I am a Lesbian/Man/Tman and I like Lesbians/Men/Transmen because....

Sam · 07-05-2010, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Corkey

I am Transgendered Male Butch and I like lesbians, I love my wife who is Lesbian.

I know you, but im not getting "Male Butch", transgendered i understand. im not nit picking or calling you out, i just wasnt sure transgendered male/butch, i guess maybe im just not getting the butch part. Corkey, but its great to see ya'll around

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

I know you, but im not getting "Male Butch", transgendered i understand. im not nit picking or calling you out, i just wasnt sure transgendered male/butch, i guess maybe im just not getting the butch part. Corkey, but its great to see ya'll around

Sam,so great you dropped in! What do you like or admire about the lesbians you know???

Or the men, or Tmen, or anybody really.

Sam · 07-05-2010, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by bonne-maman

Sam,so great you dropped in! What do you like or admire about the lesbians you know???

Or the men, or Tmen, or anybody really.

lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject. but im a transguy, and i like and get along wonderfull with femme's of any nature.

this is a great thread. great reading.

Queerasfck · 07-05-2010, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject. but im a transguy, and i like and get along wonderfull with femme's of any nature.

Weird response.

Mister Bent · 07-05-2010, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject. but im a transguy, and i like and get along wonderfull with femme's of any nature.

this is a great thread. great reading.

Sam, maybe it's just me, but "lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject..." feels like a veiled reference to something negative and I'm pretty sure you know that's not cool, especially not in this thread.

"But I'm a transguy..." What's that got to do with anything who you do or don't get along with?

Sam · 07-05-2010, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Sam, maybe it's just me, but "lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject..." feels like a veiled reference to something negative and I'm pretty sure you know that's not cool, especially not in this thread.

"But I'm a transguy..." What's that got to do with anything who you do or don't get along with?

your opinion of course.

differences of opinions from all walks of life Bent. you keep yours, i will keep mine.

Sam · 07-05-2010, 09:12 PM

Not all femme women consider themselves "lesbian"

that was all i meant.

Mister Bent · 07-05-2010, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

your opinion of course.

differences of opinions from all walks of life Bent. you keep yours, i will keep mine.

My opinion is that you should state yours more clearly, if you really want us to buy this attempt at back-peddling:

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Originally Posted by Sam

Not all femme women consider themselves "lesbian"

that was all i meant.

I think that's incredibly obvious, Sam. I think we're all pretty well versed that not all femmes consider themselves lesbian, which has zero relevance to the thread.

There is no way, from the way you worded your comment, that you can honestly expect anyone here to believe "that was all you meant."

It was damned disrespectful to the intent of the thread. Own it.

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 09:11 PM

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Originally Posted by EzeeTiger

Weird response.

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Sam, maybe it's just me, but "lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject..." feels like a veiled reference to negativity and I'm pretty sure you know that's not cool, especially not in this thread.

"But I'm a transguy..." What's that got to do with anything who you do or don't get along with?

I love these gents. Fellows, you're always welcome in my thread! Let's hear why you love lesbians. I am sure Sam would like to hear!

Queerasfck · 07-05-2010, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by bonne-maman

I love these gents. Fellows, you're always welcome in my thread! Let's hear why you love lesbians. I am sure Sam would like to hear!

Thanks Pasha. Of course I love my lesbian sisters. It was nice of you to start this thread and beautiful to read. Maybe Sam can learn something from it. I just learned something by reading it.

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by EzeeTiger

Thanks Pasha. Of course I love my lesbian sisters. It was nice of you to start this thread and beautiful to read. Maybe Sam can learn something from it. I just learned something by reading it.

If you were here I would give you a brownie with your tea Mr. Ezee. You certainly deserve one! Spa does make good brownies!

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

lesbians? you really dont want my opinion on this subject. but im a transguy, and i like and get along wonderfull with femme's of any nature.

this is a great thread. great reading.

I will count myself as confused then, as the purpose of this thread.......oh, silly me. You can read. The purpose of this thread is clearly stated at the beginning.

You get along with femmes of the lesbian nature? How grand.

just left wondering why I wouldn't care for your opinion then.....

