The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

RockOn · 08-02-2010, 05:07 PM

My take on the dating sites is that they are meat markets.

Lady_Wu · 08-02-2010, 07:12 PM

I've moved twice for people I met online. Guess I didn't learn my lesson the first time! If I ever move again, it will be for reasons of my own! Anyone know anything about Asheville or NC in general? That or the Southwest-if I can find a place that is temperate and does not get too hot. Any suggestions?
Congratulations, Morningstar! Yes, your tarot reading and then the job offer is a little eerie. But Tao moves as Tao moves.
AtlantaButch, I offer my condolences. You got taken by someone who was not what she seemed. I'm so sorry.
Lady_Wu

ruthie14 · 08-02-2010, 07:32 PM

Hey Lady Wu... my mother used to live in a little town just outside Ashville... she worked at a hospital in town and almost every nurse she worked with was gay! lol used to call them the lickity split gang! Ashville proper has a nice gay community.. as for climate... not bad... still get all 4 seasons...but winters are generally mild and since Ashville is close to the mountain... it is cooler in the summer than a lot of places. Still hot mind you, but not boiling. If you have any questions feel free to pm me. If I can't answer them my mother may be able to.

Evening all... hope everyone has a great week!

Morningstar...Good luck! maybe you'll get to move concert stuff for kd lang! lol

Galahad · 08-07-2010, 10:03 AM

Good morning everyone. I hope the weekend is wonderful for all of you. The Planet is so quiet lately. I wonder if most of us are off on adventures.

morningstar55 · 08-08-2010, 05:09 AM

mawning Loft dwellers and peekers
sorry i havnt been in here as much been kinda busy...
hope everyone is having a nice weekend

morningstar55 · 08-08-2010, 05:36 AM

im reading more here...
Lady Wu....... sorry about your moves.. i never have moved to be with someone.. it was always for reasons of my own....
i always been skiddish about them kinda moves..
hadnt heard much more about the concert trucking stuff yet.... but who knows and oh well... if i did that. i would never be home for sure then.. lol
well im off this weekend and at home.. well sort of at a friends house at the moment. had a nice cook out yesterday with some great friends...

waxnrope · 08-08-2010, 06:51 AM

Just stopping in to say good morning.

Jet · 08-08-2010, 01:42 PM

Hello all,

I haven't been in here in awhile. Just thought I'd come in and say hello.

lipstixgal · 08-08-2010, 02:43 PM

Good Evening everyone just stopping in to say hi!! Hope everyone had a great weekend UGH its back to the grind tomorrow with the internship!!

ruthie14 · 08-08-2010, 06:55 PM

ok sooooooooo I go to a lesbian over 40 dance tonight. Wearing a sexy sundress, all pretty.. with my friends. More butches there than there usually are, and NOT ONE asked me to dance. My friends all commented on how good I looked... I danced with my friends and by myself... made eye contact.. etc etc... NOTHING. oh and the "dating " sites I joined...so far.. lets see a 19 year old from bulgaria (really!) and a straght male cross dresser ( what part of lesbian i like girls don't you understand) and femmes. sigh... really? really! This is making me crazy! Ruthie

08-02-2010, 05:07 PM	#1
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Dating sites .... My take on the dating sites is that they are meat markets.

08-02-2010, 07:12 PM	#2
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155956	Dating sites I've moved twice for people I met online. Guess I didn't learn my lesson the first time! If I ever move again, it will be for reasons of my own! Anyone know anything about Asheville or NC in general? That or the Southwest-if I can find a place that is temperate and does not get too hot. Any suggestions? Congratulations, Morningstar! Yes, your tarot reading and then the job offer is a little eerie. But Tao moves as Tao moves. AtlantaButch, I offer my condolences. You got taken by someone who was not what she seemed. I'm so sorry. Lady_Wu __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

08-08-2010, 05:09 AM	#5
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	mawning Loft dwellers and peekers sorry i havnt been in here as much been kinda busy... hope everyone is having a nice weekend __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

08-08-2010, 05:36 AM	#6
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	im reading more here... Lady Wu....... sorry about your moves.. i never have moved to be with someone.. it was always for reasons of my own.... i always been skiddish about them kinda moves.. hadnt heard much more about the concert trucking stuff yet.... but who knows and oh well... if i did that. i would never be home for sure then.. lol well im off this weekend and at home.. well sort of at a friends house at the moment. had a nice cook out yesterday with some great friends... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

08-02-2010, 07:32 PM	#3
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Hey Lady Wu... my mother used to live in a little town just outside Ashville... she worked at a hospital in town and almost every nurse she worked with was gay! lol used to call them the lickity split gang! Ashville proper has a nice gay community.. as for climate... not bad... still get all 4 seasons...but winters are generally mild and since Ashville is close to the mountain... it is cooler in the summer than a lot of places. Still hot mind you, but not boiling. If you have any questions feel free to pm me. If I can't answer them my mother may be able to. Evening all... hope everyone has a great week! Morningstar...Good luck! maybe you'll get to move concert stuff for kd lang! lol

08-07-2010, 10:03 AM	#4
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	Good morning everyone. I hope the weekend is wonderful for all of you. The Planet is so quiet lately. I wonder if most of us are off on adventures.

08-08-2010, 06:51 AM	#7
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,957 Times in 952 Posts Rep Power: 0	Just stopping in to say good morning.

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Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hello all, I haven't been in here in awhile. Just thought I'd come in and say hello.

08-08-2010, 02:43 PM	#9
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Good Evening everyone just stopping in to say hi!! Hope everyone had a great weekend UGH its back to the grind tomorrow with the internship!!

08-08-2010, 06:55 PM	#10
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	ok sooooooooo I go to a lesbian over 40 dance tonight. Wearing a sexy sundress, all pretty.. with my friends. More butches there than there usually are, and NOT ONE asked me to dance. My friends all commented on how good I looked... I danced with my friends and by myself... made eye contact.. etc etc... NOTHING. oh and the "dating " sites I joined...so far.. lets see a 19 year old from bulgaria (really!) and a straght male cross dresser ( what part of lesbian i like girls don't you understand) and femmes. sigh... really? really! This is making me crazy! Ruthie