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What not to do.....don't go into a new relationship without having gotten over the last one. Some people call that baggage. That's some poopie baggage. Not to mention a doomed new relationship! |
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Do not cosign for $10,000 in furniture when you're not married.
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when adding anyone to your most important asset such as your home deed. Regardless of the certainty both feel that the relationship is a 'forever one' - people change for a number of reasons. Trying to remove a name off of a home deed is costly not just financially but emotionally. Consider prenuptials. It only makes good business sense. I speak from first hand experience. So does my well-paid attorney.
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My mom, but she had to replace it all after I...
Wait, wrong thread. Sorry!
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Who the hell wants furniture that costs that much?! I guess I don't get it.
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You know those places where you get it all and pay monthly? Like a rent to own sorta deal?
Well she was in the military and just got housing (was married to a gay friend) and the only furniture we had was my bed and dresser.. A dining room, living room, bedroom set x 2 later.. Well. YEAH. Then she was kicked out for being gay and upon calling the people and letting them know the money would no longer be coming from her account but from mine due to her discharge, they told us they would be arriving the next day to TAKE IT ALL BACK. We had already paid $3k of it off. No refund. And after we split months later she informed me she got a letter from them, and they were asking for the remaining balance.. AND they had already re-sold it! I never got anything, I don't know what happened about that. Dreading that call one day ![]() So yeah. Signed, A hella lot smarter girl this time around - boi and I agreed we would not buy anything we couldn't pay for all in cash at time of purchase Edited to add - I don't think we looked at the price tags. It was her idea to go get all the furniture. When she got kicked out - we had to go apartment hunting obviously - and I didn't let her do that again. We accumulated our furniture over a period of time - all free - dining room and living room and bedroom. |
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how about dont air your pvt stuff online.
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dont make someone else more significant to you than your partner. When you rely on someone else to be your other half, to share your thoughts and hopes and fears with, you are literally stealing that away from the person you said you loved.
dont set unrealistic expectations dont make small things huge things. Dont make her/his huge things inconsequential. Share more than a bed with her/him. A relationship isnt whats in bed. Thats only a small % of it. When the covers are back and your feet hit the floor, that day should include him or her dont cheat. For god sake, please dont cheat. And there are many ways to cheat. I just had a discussion with someone about online cheating. Its not just about sex. Its also about having your needs fulfilled by someone else and fulfilling someone else's needs before your partner's, too dont share a bank account when you inherit large sums of money dont hand your paycheck over dont shove the child out of the way no matter how old she is dont resent the animals in her/his life. You wont win dont expect more out of the other person than you are willing to her/him to expect out of you. No double standards. You want him or her to look her best, be thin, dress top notch, etc, then you best do it too dont manipulate to move in or to have her/him to move in, too soon. Lets help eradicate the uhaul legend... and I see this with alot of online relationships: dont use someone up and caste them aside when you are "fixed". So many people hook up when someone is going thru a tough time..dealing with a death, having financial problems, experiencing major health issues. They hook up and when their grief is over, they have money in their pocket again or their health is better,they dump the person who helped them and move on...AND dont be the person who is needy. Hold off. Do it yourself. You will thank yourself big time later... there is more but thats off the top of my head
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I agree about the fur kids and my own child...they are my family first and formost,as well as everything else softness said...couldnt have said it better.
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