Light a candle - Page 20

Tommi · 07-31-2010, 07:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tommi

Please send light

for my friend Milana, who after two weeks in ICU on a ventilator, is being transferred to a long term acute care hospital this morning.
and for SD and her world .

IF YOU DO NOT HAVE MEDICAL DIRECTIVES AND DESIGNATED A POWER OF ATTORNEY DO IT ASAP.

Complications canceled Milana being transferred to an acute reahab place to wean her off the ventilator yesterday. The feeding tube, which was the simple surgical procedure she was admitted for became dislodged and they have been injecting meds, quarts of liquid feedings into the tube was just going into her belly. She looked at me and I knew she was in horrible pain yesterday. She wrote that she needed ice bags on her tummy, and was so terrified when a nurse came to give her more meds in the feeding tube. They knew two days ago it was having problems..So, they rushed her down for a CAT scan, saw it was not in the stomach, and today took it out.

This afternoon they loaded her with Morphine and Propofol, and said she needed to rest, so she wouldn't dislodge the trach, like she did the feeding tube. I WAS LIVID, and her sister saved me from losing it with a cocky bitch of a nurse. Milana wasn't sick until these people got ahold of her.

So, she is one tuff butch cookie, and fighting for her life. My buddy is very very sick, and there is nothing we can do, but keep defending her life from assholes.

So, lighting a candle factory is not a good thing I spose, but geeesh, i need lots of light and help for my Bud.

JakeTulane · 08-01-2010, 05:47 PM

For all of those in need.

Nat · 08-01-2010, 05:57 PM

Healing for Spirit Dancer

Tommi · 08-02-2010, 09:42 AM

Lighting candle for Milana. She goes to surgery today for a new feeding tube to be put in, since the first one was just leaking into her abdomen.

Still on ventilator from the 16th feeding tibe insertion, emergency trach, and ICU admission. Still unable to speak. Still a vulnerable scared butch in a big hospital bed with tubes and monitors everywhere.

On my way to ICU.Thank you all for the love and light. AND sharing for SD and all those that are on our special planet.

Tommi.

Isadora · 08-02-2010, 10:02 AM

Please light a candle for my brother Ray, he was in a bad motorcycle accident they flew him to Denver from his home in Nebraska. They were riding with friends (my brothers Ray and Terry) when they came to the curve Ray just kept going straight and never used his brakes. He hit a sign and went down. There is signs of heart trauma so they think he was having a heart attack. He is in a medically induced comma. He has broken legs, arms, ribs, punctured lung, a blocked neck artery, some cranium bleeding and vertebrae C2-C7 are broken but wiggles his toes on command so they don't believe he is paralyzed. Today they are going to reduce the comma a little and access what to do about he bleeding. They have plans for most of his healing but the vertebrae...most paralysis comes at the C4-C5 and they are afraid to do to much at the moment. He will be placed in a halo at some point. Thank you.

Isadora · 08-02-2010, 02:56 PM

Thanks everyone. I am waiting to hear from a meeting today. He has a blocked artery in his neck and some cranial bleeding. They are meeting with doctors this afternoon to look at the plan of action for healing. Thank you again for all your prayers.

miss entycing · 08-02-2010, 02:57 PM

For Ray.... Spirit Dancer.... Pat.... Dolo.... Milana-
and to our Planet family

Keeping candles lit here, and sending strength to anyone who needs it.

Cyclopea · 08-02-2010, 03:06 PM

spirit dancer

Isadora · 08-02-2010, 03:43 PM

So....the main concern at this juncture is a clot in one of the 4 major arteries to his brain. they can't repair the spinal fractures until the clot is resolved. they hope to start blood thinners today if the brain bleed has
ceased.

Tommi · 08-02-2010, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Isadora

So....the main concern at this juncture is a clot in one of the 4 major arteries to his brain. they can't repair the spinal fractures until the clot is resolved. they hope to start blood thinners today if the brain bleed has
ceased.

This kind of accident and scary arterial stuff is awful, but hopeful. We have very forgiving bodies. I hope in time he will mend and bend and be good as new.

Tommi

JakeTulane · 08-02-2010, 04:36 PM

Lighting a candle for Ray, Isadora, and Isadora's family. Open your heart and feel the warmth of this flame and the strength and love that it sends.

JazzGirl · 08-03-2010, 11:35 AM

Lighting candles for every need requested here and for those unspoken.

Lighting candles for miraculous healings here and the world at large.

Lighting candles for all to have exactly what I seek for myself...love, healing, abundance, prosperity, peace of mind and safety.

Jazzie

lipstixgal · 08-03-2010, 01:48 PM

Lighting a candle for a friend who's aunt died today or yesterday not really sure!! She was in her 80's I think so she lived long and prospered well.