Corkey · 07-05-2010, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

I know you, but im not getting "Male Butch", transgendered i understand. im not nit picking or calling you out, i just wasnt sure transgendered male/butch, i guess maybe im just not getting the butch part. Corkey, but its great to see ya'll around

Simple Sam and yes I know you too. I am not taking T, nor am I having surgeries. I am male but not going to transition. Therefore I retain Butch. Didn't think you were nit picking.

TenderKnight · 07-05-2010, 09:14 PM

*sighs and ducks and covers*

here is comes, folks.. hold on to your asses..

Corkey · 07-05-2010, 09:16 PM

What, a pleasant answer to an honest question. Really, put your guard down.

TenderKnight · 07-05-2010, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by TenderKnight

*sighs and ducks and covers*

here is comes, folks.. hold on to your asses..

I am truely hoping that my sarcasim here was uncalled for.. and if so, I am sorry for interrupting the flow of the thread..

Another reason why I admire lesbians? Because they are proud of being a woman that loves other women.

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by TenderKnight

I am truely hoping that my sarcasim here was uncalled for.. and if so, I am sorry for interrupting the flow of the thread..

Another reason why I admire lesbians? Because they are proud of being a woman that loves other women.

Tender, We Lesbians do have some pride goin on, don't we?

You know though, that is exactly one of the reasons I love Tmen. They are so, without fear or regret, proud of their brave selves. Takes my breath away the struggle they go through and maintain all that pride. Love.

bonne-maman · 07-05-2010, 09:28 PM

Mister Clark Kent, here.

Hold the rose. Tell me why you like me. (or any other lesbians).

I like you because you are funny and you are a big enough man to identify yourself without the traditional Tman trappings.

Mister Bent · 07-05-2010, 09:34 PM

Well, Pasha, you know you just might be my favorite lesbian. I respect the life you've lived and the people and causes you've represented. I admire the gays, lesbians and trans people who have come before me, you and the rest of us, who have allowed us to have the voices we do today.

I have been guilty, in the past, of generalizations that were hurtful, because of hurtful, backlash encounters I'd had. You are one of the people who has gotten me to look at those behaviors and adjust my perspective accordingly.

I like people who are willing to build bridges, not desperately cling to tired stereotypes.

Sam · 07-05-2010, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Corkey

Simple Sam and yes I know you too. I am not taking T, nor am I having surgeries. I am male but not going to transition. Therefore I retain Butch. Didn't think you were nit picking.

Thanks Corkey, i was not sure in the last couple years if you decided to take T, that is all i was wondering.

thank you for clarifying

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TenderKnight Member How Do You Identify?: Kinky Poly Transman Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Monroe, NC Posts: 551 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 773 Thanked 822 Times in 256 Posts Rep Power: 2402408	sighs and ducks and covers here is comes, folks.. hold on to your asses.. __________________ The beatings shall continue.. until moral improves..

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Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,270 Times in 6,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	What, a pleasant answer to an honest question. Really, put your guard down. __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

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bonne-maman Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: All right SPA. I am single. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minneapolis Posts: 147 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39 Thanked 158 Times in 61 Posts Rep Power: 2494	Mister Clark Kent, here. Hold the rose. Tell me why you like me. (or any other lesbians). I like you because you are funny and you are a big enough man to identify yourself without the traditional Tman trappings. __________________ http://www.sakshamimpex.com/images/logo_bonne_small.jpg

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Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,825 Times in 1,722 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Well, Pasha, you know you just might be my favorite lesbian. I respect the life you've lived and the people and causes you've represented. I admire the gays, lesbians and trans people who have come before me, you and the rest of us, who have allowed us to have the voices we do today. I have been guilty, in the past, of generalizations that were hurtful, because of hurtful, backlash encounters I'd had. You are one of the people who has gotten me to look at those behaviors and adjust my perspective accordingly. I like people who are willing to build bridges, not desperately cling to tired stereotypes. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken Last edited by Mister Bent; 07-05-2010 at 09:40 PM.

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Sam Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 2/11/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: I'll let you know Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,101 Thanked 668 Times in 363 Posts Rep Power: 0	Not all femme women consider themselves "lesbian" that was all i meant.