Opposites attract?

kittygrrl · 10-23-2024, 12:57 PM

hasn't changed too much...it's hard to find synergy..the buzz word now 'twinflame'..whatever..that isn't realistic...it's a nice dream but really, truth is the most important, ethics very important..you can adjust and find balance with everything else.my telltale sign..i find myself smiling just thinking about them, you don't have to worry about the corners...of their mind, you are their only focus...this is rare...i would almost say impossible..

Stone-Butch · 10-24-2024, 04:19 PM

I think some in common and some opposite is good. I definitly think (in my own opinion) that to begin with that butches and femmes are opposite to begin with in many ways. I think their being who they are begin the attraction in the first place. I am butch, I like femme and hopefully a femme finds me attarctive as well. I also think that respect and honesty is formost in any relationship weather it be friends or more. Appreciate what others bring into a relationship as they are giving you a part of themselves when they share their llikes and dislikes as well as their personal feelings about certain things. Put each other first and it will make your relationship grow.

10-23-2024, 12:57 PM	#1
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wrapped in a shawl Posts: 9,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,732 Thanked 22,162 Times in 7,228 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	hasn't changed too much...it's hard to find synergy..the buzz word now 'twinflame'..whatever..that isn't realistic...it's a nice dream but really, truth is the most important, ethics very important..you can adjust and find balance with everything else.my telltale sign..i find myself smiling just thinking about them, you don't have to worry about the corners...of their mind, you are their only focus...this is rare...i would almost say impossible.. __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

10-24-2024, 04:19 PM	#2
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,371 Thanked 9,434 Times in 3,092 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Opposites attract? I think some in common and some opposite is good. I definitly think (in my own opinion) that to begin with that butches and femmes are opposite to begin with in many ways. I think their being who they are begin the attraction in the first place. I am butch, I like femme and hopefully a femme finds me attarctive as well. I also think that respect and honesty is formost in any relationship weather it be friends or more. Appreciate what others bring into a relationship as they are giving you a part of themselves when they share their llikes and dislikes as well as their personal feelings about certain things. Put each other first and it will make your relationship grow.