Neurodiversity

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by Liam

I just watched Adam, a movie about a fellow aspergian. Has anyone else seen it? What did you think of it?

I have not seen it, will place on my Netflix list Thank you!

[quote=violaine;162763]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

The same thing my teachers said when I was little...if she would apply herself...try harder...change...listen...change...getting the right answer is not good enough...she must show her work...even if the answer pops in her head...stop her from counting with her fingers...she needs to make decisions faster...she is in her own little world and cares for no one but herself...she reads too much...she needs to stop drawing during class...it won't help her future to memorize all those train stations and maps...

Love the blog!

did you ever try to explain to the teachers that you were listening, thinking, feeling, following, understanding . . . only to be met with something ELSE [negatively stated] about your tone of voice ? ? ? being called 'argumentative' in responding to how they so wrongly perceived you?

Yes, but I got that at home more. I was always in trouble for "talking back" which ot me was trying to explain in a logical and clear way what I meant. But it never flew.

Originally Posted by urs

I got that - well, I got branded "lazy". "Apply herself" was something that I heard a lot, as well as "daydreaming" - oh yes, and the "stop drawing during class" - I once got into big trouble for drawing on an exam once I'd answered all the questions that I could. But nobody had heard of Asperger's back then. I wonder if it would have been easier if they had? I guess so...

I saw it - awhile ago. I think I enjoyed it, could see myself in some of it (not all). I think some of it was a bit over-simplified but that could have been for the benefit of the masses who might not know a lot about people on the autistic spectrum... but overall, I think it was a pretty good movie. My favourite is Snow Cake, even though the character Sigourney Weaver played was more autistic than asperger's. I think her daughter was probably aspie.

I wish I could have tried, though it sounds like it would not have helped anyway - I would have been misinterpreted just like you described, Belle. I usually would just cry and be completely unable to advocate for myself or explain anything at all.

It's very frustrating to be so emotionally fragile!

I still am a daydreamer!

And yes, it is still very frustrating. I soemtimes think all my nerve endings are on the surface.

Originally Posted by suebee

"Does not pay attention. Easily distracted." But with me it was undiagnosed ADD. To this day I have to explain myself. I once told a friend who was a physician that I had ADD. He told me that I was "far too intelligent to have ADD". And this was only ten years ago!

UGH. Yes yes. I have ben told that I don't look like I have anything wrong, so I don't.

Originally Posted by urs

Isn't it frustrating?

In a similar vein, I had a psychiatrist, who incorrectly diagnosed me as bipolar, tell me that I couldn't have asperger's because I was nothing like Mr Bean.

I can kinda lol about it now...

Mr. Bean? Nice.

[JazzGirl]

Thank you to all who post here. I am seldom here but am pleased to find the writings of you all when I do visit. I do not feel so alone in the reading of your words.

I can relate. I recently was shocked but happy to hear another person in my life say, YOU have spent all of your life attempting to conform to the world. I believe it is time for the world to begin to conform to you. You are perfect just the way you are. One day the rest of the world will know that, too.

Jazzie

[violaine]

ursy wrote on emotional fragility - yes! i wear it on my sleeve, but as an adult, people have called it 'immature/unacceptable' behaviour, and might really take advantage of one who is super sensitive. there are so many ways too!.

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by violaine

ursy wrote on emotional fragility - yes! i wear it on my sleeve, but as an adult, people have called it 'immature/unacceptable' behaviour, and might really take advantage of one who is super sensitive. there are so many ways too!.

I am trying to remove the people who stress me out or refuse to LISTEN to me one by one from my life.

[violaine]

i have not seen 'adam', but i really did like snow cake, urs!

the character opposite sigourney weaver in this film was awesome because he did not personalise 'her needs' - or trample all over what boundaries [the kitchen!] she needed to set in place in order to cope /just go on to the next step each day for her.

i loved that.

[Jess]

Another thread was started regarding the Children's Hospital in Boston and reading through it I was lead to this article. I pray more Governors/ politicians will follow this lead!

http://childrenshospitalblog.org/aut...rate-new-bill/

[christie]

Originally Posted by Jess

Another thread was started regarding the Children's Hospital in Boston and reading through it I was lead to this article. I pray more Governors/ politicians will follow this lead!

http://childrenshospitalblog.org/aut...rate-new-bill/

This is GREAT news! I wish that the awareness/treatments of today were in place when Bratboy was diagnosed - it would have made the journey less arduous.