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			i like big butts  can spank with a spatula--hehe 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			I have enough love for all the girls...not just big girls, but girls that are little, tall, short, skinny, chubby.....you name it!   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Whoot for big girl love!!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I am.. thick curvy velvet soft beautiful sexy!!  
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			The thicker the cushion, the better the pushin'  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Sorry I was MIA for a couple of days 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I love all BBW!  I hope everyone is doing well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 Beautiful is beautiful regardless of size. These are from the "size issue" of V Magazine with Gaboury Sidibe from Precious on the front cover. I think these are stunning. So I wanted to share..... ![]()  
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			My dad used to say while I was growing up, there's two types of women in this world. Those built for speed and those built for comfort. Wasn't until I grew up and started looking at all women that I understood what he meant. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I've dated and or lived with women of all shapes and sizes. I adore all of them, but my preference is one with curves and meat on her bones. BBW, ya'll wear it well and don't let anyone ever tell you differently. 
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		What is the definition of "big girl"? Is it subjective and open to interpretation, or is there a size height requirement? I had a person I was dating call me "chubby" once... ![]() we never dated again..... he meant it as a comliment but I feel like being called a "big Girl" somehow negatively compares me to a skinny girl... Now I know I have my own issues and demons surrounding weight sexiness and feelings of self worth..and because of that being reffered to as a "big Girl" weirds me out... For all of you who appreciate and love us curvacious delicious women I say....Thank you...(you have excellent taste) 
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			Dude, I am all for a discussion about fat-positivity.  But I'm a wee smidgen wary since "Go BBW" threads always end up with at least one asshat mentioning how they are afraid that they would crush, break, bruise, blah blah blah a skinny girl.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Colour me a pessimist, colour me a realist, just don't colour me yellow cuz I look like shit in that shade...but I figured I'd toss in a quick little "don't go there" before somebody, you know, goes there. Sexy is sexy regardless of size. Sexy, my darlings, is in the walk, the talk, the glance and the glare. It's in the level of confidence and how you work with what your DNA tossed atcha. Dig? 
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			yes, that's how it should be...although I personally do not prefer..WAAAY TOO MUCH! THAT turns me off..either way.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Sure I think the word is subjective and is open for interpretation. I dont think at all it has any requirements. Its all about what you are into and what your minds eye sees. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I have always been attracted to BBW. Ive never dated a woman that was what society deems thin. I dont have a set "size" within the BBW spectrum. Its all good to me. I have dated slightly plus size to alot bigger so to me there really isnt a set size although I wont lie Im sure there is a limit in size for me some place. I just have never reached that I guess ![]() Quote: 
	
 
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