What do you prefer to be called on the site?

BullDog · 09-02-2010, 11:29 AM

BullDog, Bully or Jules. I also don't mind other terms of endearment when they are good natured.

As to my gender I am butch and/or butch woman. I do not use female identified butch- which I find to be very jargony and seems to be used because of male identified being used. So for those who prefer female identified butch that's fine and I will refer to you that way, but it does not refer to me.

Leigh · 09-02-2010, 11:36 AM

Since this thread was created, I think its as good a time as any to mention what it is that we prefer to be called. I've used Braedon for a long while and thats what everyone online knows Me as, but since I will soon be transitioning I have chosen a permanent male name that I will change it to legally when I can afford it:

Matthew Alexander

Those who prefer Braedon can still call Me that, though I'd prefer Matthew or Matt if that can be arranged. Other then that, I'm all good as long as you don't call Me late for dinner

ravfem · 09-03-2010, 08:28 AM

i'm rav, ravvie (ravvie poo to Pink), rev to the typonese

rhonda is my given name.
i don't really care what you call me, as long as it's not mean.
i'm easy like that

betenoire · 09-03-2010, 08:32 AM

Not relevant to this site, but I wanted to put out there that I have a coworker who calls me "Brandy-Girl" and it makes me want to slash her tires.

cane · 09-03-2010, 10:05 AM

Don't really care as long as it's not female oriented or mean. But how about Cane...?

oneye · 09-04-2010, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by betenoire

Not relevant to this site, but I wanted to put out there that I have a coworker who calls me "Brandy-Girl" and it makes me want to slash her tires.

*wondering if i should break out into THE song?*

betenoire · 09-04-2010, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by oneye

*wondering if i should break out into THE song?*

What song? I just woke up so I have no idea what song. It's either the song my father named me after, or my new smash hit "stop humping up on me", though.

Abigail Crabby · 09-04-2010, 04:42 PM

On site - most call me Abi, Abby or Abbylicious

In PM's usually Sunny as that's the nick I go by.

I love how Ms Snow calls me Ms Abby

In chat - we change names so often I forget who calls me what lol

In pvt here I'm Kitten, Darlin, Babygirl, Blondie, or Princess and that's just by my friends

Couple of folx know my birth name, but know if they use it I will hunt em down and tickle them to destruction

Gayla · 09-04-2010, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

On site - most call me Abi, Abby or Abbylicious

In PM's usually Sunny as that's the nick I go by.

I love how Ms Snow calls me Ms Abby

In chat - we change names so often I forget who calls me what lol

In pvt here I'm Kitten, Darlin, Babygirl, Blondie, or Princess and that's just by my friends

Couple of folx know my birth name, but know if they use it I will hunt em down and tickle them to destruction

And some of us just make up our own mash ups of a nickname for you.

BullDog · 09-03-2010, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jackhammer

I'm a female butch, my wife is a femme women. Thats how I choose to roll and it doesn't have ANYTHING to do with how others choose to identify.
To some of us female and women are different.

I said that was my personal preference, and that for myself do not want to be referred that way and I don't like the term. I never heard of female identified or male identified until I came online. I also said I would use it for those who do like it.

pajama · 09-03-2010, 10:40 AM

Ana
A
Bitch/Whore
And whatever a select few wish to call me....

BullDog · 09-03-2010, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Jackhammer

BullDog
I am asking you from this point on that if you want members to respect your identity, that you leave out the value judgments (the whole jargony and assumptions) when referring to how other people identify.
It comes off as judgmental and intolerant and that is not the kind of space we are trying to create here.

I said that is how it feels to me. I also said I would refer to others how they want to be called. The topic of the thread is how do you like to be called on the site. People constantly refer to me as female identified and I am clarifying that I would prefer people didn't refer that way to me. I don't consider it to be an umbrella term that I fall under.

Arwen · 09-03-2010, 11:55 AM

I've decided that y'all can call me a few other things.

Never late for dinner
Friend indeed
Goddess Arwen Spectacularia
Empress of All She Surveys...and then some
Purveyor of Perfectly Palpable Porn
Poodle Pillow Princess

SFFemmePrincess · 09-03-2010, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Arwen

Purveyor of Perfectly Palpable Porn

I LOVE IT! Most people call me Rain here, or Rainbow, I think I have been refered to as Logic's girl a couple times. And some people call me Eeyore. I think there are still a few that refer to me as RodeoClown, which was my nickname for a long time, but now there are only a few that use it. A couple of people have the priviledge of calling me pookie, kitten, or muffin.