WolfyOne · 08-03-2010, 01:53 PM

I've been worried about Spirit Dancer and wanted to light a candle for her today
Coming here and reading made me realize many others also could use prayers and comfort
So, I lit one candle today that packs a lot of punch

Today's candle is for al those on the Planet needing prayer and healing vibes for self, their family and friends

Let us continue in our prayer circle because the power is so darn strong

Jett · 08-03-2010, 04:08 PM

Lighting candles for Pat, Spirit Dancer, Milana and Ray and family today...

... and one for who ever else may need it.

JakeTulane · 08-03-2010, 11:27 PM

For all of those in need. Whether they be near or far. For those that need healing and white light. For those that need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. For those that need safe passage. Open your heart and mind and find peace.

ravfem · 08-04-2010, 07:03 AM

Free my mind for the answers i seek
Gracious Mother Earth
On your stability i call
Be with me now and forever

Diva · 08-04-2010, 07:26 AM

Today, I light a candle for my daughter.......for Spirit Dancer....for Lady Pamela.......for the upcoming wedding of 2 dear friends, Puplove & Oiler........for all the children who are missing and their parents.......for Isadora's brother, Ray.......for those who have fallen victim to violence and their families....for our police officers and firefighters.......

LovinNature · 08-04-2010, 08:28 AM

I light a candle for those we've lost in these insane wars. I light a candle for their families. I light a candle for my brother for his suffering (I love you, bro).

miss entycing · 08-04-2010, 03:17 PM

candles lit for all of us here who are hurting... for those of us who are suffering in silence...
for those of us who need strength... and for any of us who feel like we are falling apart.

08-01-2010, 05:57 PM	#383
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08-02-2010, 10:02 AM	#385
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	Please light a candle for my brother Ray, he was in a bad motorcycle accident they flew him to Denver from his home in Nebraska. They were riding with friends (my brothers Ray and Terry) when they came to the curve Ray just kept going straight and never used his brakes. He hit a sign and went down. There is signs of heart trauma so they think he was having a heart attack. He is in a medically induced comma. He has broken legs, arms, ribs, punctured lung, a blocked neck artery, some cranium bleeding and vertebrae C2-C7 are broken but wiggles his toes on command so they don't believe he is paralyzed. Today they are going to reduce the comma a little and access what to do about he bleeding. They have plans for most of his healing but the vertebrae...most paralysis comes at the C4-C5 and they are afraid to do to much at the moment. He will be placed in a halo at some point. Thank you. __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

08-02-2010, 02:56 PM	#386
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	Thanks everyone. I am waiting to hear from a meeting today. He has a blocked artery in his neck and some cranial bleeding. They are meeting with doctors this afternoon to look at the plan of action for healing. Thank you again for all your prayers. __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

08-02-2010, 02:57 PM	#387
miss entycing Senior Member How Do You Identify?: dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?: just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status: CapitalM's carved upon my skin. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon. Posts: 3,276 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,341 Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,254 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	For Ray.... Spirit Dancer.... Pat.... Dolo.... Milana- and to our Planet family Keeping candles lit here, and sending strength to anyone who needs it. __________________ True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken.

08-02-2010, 03:06 PM	#388
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08-01-2010, 05:47 PM	#382
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08-02-2010, 09:42 AM	#384
Tommi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Usually "Hello" Relationship Status: Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira ) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach. Posts: 8,151 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,621 Thanked 21,338 Times in 5,970 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Lighting candle for Milana. She goes to surgery today for a new feeding tube to be put in, since the first one was just leaking into her abdomen. Still on ventilator from the 16th feeding tibe insertion, emergency trach, and ICU admission. Still unable to speak. Still a vulnerable scared butch in a big hospital bed with tubes and monitors everywhere. On my way to ICU.Thank you all for the love and light. AND sharing for SD and all those that are on our special planet. Tommi.

08-02-2010, 03:43 PM	#389
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369288	So....the main concern at this juncture is a clot in one of the 4 major arteries to his brain. they can't repair the spinal fractures until the clot is resolved. they hope to start blood thinners today if the brain bleed has ceased. __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

08-02-2010, 04:36 PM	#391
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08-03-2010, 11:35 AM	#392
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08-03-2010, 11:27 PM	#396
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08-04-2010, 08:28 AM	#399
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08-04-2010, 03:17 PM	#400
miss entycing Senior Member How Do You Identify?: dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?: just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status: CapitalM's carved upon my skin. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon. Posts: 3,276 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,341 Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,254 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	candles lit for all of us here who are hurting... for those of us who are suffering in silence... for those of us who need strength... and for any of us who feel like we are falling apart. __________________ True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken.