Instant Turn-Offs

JDeere · 08-20-2022, 01:24 AM

tobacco smokers, 420 is fine but only medical
poor hygiene
no home training, ie how to wash dishes by hand, keep the house clean, et al...
dirty smells of any kind, dog, cat, human, you get the idea

Stone-Butch · 08-20-2022, 08:04 PM

When you are being yourself and she says "It's ok I can open my own door" LOL. Spoiled my whole dinner before we ate. Our first and last date.

Reach *BANNED* · 08-25-2022, 02:06 PM

When you are on a date, and you catch that person making side glances (or even straight out looks) that are suggestive to another.

Also, when your date monopolizes the conversation- or even worse just talks about herself the whole date.

cathexis · 08-27-2022, 12:57 AM

You're out on a date with someone whom you know lives with others. There are 3 separate full-bathrooms in this large four or five-bedroom home where several people of different sexes, genders, and orientations live.

The date and I get hot, heavy, gooey, and messy. Toward the end of the date, I head for the nearest bath to clean up a bit before getting dressed.

Right before sitting down, I notice something sitting on the lid top. I decided to look closer at the item. There, in plain sight, sitting on an otherwise clean toilet tank lid is a used and leaking condom. The nasty guy could have put a knot in it, put it in the trash, or flushed it. No, he's gotta be gross setting it on the lid where many of us would have shells, dop. kit, kleenex, tp, or pick any other suitable item. I had to stop my clean-up and move to one of the other washrooms. It was years (maybe 40 plus) ago, but it's nothing I'll probably ever forget.

Bèsame* · 08-28-2022, 07:17 AM

Don't you dare try to control me. I'll be out of there in a min!

Just control as I'm being submissive😉

Kätzchen · 10-20-2023, 05:10 PM

People who have an incessant need for personal attention … in all ways, shape or form. A huge big red flag, if you ask me.

Stone-Butch · 10-20-2023, 09:51 PM

Going to dinner and the person you invited can't get her face away from her cell phone. Happened once. I got tired of it and just picked up my cutlery and my plate of food and walked to an empty table. First and last.

08-20-2022, 01:24 AM	#1
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	tobacco smokers, 420 is fine but only medical poor hygiene no home training, ie how to wash dishes by hand, keep the house clean, et al... dirty smells of any kind, dog, cat, human, you get the idea __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

08-20-2022, 08:04 PM	#2
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,371 Thanked 9,434 Times in 3,092 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Instant Turn-offs. When you are being yourself and she says "It's ok I can open my own door" LOL. Spoiled my whole dinner before we ate. Our first and last date.

08-27-2022, 12:57 AM	#4
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,705 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	You're out on a date with someone whom you know lives with others. There are 3 separate full-bathrooms in this large four or five-bedroom home where several people of different sexes, genders, and orientations live. The date and I get hot, heavy, gooey, and messy. Toward the end of the date, I head for the nearest bath to clean up a bit before getting dressed. Right before sitting down, I notice something sitting on the lid top. I decided to look closer at the item. There, in plain sight, sitting on an otherwise clean toilet tank lid is a used and leaking condom. The nasty guy could have put a knot in it, put it in the trash, or flushed it. No, he's gotta be gross setting it on the lid where many of us would have shells, dop. kit, kleenex, tp, or pick any other suitable item. I had to stop my clean-up and move to one of the other washrooms. It was years (maybe 40 plus) ago, but it's nothing I'll probably ever forget. __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky

08-28-2022, 07:17 AM	#5
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,188 Thanked 41,035 Times in 10,778 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Don't you dare try to control me. I'll be out of there in a min! Just control as I'm being submissive😉 __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

10-20-2023, 05:10 PM	#6
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a Brick House (Femme) Relationship Status: Busy (involved with a special someone here at home) Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,277 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,277 Thanked 33,638 Times in 10,730 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Instant Turnoff … People who have an incessant need for personal attention … in all ways, shape or form. A huge big red flag, if you ask me. __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. ”Without justice, democracy dies,” — Jess Michaels (Epstein survivor). ”The planet can provide for human need, but not human greed,” — Dr Jane Goodall.

08-25-2022, 02:06 PM	#3
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,274 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	When you are on a date, and you catch that person making side glances (or even straight out looks) that are suggestive to another. Also, when your date monopolizes the conversation- or even worse just talks about herself the whole date.

10-20-2023, 09:51 PM	#7
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,371 Thanked 9,434 Times in 3,092 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Instant Turn-Offs Going to dinner and the person you invited can't get her face away from her cell phone. Happened once. I got tired of it and just picked up my cutlery and my plate of food and walked to an empty table. First and last.