what NOT to do in a relationship.......

[dark_crystal]

Originally Posted by EntycingFemme

*I* personally absolutely agree with everything you said- as for the why's? I honestly can't answer, because I really don't know why some couples veer off the honeymoon path, I have no earthly idea where the intensity goes, or where the emotional attachment goes... or even where the raw need for sex goes!
I think it's a shame tho.. to lose something so intense.
I can only speculate that things happen.... maybe a physical condition or deep depression affecting one partner for instance?

i think for me...in the past...what has caused the honeymoon to end, is me being dysfunctional...i tend towards avoidance and i hate confrontation so i won't ever say anything that might be un-pleasing...and this has tended to lead to a lot of built up petty resentments