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			In a realationship with my PhD. Dissertation work for the next 3 years Join Date: Jan 2010 
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			Grades are in two A's which bump my GPA to a 3.70. that is the new highest ever and considering the rough term and cancer scare I am so grateful :-) 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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	"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you." "Does it hurt" asked the Rabbit, "Sometimes", said the Skin Horse, for he was always honest. ![]() " It's a Kind of testing, The kind of testing that spiritual warriors need in order to awaken their Heart" PC  
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			A steaming cup of Tazo brand Chai. I managed to find it at the little grocers here in town for $3.99 and it makes lots of cups after you add the milk to it.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Ahhhhh, it's not so bad being away from Starbucks after all. It's not a Venti Mocha Frapp but it will do! 
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	You must submit to supreme suffering in order to discover the completion of joy. ~John Calvin~ 
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		#2003 | 
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			Watching "Julie & Julia" this morning with a grand cup of coffee and my sweet puppy by my side. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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		#2004 | 
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			As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 
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			I'm alive - I get to have fun again today!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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		#2005 | 
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			Today I am grateful for the little yellow house in Seattle,Lambda Houston(shout out to the noon meeting), meetings in the Castro SF and the East Bay and for all the friends who have help me along the path. Today I celebrate 25 years of being Clean and Sober. Today makes everything possible in my life, it is my New years.For Dawn, who said I did not have to live like that anymore in the dressing room of the Lusty Lady(Seattle), Nikki C. my first sponsor who loved me. To Keith (RIP) who offered his couch and gave me back my first taste of kindness and humanity by drawing me a bubble bath the night before I went to treatment. For all the lunches at Luby's, love me a LuAnn special, to Ally,Sheila,and Vince we keep trudging. Andrew I love you, and to my BFF Marilyn F you have without doubt been the best part of the last three years. A special remembrance goes to those who I/WE lost to HIV in the 80's who showed me how to live sober. and as Chris F. said to me once, "The Sun light of the Spirit", yes I am grateful and humbled by those who trudge this road of happy destiny. I will keep coming back, and give away what has been so freely given to me... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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	"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you." "Does it hurt" asked the Rabbit, "Sometimes", said the Skin Horse, for he was always honest. ![]() " It's a Kind of testing, The kind of testing that spiritual warriors need in order to awaken their Heart" PC  
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		#2006 | 
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			What brought me joy today.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Making a batch of Grands ooey gooey cinnamon rolls for breakfast. My hanging basket of Mexican Heather is finally coming back. I thought the Texas heat killed it, but it's sprouting new green limbs & purple blooms! Plans for a lunch date today with my FPH.  | 
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		#2007 | 
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			We're getting a two new clients at work, which means more hours, which means more money.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	In Lak'ech Ala K'in I'm a Soul Rebel ![]() http://wannabereverend.wordpress.com/ Spirituality is not a belief system or ideology, it is the surrender of one's ego to the infinite wisdom and knowledge that is the universe.  | 
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		#2008 | 
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			Ok.. so it was yesterday.. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			BUT.... I noticed more signs saying.. *Sold* and *Leased* It made me happy.. We have way to many.. For sale, For lease signs... 
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		#2009 | 
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			 Oldest grandaughter (5 months old) now has two teeth!!  
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		#2010 | 
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			The feel of the sun on my face (ever so slight as it was) and the soft caress of the wind like etheral fingers through my hair. Those are two things that brought me joy.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	=kassy= r/t Mishy =Love shared is love doubled.... pain shared is pain cut in half..........share your life with me, and i'll share mine with you...  | 
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		#2011 | 
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			Birds chirping, overcast and cool skies, the sweet buzz buzz buzz of incoming texts, and the still quiet of a house that only has one awakened occupant.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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		#2012 | 
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			My woman. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	![]() Our obnoxious dogs. ( "> him Not having to wake up at 5am! AND My new creation! D-fuckin-lish, I tell you. toasted garlic texas toast  heaped with avocado cube-ettes accompanied by strong coffee on the back porch while watching a dozen monarch butterflies flitz fucking about full of glee and shit. typing f u c k because sometimes it really is the most perfect word of all ![]()  
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		#2014 | 
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			I want that baby!  He's adorable.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			kitten's warm purring body draped across my face and nursing on my head at 5:30AM.   you'd think that would be a  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			wasabi covered soy nuts ~ joy for my mouth
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Handling some home stuff--scheduled carpet and upholstery cleaning, taking the small area rug in for cleaning, ordered new curtains for the living room and dining area, and talked to the carpet installers about repairing a seam. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The smartest thing was ordering curtains in the shorter length--away from the heating vents and pet hair balls. Sprucing up the living space brings me joy! 
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	In the flush of love's light  we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c 
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			a text finally  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Breakfast, well brunch actually, with some very lovely friends...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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