What do you prefer to be called on the site?

dark_crystal · 09-02-2010, 01:41 PM

lotsa people on the site call me Dark, Crystal, or DC. My scene name is jenny pigtails, which sometimes gets shortened to "pigtails." Plain ole Jenny also works. Or even Jennifer. But not Jennifer LYNNE (!) b/c that means you're my mom and i'm about to be grounded or something

Apocalipstic · 09-02-2010, 02:56 PM

I go by Jen, Jenny, Apoc, A, Mommie, Aunt Jenny, JP and AuntieJen.

If I know you I am fine with sweetie, darlin' and all that, since I live in the South, but please try to somehow refrain from calling me a Southern Belle, I hate that.

Please do not use my last name on line. I am fine with Miss______ in person, but not on here. On the dash site someone used my entire name, I do prefer at least a drop of annonymity.

I will try to remember to call those of you who do not like your screenname by the name you prefer, but I can be a space cadet, so please do not feel slighted if I forget.

Canela · 09-02-2010, 03:05 PM

Shug
Lil Shug
Shuggita

I prefer to use your screen name unless you tell me otherwise and ask that you do the same for me.

I too, like a bit of anonymity, but if we get to know each other become friends, then I will let you know my real name so you can use either.
If we don't really know each other--Shug works just fine.

Arwen · 09-02-2010, 05:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cowboi

Don't forget, ............. Bella!!!!!

Awwww, you make me swoon when you say that. I loved that one.

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

I go by Jen, Jenny, Apoc, A, Mommie, Aunt Jenny, JP and AuntieJen.

What about Pink Fondant?

Gemme · 09-02-2010, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by chefhmboyrd

chef
andy
king andy
baby boy
daddy

dumbass
asshole
asshat
dick
prick
fucker
billy's boy toy (jk)
any or all of the above

What about brat?

*grinz*

I'm okay with Gemme, Gemmie, Gemmelicious, Gemmekins, Gem, or Kat.

If you know the name that was written on my birth certificate, good for you. It means that either I trusted you at one point or you got very lucky/nosy. No matter how you came to be knowledgeable about it, don't use it. One "person" used my full given name on the other site once.

I. Was. NOT. Amused.

I don't mind Southern sweetisms like darlin' but please be respectful. Only one butch gets to call me baby or babygirl. My Austin sisters can do it, but not the rest of yous.

Diva · 09-02-2010, 05:41 PM

~Diva. (Candace calls me 'Licious". Or "Divalicious", too.)

~Janey. (That's JanEY.....not JanIE, please, and thank You.)

~I'm not fond of being called Jane, as that's what my Mom used to call me. And only Mr. Moon calls me Miss Jane. It's a 'thing' with us.

~I loathe my first name and even in jest, I just will not like it.

~For those Southern nicknames.....It depends on who is using them, but as a rule, I don't care for "Dear" or "Sweetie". They remind me of my former mother-in-law, who thought I was neither 'dear' OR 'sweet' & used them with dripping sarcasm............bless her heart.

~I enjoy being called "baby" or "girl" by the right one......"Honey" or "Darlin"? Again....depends on the user.

~And I find "Mujer" to be rather hot....but again...coming out of the correct mouth.

~Edited to add: ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah..........

JustJo · 09-02-2010, 05:51 PM

Fairly obvious, but.....Jo. Yep, just Jo.

Isadora · 09-02-2010, 05:57 PM

Ma'am

Momma

Deborah

Isadora

Deb

Isa

Randal calls me Deborah Isadora. Well Randal screams....

Queen
Mistress
Goddess
Midnight Mistress

Ashton · 09-07-2010, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Diva

[COLOR="DarkOrchid ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah..........
[/COLOR]

I was taught thats the only way to speak to a lady, Yes Ma'am I was!

Ashton
Ash
been called Assman a time or two!

Tcountry · 09-08-2010, 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Ashton

I was taught thats the only way to speak to a lady, Yes Ma'am I was!

Then you were raised right!

T...Tt...Tcountry...
I tend to sway more masculine but hon, and dear are great...my bff calls me love
My mom calls me SIS...but Don't do that! lol

Lynn · 09-02-2010, 06:00 PM

I go by my name, which is Lynn, really and truly. Some people call me Lynnie, which is OK, but not really how I see myself.

Don't call me "dear" or any other sugary endearment unless you mean it. Used as a sarcastic preface to a criticism or reprimand, it will not win you any points.

I started using my own name when I realized how uncomfortable I was, trying to engage with anyone on a hopefully meaningful level, using an alias. Also, I've learned that privacy is an illusion on the internet. The people I try to avoid always find me anyway, so I figure, fuck it.

Apocalipstic · 09-02-2010, 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen

Awwww, you make me swoon when you say that. I loved that one.

What about Pink Fondant?

Oh yesssssss! Any reference to Fondant is loved, and Pink Chuckie

Thank you for reminding me.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

~Diva. (Candace calls me 'Licious". Or "Divalicious", too.)

~Janey. (That's JanEY.....not JanIE, please, and thank You.)

