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08-27-2010, 04:14 PM
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09-06-2010, 12:29 PM
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this goes into clothing and caring about OURSELVES
why is it that straight people especially women....therapists especially try to hmmmm get us to dress differently.
I am soft butch and I am MOST comphy in Tshirts w/ Sayings/characters and jeans and or shorts...and I don't always LOOK Shnazzy...GREAT.... and get looked at as IF I don't WANT to take care of myself. BUT I just don't know how to change...LOOK different AND I sure AS hell DON"T do make up..... JUST asking and needing a lil advice.... Thanks....      
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09-06-2010, 03:46 PM
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addition to my post
I also wear solid colored shirts...and the winter hoodies....I am a soft BUTCH and this is how I am most comphy....JUST don;t know how to dress....the only word coming to mind is glamorous, BUT I am thinking,,,,Proper is the better term
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11-04-2010, 02:35 PM
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Hi all! Just thought I'd bump this up a bit.
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11-08-2010, 02:02 PM
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hey there
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11-11-2010, 04:25 AM
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I am most comfy in my work clothing (work boots, jeans, t-shirts and hoodies)... A few soft butch things: Have you tried polo shirts...same type of material as t-shirts but with a collar... If a full button down shirt is not too butch than soft(I have no clue) then those are great with a solid t-shirt under them with the top 2-3 buttons undone(been told by a few femme's that's yummy...lol)... Darker blue jeans look sharper than lighter colored... hoodies are ok...solid colors best(no rips/holes/stains...even tho my fav is this way...not best in public...lol) They make sweatshirts and sweaters that have a zipper at the top...still a pull over but a little more "style" than just a hoodie... Just a few suggestions of course...and my own personal opinion...Just trying to take what you said you are comfy in and spruse it up a little 
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01-10-2011, 10:20 PM
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01-10-2011, 10:31 PM
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Im glad to see this thread again
 I had missed it... I love seeing all the femmes out there who love us big guys
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01-10-2011, 11:07 PM
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this is the first time ive seen this thread.. its good to see it.. tho i recently went from 280lbs to 210 at 5'10 im still built like a line backer.. ive always worried esp when i was at 280 that i was to big. that my size scared people away. i know there are some femmes that love the big butches. growing up i was fairly on the too skinny side lol and worried that some big butch would kick my ass if i didnt behave right. as an adult and a older butch im proud to join the ranks!
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01-11-2011, 12:13 AM
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I am SO very glad to see this thread again, missed it alot
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01-11-2011, 05:56 AM
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Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):
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There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are:
1 - even tempered; 2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite; 3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed; 4 - employed; 5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason; 6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh; 7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme; 8 - loves conversation/discussion; 9 - loves animals; and 10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all. |
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Not me! If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word ) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream! Love to all the big butches! 
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