The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

ruthie14 · 07-01-2010, 04:16 AM

Morning everyone..
Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun.

Have a wonderful day everyone!

Ruthie

lipstixgal · 07-01-2010, 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Morning everyone..
Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun.

Have a wonderful day everyone!

Ruthie

Good Morning everyone!! Ruthie glad to hear that you are doing something for yourself, that's good and getting a hair cut is always a good thing ya know. good luck with your party wished I lived closer, it should be fun. Anyway, I have to go to school to give in transcripts so I could get credit for a class they want me to take, should be interesting to see what they have to say. Have a great day at work or play everyone!! leaving a little chocolate just because

Legendryder · 07-01-2010, 06:48 AM

Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working enviornment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.

Wryly · 07-01-2010, 07:56 AM

Hey all!

Today is Canada Day. In a little while I'm heading into Toronto - going to try hit the gay village for lunch. Got some plans for later with a friend.

Looks like I'm going to be on the road again this weekend - going to pick my sister up from her visit and then I'm taking a nephew to one of Toronto's northern suburbs. I'm bummed because it is PRIDE weekend and I'd hoped to go to the Dyke March. I guess since I'm not working that people assume I don't have anything planned.

I might be able to check in here tomorrow - if not everyone have a happy and safe holiday weekend!

cuddlyfemme · 07-01-2010, 08:24 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope everyone has a good day

*Magic_and_Silk* · 07-01-2010, 09:50 AM

Something to make you all smile!

lipstixgal · 07-01-2010, 10:20 AM

Good afternoon lofters, hope everyone is having a great day!!

lipstixgal · 07-01-2010, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Legendryder

Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working environment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.

Who's Bob is that your dog? Aren't you lonely? being single for almost 8 years. I wish someone would come into my life and fulfill it. I need that, yeah I have dogs but its not enough for me. I'm ready to take the plunge!!

Legendryder · 07-03-2010, 05:40 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Who's Bob is that your dog? Aren't you lonely? being single for almost 8 years. I wish someone would come into my life and fulfill it. I need that, yeah I have dogs but its not enough for me. I'm ready to take the plunge!!

Yes, Bob is my dog and no I am not lonely. I am too darn busy to be lonely. I am in school full time, work part time and have my business which takes all my time. So I have no time to be lonely. And I just do not think another person in my life is really all that important. I am happy that you are ready to find that one person and I wish you all the luck.

miss entycing · 07-03-2010, 05:50 AM

morning Lofter's

looks to be another beautiful but hot day here in the Carolina's... good day to spend by the water or maybe camping.....
wishful thinking here, lol..

hope everyone is having the beginnings of a lovely holiday weekend so far!

cuddlyfemme · 07-03-2010, 09:52 AM

Happy 4th of July weekend Lofters! Have fun and be safe

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07-01-2010, 04:16 AM	#1
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Morning everyone.. Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun. Have a wonderful day everyone! Ruthie

07-01-2010, 06:48 AM	#3
Legendryder Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Queen City, MO Posts: 420 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 969 Times in 261 Posts Rep Power: 7270132	Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working enviornment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.

07-01-2010, 07:56 AM	#4
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	Hey all! Today is Canada Day. In a little while I'm heading into Toronto - going to try hit the gay village for lunch. Got some plans for later with a friend. Looks like I'm going to be on the road again this weekend - going to pick my sister up from her visit and then I'm taking a nephew to one of Toronto's northern suburbs. I'm bummed because it is PRIDE weekend and I'd hoped to go to the Dyke March. I guess since I'm not working that people assume I don't have anything planned. I might be able to check in here tomorrow - if not everyone have a happy and safe holiday weekend!

07-01-2010, 08:24 AM	#5
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07-03-2010, 09:52 AM	#11
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Happy 4th of July weekend Lofters! Have fun and be safe