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Old 07-29-2010, 06:27 PM   #1
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yeah i think it's time i write that book, i bet we all could too!
what NOT to do........

#1 do not give away all your power during the honeymoon sex part.......


as in have a backbone, don't let your partner run the whole show. that sets the tone and culture for the whole rest of the relationship.
have and opinion and express it. don't be afraid to disagree. even if you don't feel real strongly about something don't jut roll over and say "scratch my belly again please....."



In some relationships all power must be given to the other for it to work.

Then again some folks are fond of a good belly rub...

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Old 07-29-2010, 06:42 PM   #2
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In some relationships all power must be given to the other for it to work.

Then again some folks are fond of a good belly rub...

i do enjoy a good belly rub......
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Don't be dishonest or with holding. Or play games with your partner.
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Don't be dishonest or with holding. Or play games with your partner.
Exactly. Be real, be honest, be frank. The best advice I can give -- get to know yourself well, and learn to like yourself, so that you don't ever feel the need to try to be someone you're not. Get to know the person you're dating well, and allow that person to learn who you are. Think. Talk. Communicate. Talk some more. Think some more...

And enjoy.
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In some relationships all power must be given to the other for it to work.

Then again some folks are fond of a good belly rub...

ROLF!!

Different strokes!


Just thinking that it might be a good idea to just be yourself... during all phazes... I know, not easy to do, but I don't want to wake up to someone I don't know or vise versa...

... no matter the strokes of choice....


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ROLF!!

Different strokes!


Just thinking that it might be a good idea to just be yourself... during all phazes... I know, not easy to do, but I don't want to wake up to someone I don't know or vise versa...

... no matter the strokes of choice....



True dat!

It's pretty simple in *my* experience if you are up and up on what kind of person you are, your traits, your habits, all that is gonna eventually rise and the other person will take notice.

So instead of all lollipops and rainbows and promises of shitting glitter *I* have found it to be honest up front about what I will do, won't and may comply to . Now I tend to be non compliant, so it is pretty up front I am boss. The end. I too tend to educate and inform I am no white picket fence nor pink cupcakes.

It keeps things on the up and up that way yanno?

Good thread andy!
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