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08-01-2010, 02:43 PM
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Dont stay up till you have to be at work in 2 hours processing emotions.
Go to bed. Its ok to say I love you, but Im mad. And I need to sleep to clear my head. Reapproach it tomorrow. After breakfast. And maybe even after talking it over with someone who can play devils advocate, or at least journal what your thinking Remember you are on the same "team" It diffuses the hight of the emotion a bit, for me. |
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08-01-2010, 02:45 PM
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Hym, Hyz...or, just b respectable, it's not that hard.. 
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Mind if I add one?
It's not a biggie, No paragraphs, no cynical tone.... Don't LIE Why? Because eventually, I'll find out... And when I do, try not to have a "wtf??" expression when I tell you to get fucked, get bent, go to your side of hell and stay the FUCK away me, it insults my intelligence. 
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08-01-2010, 06:03 PM
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Family Man
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Judge me I am who and what I am your approval is not needed.. it has taken me a long time to get here...
Play games with my mind and my heart if you say something mean it call me names try to break me down even in a passive agressive way .. just cause I am country don't mean I am dumb play on my insecurities I don't let many close for that reason I will not hand you the knife to cut with with DO NOT ever say or be disrespectful of my dad or the rest of my family we may be a odd bunch but we are family Don't refer to my Skyler as " that horse " she is my baby so there
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08-01-2010, 06:21 PM
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☆ the stars are aligned ☆
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08-01-2010, 06:25 PM
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this is a big one for me...i have caved on a milion issues i should have stoood firm for just because my partner was willing to keep me up all night if that was how long it was going to take for me to submit...i have a job to do and i can't do it sleepy...
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08-01-2010, 06:27 PM
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DO NOt Start talking to guys without telling your partner that you switched sides lol
Do not tell your partner that your extended family will now be living with you indefinitley and all of the animals that go along with said family tommorow... yeah thats kinda a dealbreaker...... |
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08-01-2010, 06:29 PM
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this has been an issue for me in past D/s relationships...it is tricky because there are times when one or both of us may have to step out of the dynamic...but i do think it shoud be formally announced when it is happening...if we are both jumping in and out of the dynamic things can break down real quick
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08-01-2010, 06:40 PM
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DO NOT............................. assume or think or presume you are perfect and infallible...and I promise I will try to remember I am not either.
Remember we got involved with each other for the same reason ,,we each saw something, liked something, loved something in each other...Now let us both do each other a favor and remember that when we see all the crap that comes with that something we fell in love with!
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08-01-2010, 07:18 PM
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Joy Seeker
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08-01-2010, 07:23 PM
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makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status:
single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. 
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We have posted a lot of what not to do,soooo how about a fue of what too do.Hear are a fue of mine...
Understand if I am in a relationship with u it will be the first one that I have been in.Yeah,ive dated and had a fue women friends with benefits over the years,but we both knew what we were geting into cause nither wanted anything else.. My trust and heart are guarded by a gate with an iron lock,for me to open it u will be dificult in many ways because of being used,lied to,made a fool of ect,ect..give me time to realise its ok to let u in. Understand that I dont do abuse in any way..I will be gone in a flash. I was the abandond child who was barely part of the family.If it hadnt been for my grand folks and an aunt and uncle who passed way to soon I wouldnt know what a good relationship was I grew up knowing two sets of rules to live by..theires and mine,in no way were they anywhere the same. As we get to know each other please realise im going to have to get use to beleaving someone could really care enough to love me. I havent had many soft places to fall,so if I dont let u in when u think I should have..lets talk it out,I promiss to do better next time. Well these are a fue,no im not a basket case because of what ive gone thrue cause over the years I have become who I am and am at peace with all the things life has thrown at me |
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08-01-2010, 07:31 PM
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DO NOT eat ALL the Salt and Vinegar chips!
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08-01-2010, 07:40 PM
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ANDDD all MY er, I mean...the chocolate- you will not 'cute' your way outta that.
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08-01-2010, 07:48 PM
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ADONT be jealous of my femme friends. There are reasons they are my friends. They were in my past, some of them we had it out we made it through were loyal no matter what and made it to my present and will be there in my future. It raises a red flag to me if one is jealous of someones friends just sayin
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08-01-2010, 09:11 PM
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Dont grose out when...I eat pickled pigs feet or pickled pork hocks,I dont do this much any more but onece in a while i gotta have some.
I love sour pickles and keep them by the galon. I really dig red wine vinager,by the glas or over lettus I cook with lots of garlic..if its too much for u let me know and I will cut it back a bit. Salt and viniger chips are great but I dont eat them so much because of the high salt content Yes,I have some strange eating habits.But I dont have high bp or colestol either. |
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08-01-2010, 09:42 PM
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dont bring a ouiji board in the house. Nor talk about dark spirits nor treat lightly magic of any kind. I dont want to be around when it bites you in the cosmic ass
I have an eclectic spirituality and my practices are wholesome and from light and love. Dont call me evil or a satanist..or I shall pretend to be one just to scare you as far away from me as possible dont put on my lipstick...even as a joke. Unless you are dressing up as the Joker... dont stop opening car doors for me. Even after 8 years. Or more...
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08-01-2010, 09:47 PM
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08-01-2010, 10:02 PM
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Do not tell me that you are just visiting your parents, only to find out that you never moved out and your mom still makes you dinner every night.
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08-01-2010, 10:03 PM
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When I strap on my cock, dont look at me and say.."what's that for" ?
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08-01-2010, 10:26 PM
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YAY!
thi ha been a very informative thread. Thanks to everyone that has contributed!
i am sure we will have many more stories! thanks all!
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08-01-2010, 10:35 PM
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Timed Out
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I'm thinkin' that one thing not to do in a relationship would be ~ if one is IN a relationship ~ to come into a thread like this and post what not to do before one discusses it with their partner.
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