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Well Sassyleo I am a medical assistant and have no visible piercings except for the ears and no tattoos. The lady I'm doing my internship for is very conservative so is the practice. Its family medicine and geriatrics so I guess that the medical assistant doesn't care about her piercings or her job would be in jeopardy!! I for one am not going to get tatted or pierced in the future because I don't know what kind of job the future holds for me.
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I wanted to add in one other thought: it may also depend on the kind of tattoo it is. Fairies, flags, plants, religious icons, etc. tend to be ok. More violent (e.g., swearing, killing, skulls, etc.) and/or "nekkid" tattoos in particular would probably cause some "backlash".
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I think tattoos are hot as well! And it is interesting that I have less judgment about them... Quote:
That brings up a good point... would folks be more offended or have more judgment if the tattoos were seriously gross or offensive?
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Good thoughts. Thanks.
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Some parts of IT, yes. Parts that are not customer facing don't really care. They are more interested in ability than looks (the old BOFH was not know for hygiene or fashion sense).
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My first thought was "how is a nose piercing any less clean/healed than an ear piercing"?
There is a strata. And it's stupid. Sorry Sassy. I hear that it's your gut reaction and I'm not trying to jump down your throat for it. My feeling on the notion is as follows and this is from someone who's both been there and done that: I no longer care to work for any company who places value judgements about their employees or potential employees based on physical appearance. Know why? Cause it doesn't stop at tattoos and piercings. It doesn't stop at fat It doesn't stop at fey appearing It doesn't stop at butch appearing It doesn't stop at balding It doesn't stop at short It doesn't stop at women It doesn't stop at latino/a It doesn't stop at black It doesn't stop. |
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![]() I'm still trying to figure out where my feelings on this stem from...because I also have feelings about general appearance in the workplace, not necessarily related to tattoos and piercings. Like, we have a woman here who, despite consistent reminders about the company policy, wears flip flops to work (the cheap kind you buy at Old Navy for $2- which I also own but do not wear to work...) I personally think it is unprofessional, given the kind of work she does...
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I work in a wear house so i can wear what i want and i can have tattoos
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