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![]() Choosing the songs, meeting new friends...that kind of thing. I always feel more connected to the people I do get CD's from ![]() Make the joy about the giving, not the receiving. ![]() ![]() ![]() S, I am merely using your post as a jumping off point, I know you were just playing! Grin!
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Oh and what is the due date? I am a deadline type person.
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![]() Try to have them to me by August 2. That's about 3 weeks (and me leaving extra time for people to run late ![]()
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If I know for certain that Medusa would spank me publicly, I would be late on purpose.
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Yes, but it's also unfair to the participants who put their own lives on hold to do this really beautiful thing for others when people flake out and are lame about it. If you just bail without offering any kind of explanation (sorry guys, I'm going to be late, my pet/child/partner/parent got sick/moved/ate my homework) then I think it's completely appropriate to call them out. It's one thing if life gets in the way--we allll have that happen, but to let it get in the way without any kind of "I'm still here, I'm still invested" is not okay with me. Selfishness is one of my hot button things, though, and I fully expect that everyone will make and send beautiful mixes of bitchin music ![]()
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Cuz I know that people who love music love people who love music. Other suggestions would be... Well. For everyone to include their address with the music they send to Medusa, that way they can't receive music until they've sent their own. That's one way. ![]() ETA: PS I'm not interested in fussin' about this, or about making it into a big thing, I just want it to work for everyone without anyone getting left out. ![]()
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Some people are shy, proud, or have issues they don't want to discuss with us and it upsets me personally deeply when we focus on what we can receive rather than what we can give with love, expecting nothing in return. It makes it ugly for me and I suspect several others of us idealists. ![]() I would like to see us all be thankful for what we get and leave it at that. If you don't receive a CD from your group members maybe drop a PM to me or to someone who has asked if they can send to everyone and give them your address. ![]() I would be happy to send all the CD's you want in whatever style you want. ![]() Please.
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My post--made completely in jest--is being made into an accusation that I'm going to call people out and be really ugly if ~*I don't get what I want*~ It's not about that. I don't care who sends what out, or who doesn't. It's not about that, for me. It's all about the music. I share music because I love music, not because I want to cause division. It feels like I'm getting called out for being pre-emptively mean, and I don't want that to taint the spirit in which this swap was designed. So, on that note, I am politely and respectfully withdrawing from the swap now with no ill feelings towards any of the participants.
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It just always happens and it is my least favorite part. "S, I am merely using your post as a jumping off point, I know you were just playing! Grin!" is what was in my first post. I am so sorry that you feel attacked, that was not my intention at all. I don't think the people who come in fussing about their CD's not arriving are mean, just maybe they have not thought through all the ramifications of calling people out about it. Again, I tried to make clear I was not slamming you or saying you are mean, sorry my little note at the end was not clear enough. I completely agree that it is all about the music and was trying to say that, but appear to have not done a good job of that.
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public calling me out:
guess what! i can't play--i didn't realize that i was on the list until i just saw it now, which isn't really an excuse, i have mad mixed tape skillz and i did *want* to participate but this move-thing is kicking my butt. instead, i could send each member in my group their very own dog? or a fantastic used book? art supplies, barely used or new? hair clips, ties, bands, scarves? sets of of tupperware? post-its? condoms (latex free!)? fabrics? usb cables that could wrap around the entire earth twice? do let me know!! |
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How about all those Ezee's spices you mentioned a few weeks ago?
![]() Or you could just send Ezee to mow mah lawns. ![]() Oh, wait...were U in mah group? ![]() ![]()
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