He calls me Bella, Princess, BabyGirl, and a few other pet names.

I too really don't care what people call me as long as its not mean. My real name is Sarah, but it's rarely used online. I'm kinda fond of Rain and Eeyore and am not really sure why when I was choosing online names I didn't have something with Eeyore in it. But its all good...

Isadora · 09-04-2010, 04:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen

I've decided that y'all can call me a few other things.

Never late for dinner
Friend indeed
Goddess Arwen Spectacularia
Empress of All She Surveys...and then some
Purveyor of Perfectly Palpable Porn
Poodle Pillow Princess

I like Goddess Arwen Spectacularia. It is a long signature though and a mouthful.

tuffboi29 · 09-04-2010, 04:21 PM

A very long time ago...on a farm far, far away...

I was nicknamed Tuff..

It stuck.

Tuff is all i answer to

09-02-2010, 11:29 AM	#1
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,640 Times in 4,463 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	BullDog, Bully or Jules. I also don't mind other terms of endearment when they are good natured. As to my gender I am butch and/or butch woman. I do not use female identified butch- which I find to be very jargony and seems to be used because of male identified being used. So for those who prefer female identified butch that's fine and I will refer to you that way, but it does not refer to me. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

09-03-2010, 08:28 AM	#3
ravfem Senior Member How Do You Identify?: i'm a girl Relationship Status: negative Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,239 Thanked 3,125 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 1969286	i'm rav, ravvie (ravvie poo to Pink), rev to the typonese rhonda is my given name. i don't really care what you call me, as long as it's not mean. i'm easy like that __________________

09-03-2010, 08:32 AM	#4
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,739 Times in 2,566 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Not relevant to this site, but I wanted to put out there that I have a coworker who calls me "Brandy-Girl" and it makes me want to slash her tires. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

09-03-2010, 10:05 AM	#5
cane Member How Do You Identify?: male identified butch Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2010 Location: Sweden Posts: 294 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 119 Thanked 357 Times in 122 Posts Rep Power: 1030324	Don't really care as long as it's not female oriented or mean. But how about Cane...? __________________ "Vivamus, mea Lesbia, atque amemus"

09-04-2010, 04:42 PM	#8
Abigail Crabby Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Princess Relationship Status: Single, but sociable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mount Airy, NC Posts: 4,226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,554 Thanked 9,668 Times in 2,484 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	On site - most call me Abi, Abby or Abbylicious In PM's usually Sunny as that's the nick I go by. I love how Ms Snow calls me Ms Abby In chat - we change names so often I forget who calls me what lol In pvt here I'm Kitten, Darlin, Babygirl, Blondie, or Princess and that's just by my friends Couple of folx know my birth name, but know if they use it I will hunt em down and tickle them to destruction __________________ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust Turns whatever happens to you into a positive...

09-02-2010, 11:36 AM	#2
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Since this thread was created, I think its as good a time as any to mention what it is that we prefer to be called. I've used Braedon for a long while and thats what everyone online knows Me as, but since I will soon be transitioning I have chosen a permanent male name that I will change it to legally when I can afford it: Matthew Alexander Those who prefer Braedon can still call Me that, though I'd prefer Matthew or Matt if that can be arranged. Other then that, I'm all good as long as you don't call Me late for dinner

09-03-2010, 10:40 AM	#11
pajama Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Klingon Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Just South of Nashvegas Baby Posts: 3,115 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,546 Thanked 7,476 Times in 1,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Ana A Bitch/Whore And whatever a select few wish to call me....

09-03-2010, 11:55 AM	#13
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,107 Times in 6,411 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	I've decided that y'all can call me a few other things. Never late for dinner Friend indeed Goddess Arwen Spectacularia Empress of All She Surveys...and then some Purveyor of Perfectly Palpable Porn Poodle Pillow Princess __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

09-04-2010, 04:21 PM	#16
tuffboi29 Member How Do You Identify?: Queer..in the queer deffinition of the queer meaning of the queer word... Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. SuperTuff Relationship Status: Things happen... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 483 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 894 Thanked 684 Times in 293 Posts Rep Power: 93006	A very long time ago...on a farm far, far away... I was nicknamed Tuff.. It stuck. Tuff is all i answer to __________________ "Today we would pass through the scenes of our youth like travelers. We are burnt up by hard facts; like tradesmen we understand distinctions, and like butchers, necessities. We are no longer untroubled - we are indifferent. We might exist there; but, should we really live there?" ~Erich Maria Remarque "All Quiet on the Western Front" http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphot..._4605968_n.jpg