Instant Turn-Offs

Bèsame* · 11-01-2023, 05:37 PM

Those who tell tales of how they live their life and then it changes as the situation changes.

Don't ya think we will remember????

Kätzchen · 01-14-2024, 01:29 PM

1) Not sure how to articulate this particular type of a huge turn-off, but it turns me off when I hear veiled threats, the type of talking to others that seems like one-up-manship, or the type of verbiage that is insulting to me or others.

I quit my Facebook acct years ago because of noticing this type of verbal behavior by others in their f.b. Posts.

2) Another thing that turns me off is manipulation tactics. Just don’t do it.

3) Another thing that turns me off is perceived superiority. Superiority complex issues is a huge turn off.

Gráinne · 01-16-2024, 11:19 PM

Maybe it's just me, and these weren't even in a dating situation. If I spot these upon meeting, there wouldn't be a date! I have too much football to watch.

1. "Then she was like…And then I was like…So He was like….and then I was like…". I'm sure there are 15 year old's who speak without using "like". I'm talking people my age!

2. "Oh, I'm too old to learn ______". I know people younger than I am who are old, and people many years older than I am who are up for anything. Guess who I'd rather hang out with?

3. A cousin to #2 is: "I'm just not good with math/not a computer nerd/athletic/ artistic/smart enough for *whatever*/insert denigrating statement here. We're all not good at everything, obviously, but I respect people who try something new. How do you know you're "not good"?

4. Any excuses, though I have to work on this myself. That's why I want someone dedicated to owning themselves, not excusing themselves.

kittygrrl · 01-19-2024, 10:30 AM

snow, snow jokes, snow ice cream, people who make snow ice cream and think it's the coolest

nhplowboi · 01-20-2024, 12:06 PM

A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.

kittygrrl · 01-20-2024, 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nhplowboi

A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.

well-spoken

Stone-Butch · 01-22-2024, 02:00 PM

Those who send vague messages cryptically.

Those who speak in innuendoes.

11-01-2023, 05:37 PM	#1
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,391 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,142 Thanked 40,957 Times in 10,741 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Those who tell tales of how they live their life and then it changes as the situation changes. Don't ya think we will remember???? __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

01-16-2024, 11:19 PM	#3
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,864 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,117 Thanked 7,386 Times in 1,457 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Maybe it's just me, and these weren't even in a dating situation. If I spot these upon meeting, there wouldn't be a date! I have too much football to watch. 1. "Then she was like…And then I was like…So He was like….and then I was like…". I'm sure there are 15 year old's who speak without using "like". I'm talking people my age! 2. "Oh, I'm too old to learn ______". I know people younger than I am who are old, and people many years older than I am who are up for anything. Guess who I'd rather hang out with? 3. A cousin to #2 is: "I'm just not good with math/not a computer nerd/athletic/ artistic/smart enough for whatever/insert denigrating statement here. We're all not good at everything, obviously, but I respect people who try something new. How do you know you're "not good"? 4. Any excuses, though I have to work on this myself. That's why I want someone dedicated to owning themselves, not excusing themselves. __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

01-19-2024, 10:30 AM	#4
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: Fae Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,634 Thanked 22,019 Times in 7,121 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	snow, snow jokes, snow ice cream, people who make snow ice cream and think it's the coolest __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

01-22-2024, 02:00 PM	#7
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,646 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,272 Thanked 9,328 Times in 3,019 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Instant Turn Offs Those who send vague messages cryptically. Those who speak in innuendoes.

01-14-2024, 01:29 PM	#2
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: May 2010 Location: @ home with my granddaughter, chosen friends & family. ツ Posts: 16,129 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,541 Thanked 33,556 Times in 10,668 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	3 types of turn offs… 1) Not sure how to articulate this particular type of a huge turn-off, but it turns me off when I hear veiled threats, the type of talking to others that seems like one-up-manship, or the type of verbiage that is insulting to me or others. I quit my Facebook acct years ago because of noticing this type of verbal behavior by others in their f.b. Posts. 2) Another thing that turns me off is manipulation tactics. Just don’t do it. 3) Another thing that turns me off is perceived superiority. Superiority complex issues is a huge turn off. __________________ “Move in silence: Only speak when it’s time to say checkmate,” ~ Lorenzo Senni. “Evil flourishes in darkness, Corruption flourishes in secrecy,” ~ Attorney’s for the Epstein Sex Abuse Survivors. Last edited by Kätzchen; 01-14-2024 at 01:32 PM.

01-20-2024, 12:06 PM	#5
nhplowboi Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: male pronouns Relationship Status: Divorcee Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,327 Thanked 3,883 Times in 825 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	*A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.*