for the posters who chose new names

[evolveme]

Dear The Artist Formerly Know As Sunflowergirl,

I don't recall you being this filled with cayenne pepper before, honey! Don't get me wrong, I like it. The saucy side of you is fun times!

As for your changing your screen name being necessarily sneaky or behind the scenes fuckery, I say Oh, Balogna. It's really no one's business. And if you wake up one morning feeling like Susan Cinderella, then your sweet little five year old self is perfectly permitted to force your parents and everyone else to call you that for the next two years. It worked for me.

But is it all right if I shorten your new name to something like Flower?

May I call you Flower if I want to?

Love and crap,

e

[hippieflowergirl]

Originally Posted by evolveme

Dear The Artist Formerly Know As Sunflowergirl,

I don't recall you being this filled with cayenne pepper before, honey! Don't get me wrong, I like it. The saucy side of you is fun times!

As for your changing your screen name being necessarily sneaky or behind the scenes fuckery, I say Oh, Balogna. It's really no one's business. And if you wake up one morning feeling like Cinderella Susan, then your sweet little five year old self is perfectly permitted to force your parents and everyone else to call you that for the next two years. It worked for me.

But is it all right if I shorten your new name to something like Flower?

May I call you Flower if I want to?

Love and crap,

e

i dearly love Cinderella Susan and want to call you that now! it's too damn perfect for words. two years was not long enough.

i apologize for the over indulgence of cayenne. we had hot wings for dinner before the Saints/Patriots game.

my own family calls me by a variety of names, none of them the one on my birth certificate. i've been "Pete" for the majority of my life with my extended family. my parents called me "OhNo" and "Hardway" for reasons that can be easily (and rightly i imagine) speculated on. when the movie "Finding Nemo" came out they began referring to me as "Dori" en masse and i've never been able to threaten them adequately enough to make them stop.

my name has been legally changed 5 times, beginning when i was 6. at no time was i a criminal or trying to avoid detection by anyone. i change. why should my name not change if i want it to? the name on my driver's license right now is almost exactly the same as the name i was given when i was little. my initials are unfortunate, bringing to mind a rather large, wholly idiotic and sadly well known racist hate group, but i suspect i carry them off by being as unlike one of their members as is humanly possible.

as for calling me Flower...why not? it's better than OhNo.

[evolveme]

Originally Posted by hippieflowergirl

i dearly love Cinderella Susan and want to call you that now! it's too damn perfect for words. two years was not long enough.

Ha! Go for it.

as for calling me Flower...why not? it's better than OhNo.

Oh hell no. Pete it is!



(Gooooo Saints!)

[Lynn]

I was Fem-me, but now I'm Lynn. Because it's my name and I feel most comfortable being known.

[evolveme]

Originally Posted by Lynn

I was Fem-me, but now I'm Lynn. Because it's my name and I feel most comfortable being known.

Hmm.

Now this is some serious subterfuge.

We need to watch out for this one.

[hippieflowergirl]

Originally Posted by evolveme

Hmm.

Now this is some serious subterfuge.

We need to watch out for this one.

i know, right? it's always the quiet ones.....

[Enchantress]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a name change.

In all honesty I considered one myself, but was lacking in creativity the day I found the site!

It's important to embrace change and evolution, no matter what the venue. Not too mention your new name is just fabulous. It brings to mind flower wreaths, flowing beauty and delightful uninhibited times!

[hippieflowergirl]

Originally Posted by Enchantress

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a name change.

In all honesty I considered one myself, but was lacking in creativity the day I found the site!

It's important to embrace change and evolution, no matter what the venue. Not too mention your new name is just fabulous. It brings to mind flower wreaths, flowing beauty and delightful uninhibited times!

awwwwwwwww. you're so sweet! i thought it was just a way to avoid shaving and get lots of flowers.

dare i say it....your name is enchanting. i doubt you were lacking in creativity so much as the name suited you so well it didn't want to leave you yet.

[evolveme]

Originally Posted by Enchantress

Not too mention your new name is just fabulous. It brings to mind flower wreaths, flowing beauty and delightful uninhibited times!

Yes, but really, so does Pete.

[hippieflowergirl]

Originally Posted by evolveme

Yes, but really, so does Pete.

~ oy ~

what have i done?

[hippieflowergirl]

okay. enough with the kisses and sugarlips treatment.

what about the peeps who think changing IDs is low down and sneakified? i'm not askin' anyone to love me but it bites in a big bad way to have to battle the speculation. it's natural to wonder/be curious and, in the world we've created, to not engage in trust at first sight. plus, i've been a jerk more times than i can count in life. if anyone had something to hide at one point it's probably me.

humans are suspicious creatures when their companions don't smell right. so...what to do, besides give time and space, to make the more name-attached comfortable?

[kittygrrl]

personally, I enjoy thinking up unique ways of expressing who I am, and since the net is limited changing your name to distinguish a change in your circumstance (ie newly single, just married), or just because is just fine, imo..however, I think there are a few out there who use them for other more sinister reasons..but ultimately whoever you are shines out apart from any name chosen and your personality creates an overall impression of who you are..so no matter how clever you are, there is always someone who may want to figure out your puzzle..to that I say "bring it on"