It's ever so lonely..

Andrew, Jr. · 06-27-2010, 08:02 AM

Lady Wu,

You are not disappearing! I hear you. You are not alone. I get the same.

Sometimes people don't know what to say when they see the disability. It is fear I think. I know online I am more vocal than in person. I struggle all the time with the ability to communicate. Sometimes I say something and what I am saying is not what I am trying to really communicate. It is so very frustrating. Then I get the one jerk who will post something belittling about me, but it is always underhanded or hidden in their post. Everyone knows the game. It is on all online sites.

Like you, I too don't go out much. My health is really struggling. A heart attack is what slowed me down a great deal. I just never thought in my wildest dreams I would be unhealthy at such an young middle age. I can understand how people have to make the decision to eat or buy a pharmacy drug.

Just remember you are not alone. I have a disability thread somewhere here. Please join us there. You are most welcome too. And please remember, nobody knows when they will become sick. It can happen at any time. It was that way for me. I was full of life, and having a ball. Then the next thing I knew I was sick. It was just that fast. One day enjoying life as an abled bodied guy, the next in the corinary care unit. Life changes.

Peace to you,
Drew

betenoire · 07-13-2010, 11:24 PM

I was wondering if anybody could tell me where a queer can go to get a drink and maybe do a little dancing on a Saturday night in the Detroit area?

Alt/Rock or Retro music preferably.

skeeter_01 · 07-31-2010, 10:17 AM

i'm in the ann arbor area...ypsilanti actually...recently single and loving every minute of it! just me and my dog in my little butch-ler pad...working alot of OT because i CAN!...(my ex HATED it when i worked OT)..life is GOOD!!

wondering if anyone is close enough that they'd like to get together for coffee or whatever...give me a shout if you'd like to!

skeet

musicman · 07-31-2010, 11:01 AM

I was with someone for 14 years with the last 4 officially married. Been single for the last 2 years almost going on three in October. Quite frankly I don't like being single, don't want to really get use to it.

I miss the company of a woman, I miss the scent of a woman, I miss the feel of a woman, I miss touching a woman. I miss laying in bed and just talking to her and I miss long drives and not having to say a word.

Some people are fine with being single and that is great. Some are not and that's ok as well.

Hoping she is around the next corner or on the next profile page.

Warmest Regards

Musicman

The_Lady_Snow · 09-13-2010, 07:51 AM

BFP Gathering in Minneapolis Michigan Folks!!!

Minneapolis Gathering Oct 22 to 24 Butch-femme gathering in Minneapolis October 22 to 24.

All are invited.

We are in the planning stages. So far:

Friday we will have a meet and greet downtown--details to follow.

Saturday brunch then whatever you want to do: swimming, Mall of America, site seeing.

Saturday evening, Party at hot-not's house including horseshoes, karaoke, dancing, Chef Jenn is cooking.

Sunday Brunch

Still working out hotel details.

Please PM me if interested.

hot-not, April

betenoire · 09-27-2010, 08:06 PM

Hi Michigan!

I'm looking to rehome four kittens and their mother. If any of you are interested in a new pet, let me know. Me and Nick (oneye) will deliver and bring you coffee and gratitude.

link to their kijiji advert

morningstar55 · 11-04-2010, 07:49 PM

evening Michiganers.... lol

will be landing in . Flint Mi...... at some point tomorrow late afternoon.

07-13-2010, 11:24 PM	#2
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,741 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I was wondering if anybody could tell me where a queer can go to get a drink and maybe do a little dancing on a Saturday night in the Detroit area? Alt/Rock or Retro music preferably. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

07-31-2010, 11:01 AM	#4
musicman Member How Do You Identify?: NA Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NA Posts: 209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 429 Times in 125 Posts Rep Power: 3610464	Lonely in Ontario Canada I was with someone for 14 years with the last 4 officially married. Been single for the last 2 years almost going on three in October. Quite frankly I don't like being single, don't want to really get use to it. I miss the company of a woman, I miss the scent of a woman, I miss the feel of a woman, I miss touching a woman. I miss laying in bed and just talking to her and I miss long drives and not having to say a word. Some people are fine with being single and that is great. Some are not and that's ok as well. Hoping she is around the next corner or on the next profile page. Warmest Regards Musicman

09-13-2010, 07:51 AM	#5
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,077 Times in 15,670 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Minneapolis BFP Gathering!!! BFP Gathering in Minneapolis Michigan Folks!!! Minneapolis Gathering Oct 22 to 24 Butch-femme gathering in Minneapolis October 22 to 24. All are invited. We are in the planning stages. So far: Friday we will have a meet and greet downtown--details to follow. Saturday brunch then whatever you want to do: swimming, Mall of America, site seeing. Saturday evening, Party at hot-not's house including horseshoes, karaoke, dancing, Chef Jenn is cooking. Sunday Brunch Still working out hotel details. Please PM me if interested. hot-not, April __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

09-27-2010, 08:06 PM	#6
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,741 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Hi Michigan! I'm looking to rehome four kittens and their mother. If any of you are interested in a new pet, let me know. Me and Nick (oneye) will deliver and bring you coffee and gratitude. link to their kijiji advert __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

11-04-2010, 07:49 PM	#7
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	evening Michiganers.... lol will be landing in . Flint Mi...... at some point tomorrow late afternoon. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

06-27-2010, 08:02 AM	#1
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lady Wu, You are not disappearing! I hear you. You are not alone. I get the same. Sometimes people don't know what to say when they see the disability. It is fear I think. I know online I am more vocal than in person. I struggle all the time with the ability to communicate. Sometimes I say something and what I am saying is not what I am trying to really communicate. It is so very frustrating. Then I get the one jerk who will post something belittling about me, but it is always underhanded or hidden in their post. Everyone knows the game. It is on all online sites. Like you, I too don't go out much. My health is really struggling. A heart attack is what slowed me down a great deal. I just never thought in my wildest dreams I would be unhealthy at such an young middle age. I can understand how people have to make the decision to eat or buy a pharmacy drug. Just remember you are not alone. I have a disability thread somewhere here. Please join us there. You are most welcome too. And please remember, nobody knows when they will become sick. It can happen at any time. It was that way for me. I was full of life, and having a ball. Then the next thing I knew I was sick. It was just that fast. One day enjoying life as an abled bodied guy, the next in the corinary care unit. Life changes. Peace to you, Drew

07-31-2010, 10:17 AM	#3
skeeter_01 Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you! Relationship Status: Sleeping single in a double bed.. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ann arbor, michigan Posts: 195 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 477 Times in 130 Posts Rep Power: 3007277	i'm in the ann arbor area...ypsilanti actually...recently single and loving every minute of it! just me and my dog in my little butch-ler pad...working alot of OT because i CAN!...(my ex HATED it when i worked OT)..life is GOOD!! wondering if anyone is close enough that they'd like to get together for coffee or whatever...give me a shout if you'd like to! skeet