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08-30-2010, 02:20 PM
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queer femme-inist Relationship Status:
I'm lucky. 
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I saw Pete at a local women-owned café.
She was reading the paper, and drinking a latte, and wearing Dickies. I thought she was fabulously cute, and I swore that I would talk to her. I walked up to her and I stammered out a cockamamie reason to give her my email address. It was years later, or maybe two weeks, and she hadn't emailed me. One afternoon I was grading papers in the same café and She came up to me with a teeny tiny cupcake to apologize. She had washed her pants with my email address in the pocket. She asked me for my number, and She called me when she was driving home to Western Mass from her father's wedding in Florida. My handsome beautiful Pete and I have been dating since December. |
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08-30-2010, 02:28 PM
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on another bf site.
we'll be together 2 years next month! 
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08-30-2010, 02:37 PM
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Member
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She Relationship Status:
Very Happily Married to Bobbi46 
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The first time I saw hym was when I was organizing a leather conference - I introduced myself and made small talk to be cordial and welcoming. About a month later I got dumped by then 3 year relationship. About a month after that I was at a gathering and this butch was there, we talked and hung out and my interest was definitely 'sparked'. I sent an e-mail to a mutual friend inquiring and received an e-mail back just a couple days later by the butch of interest. It's all history now and we are very much in love and it's to date the best and most fulfilling relationship I have ever experienced... it's been close to eight months and I've never been happier.
We are a butch-femme couple with relational dynamics within the bdsm realm. Our dynamics are not within the mainstream butch-femme culture as we play a lot within a Mommy/boi, daddy/boi context/relationship. I say not mainstream within the butch-femme culture because the majority tend towards the butch being the top/daddy/sir and the femme being girl/bottom/submissive. You will see that most of the 'threads' within the leather forums are geared more towards daddy/girl than mommy/boi or daddy/boi. So, that is my reason for saying that we aren't within the mainstream. We are in the mainstream of butch-femme culture in that hy is butch and I am femme and it's quite obvious from outward appearances and internal being/attitudes with a slight 'twist'. |
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08-30-2010, 04:17 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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She, as in 'She's a GEM' 
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Organic and I were in relationships with other people when we were introduced to one another, so neither of us paid much attention to the other, other than the cordial hello and how are you.
Time passed, and we were no longer in our relationships, but still only friendly. Then Bessie (my computer), began giving me serious trouble. A mutual friend of ours told me to call him since he's a tech guru. I did, and over time we talked quite a bit. Bessie's a bit ornery, one might say, so I needed a lot of tech support. So, he'd hook into my system and look around and we'd occasionally fight over who had control of the mouse.  I moved to Austin immediately before the reunion and he helped me find my way to my destination. After seeing me in two day old clothes, no make up, hair all frizzy, sweaty and cursing up a storm, he was still interested. That told me right there that Organic was a keeper.  We grew closer through the Reunion and, now that we both are in Texas, we have the chance to further explore and enjoy one another. Organic, however, says it was an arranged marriage.
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08-30-2010, 04:34 PM
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Member
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Hey you! Relationship Status:
Sleeping single in a double bed.. 
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I met her on gay.com back when it was the happenin' site!  She lived 3 hours south of me and we met after a few weeks. I fell head over heals in love with her...we got married in our church and raised her 2 boys together..after 12 years we split up and stayed on very friendly terms..the way i see it...she was my best friend for 12 years and i wasn't willing to give that up! so alas i'm a single skeeter now...enjoying being single but would REALLY love to date and have fun! that's the plan anyway! 
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08-30-2010, 07:14 PM
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Usually she/her but ze/hir or other gender neutral pronouns are also perfectly acceptable Relationship Status:
Single (and trying to look nonchalant about it) 
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Thanks to everyone for sharing their stories.
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08-30-2010, 07:34 PM
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Senior Member
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Story A.
I purchased Mister Bent in an overseas flea market/sex auction. I got him and a great turkish area rug for cheap! Story B. Mail order bride, I believe the site was called www.prettypeoplefromukraine.com. Yes, he's from the Ukraine. His real name is Benthuslav. Story C. Came with the house I bought. Original owners left him in the garage. Story D. FreeCycle. No explanation needed.
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04-15-2012, 05:00 PM
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I'm lucky.
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She has a little more grey hair, and I have a cataract in my right eye. .gif "Say What?")
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04-15-2012, 05:22 PM
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Infamous Member
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My Partner and I
Before we met in person, I "met" my honey right here on the Planet, in October 2011.
My butch sent me a PM after reading a couple of my posts. We quickly realized that we matched closely in terms of our personal values and belief systems. We finally met in person on New Years Eve, 12/31 and after a few chaste kisses (yes, for real), sparks and electricity flew. The rest, as they say, is history and though our history is not yet long, the story is still being written...
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06-19-2016, 08:22 AM
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06-19-2016, 02:21 PM
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03-30-2017, 04:13 AM
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Superlative Soul Sister
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Moving in a single file 
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In Palmer Park over 40 years ago.
I'd just moved to the area. Had a great studio apartment a few blocks from the park. I went there one day and saw her. She was there with her partner and had just finished jogging. She was masculine of center, graceful, assertive, and quiet. Her partner was the extrovert and was chatty with me, wanting to know who the new girl was. Instinctively, her partner may have known trouble was brewing. Eventually we spoke. She sorta forced it because I avoided her. I was incredibly shy around her because she seemed so cosmopolitan and experenced with the world--she watched foreign movies, grew exotic plants, and jogged. LOL. Those were things I'd never done and didn't know anyone who did. I avoided her. That only intrigued her... We partnered for four years and broke up. We never had problems with infidelity, finances, or the usual break-up issues. I was insecure and she was stubborn. Neither of us would bend on some issues so we parted amicably, but we cut off all contact. Forty years later I searched her name online, she popped up on Facebook, and we're back together again. Right now it's a long-distance relationship and it's taking a toll on us, but we're in it for the long haul. I came across this thread while looking for threads on LDRs. So, back to my search. Anyway, that's how we met. 
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04-06-2017, 02:19 AM
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Infamous Member
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I am a human and not a possession 
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We met through a butch-femme group on Facebook. Hy is twenty years older than me, loves to make me smile(even though we only talk on the phone twice a week), lives in New York City and is from Puerto Rico. We are taking things slow and when I get a text from Hym, my heart beats a little faster. I'm happy with myself; for putting my guard down. We have plans to meet in the future.
Zimmeh
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