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			married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			{{{{{{{{{{{Dusa}}}}}}}}}}}}  Okay, love.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			 Mentally Delicious 
			
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Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: 
Mme. Relationship Status: 
			
				
			
			Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 
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 Hey Boots, et al! Just a quick note on the forums being closed to guests: I changed the settings in the back end so that people would have to log in to view our forums. I had a reason for it and it is intended to only be temporary. I will probably open them back up to guests later today or Sunday. I appreciate your patience  
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He, Sir, Bro, TD, Stevin Relationship Status: 
			
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			 I hate to sound totally dumb, but just how do I get to the Gallery. I don't see a link anywhere ![]() Thanks 
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			No Join Date: Nov 2009 
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 ![]() I thought it was just me, since I had'nt heard other people having to do the same, until now. No worries and no rush And THANK YOU for your quick response !  | 
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			Often while composing a post I'll be timed out before I can submit. Is there a setting to prevent getting logged out so quickly or...?  
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			 Administrator 
			
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Queer High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: 
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			Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 
				Location: The Planet 
				
				
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 Actually yes, I was being irritated by this issue as well and will get that changed to a longer cookie session..... for one MEEEEELLION dollars.  
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 I don't have no 1 meeeellion dollars, but I do have a bridge for sale... So yeah, I was copying all my posts before hitting submit, but failed to today and lost a post. That, in turn, led to an emotional downward spiral that required my femme soothe me. ![]() Speaking of soothing, the "thanks" option is driving her to madness. I can't say I'm a fan either. 1. It disrupts continuity. 2. Instead of clever reps (fun to read! relationship building!) members can now just hit "thanks." It seems, well, lazy. 3. e complained that she got so many thanks, it bumped her reps and she never got to read them. Yeah, I know, right? HARD to be so popular. We prefer the option whereby we can read our received and given reps. That's our list of demands for now. Doesn't mean we don't appreciate all that you do, because we do. A lot. 
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			Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken Last edited by Mister Bent; 11-28-2009 at 09:45 PM. Reason: thinks thanks thunks  | 
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			 Timed Out 
			
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Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: 
She. Relationship Status: 
			
			Married (one of 18,000) ![]() Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			Can there be a rule that somebody gives me healthy snacks when I post?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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honeysuckle venom Preferred Pronoun?: 
a pistol and a sugar cane Relationship Status: 
			
			I promise to aid and abet Join Date: Nov 2009 
				Location: in between poems where ceilings are floors and joe ghost floats achromatic toward day 
				
				
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			Dear Admindusa (too cute!), 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Could you please consider ousting that Bent guy? He is a big fat dork. And, like, you clearly don't have enough to do. Kthnxbai!  ,e 
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 I read this as healthy "socks" and was pleased to know I was fully prepared   !Hey! That bus hurt! 
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			 Timed Out 
			
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Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: 
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			Can you implement a "Stop when red lights flashing" or "crossing guard" smiley? Oh please. I feel like I have to scraped poor poor Mr. Bent's carcass off the asphalt.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 I like the idea of a crossing guard. That white belt is sort of sexy. 
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			 Senior Member 
			
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Stonefemme Relationship Status: 
			
			married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 
				Location: Wichita, KS 
				
				
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 I dunno how I feel about the thanks button... I certainly use it freely, although I have noticed that it does disrupt continuity. What's nice is that there's only one notice under a post and it lists all the people who have thanked for it.... I wish it could be that way in the rep comment section also, but I do understand the difficulties that might pose.  | 
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			 Practically Lives Here 
			
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: 
			
				
			
			She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			 Joy Seeker 
			
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Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: 
Goddess Relationship Status: 
			
				
			
			Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 
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			Re the Thanks feature? I agree. I really miss seeing my reps. I use the Thanks feature too but I wish they could be separated out.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			 The Planet's Technical Bubba 
			
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			Married to my forever! Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			  Hrmm.. Can we have a serious section for debate (general but not "fluff" or gender/orientation related)?  
		
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			 The Planet's Technical Bubba 
			
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			Married to my forever! Join Date: Nov 2009 
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   I'll add this to the list. 
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			What about an are that shows the top posters? 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 Member 
			
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Femme Woman Preferred Pronoun?: 
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			Married to Greyson Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			Just wanted to say I super LOVE the thanks button.  How fun is that!!!!  I am thanking fool.  It makes it feel very much homey and community-like. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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