking. I think I'm the luckiest girl in the world! __________________ ~Penelope (fka DRC Girl)