~I'm not fond of being called Jane, as that's what my Mom used to call me. And only Mr. Moon calls me Miss Jane. It's a 'thing' with us.

~I loathe my first name and even in jest, I just will not like it.

~For those Southern nicknames.....It depends on who is using them, but as a rule, I don't care for "Dear" or "Sweetie". They remind me of my former mother-in-law, who thought I was neither 'dear' OR 'sweet' & used them with dripping sarcasm............bless her heart.

~I enjoy being called "baby" or "girl" by the right one......"Honey" or "Darlin"? Again....depends on the user.

~And I find "Mujer" to be rather hot....but again...coming out of the correct mouth.

~Edited to add: ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah..........

Randomly....

I agree, "Dear" sounds patronizing...I quite hate it!

Mujer is indeed hot!

and Yes Ma'am? love it!

dark_crystal · 09-03-2010, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by dark_crystal

lotsa people on the site call me Dark, Crystal, or DC. My scene name is jenny pigtails, which sometimes gets shortened to "pigtails." Plain ole Jenny also works. Or even Jennifer. But not Jennifer LYNNE (!) b/c that means you're my mom and i'm about to be grounded or something

speaking of this: Jennifer LYNNE (!) get your heinie out from in front of the computer and TCB!!! You have a date in three hours and fifty-one minutes!

Toughy · 09-03-2010, 02:42 PM

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

betenoire · 09-03-2010, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

Oh please. A Toughy by any other name would smell just as much like popcorn.

Arwen · 09-03-2010, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

It actually feels weird to me to hear anyone call me Stephanie outside of work and older family members. I've been called Arwen as a nickname since high school...and since that was my freshman year...that was a few years ago. LOL

Isadora · 09-03-2010, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

lol at my "stepdown" I thanked (insert real name) and until she actually came up and got the award no one knew who I was talking about...hahahahaha. Yes, because I can.

nowandthen · 09-03-2010, 05:33 PM

Tee By most
My birth name by relatives :-(
In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat

Toughy · 09-03-2010, 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nowandthen

Tee By most
My birth name by relatives :-(
In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat

<snort>

and the things we have in common as white meat is plum scary.................laughin....

Isadora · 09-03-2010, 05:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toughy

<snort>

and the things we have in common as white meat is plum scary.................laughin....

and then there is

09-02-2010, 01:41 PM	#1
dark_crystal Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: jenny Preferred Pronoun?: babygirl Relationship Status: First Lady of the United SMH Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 5,445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,532 Thanked 26,553 Times in 4,688 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	lotsa people on the site call me Dark, Crystal, or DC. My scene name is jenny pigtails, which sometimes gets shortened to "pigtails." Plain ole Jenny also works. Or even Jennifer. But not *Jennifer LYNNE* (!) b/c that means you're my mom and i'm about to be grounded or something __________________

09-02-2010, 02:56 PM	#2
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I go by Jen, Jenny, Apoc, A, Mommie, Aunt Jenny, JP and AuntieJen. If I know you I am fine with sweetie, darlin' and all that, since I live in the South, but please try to somehow refrain from calling me a Southern Belle, I hate that. Please do not use my last name on line. I am fine with Miss______ in person, but not on here. On the dash site someone used my entire name, I do prefer at least a drop of annonymity. I will try to remember to call those of you who do not like your screenname by the name you prefer, but I can be a space cadet, so please do not feel slighted if I forget. __________________

09-02-2010, 03:05 PM	#3
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status: Well loved… Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 2,375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,644 Thanked 6,502 Times in 1,694 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Shug Lil Shug Shuggita I prefer to use your screen name unless you tell me otherwise and ask that you do the same for me. I too, like a bit of anonymity, but if we get to know each other become friends, then I will let you know my real name so you can use either. If we don't really know each other--Shug works just fine. __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

09-02-2010, 05:51 PM	#7
JustJo Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: pushy broad Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Follow your heart; it knows things your mind cannot explain. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Southeast corner Posts: 5,633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,417 Thanked 25,404 Times in 4,660 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Fairly obvious, but.....Jo. Yep, just Jo. __________________ I'm not tall enough to ride emotional roller coasters

09-02-2010, 05:57 PM	#8
Isadora Member How Do You Identify?: Momma, Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: I am in love. Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 997 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 502 Thanked 2,127 Times in 559 Posts Rep Power: 2369289	Ma'am Momma Deborah Isadora Deb Isa Randal calls me Deborah Isadora. Well Randal screams.... Queen Mistress Goddess Midnight Mistress __________________ "I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don't agree with or like." Margaret Mead Read me! www.leatherati.com

09-02-2010, 05:41 PM	#6
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	~Diva. (Candace calls me 'Licious". Or "Divalicious", too.) ~Janey. (That's JanEY.....not JanIE, please, and thank You.) ~I'm not fond of being called Jane, as that's what my Mom used to call me. And only Mr. Moon calls me Miss Jane. It's a 'thing' with us. ~I loathe my first name and even in jest, I just will not like it. ~For those Southern nicknames.....It depends on who is using them, but as a rule, I don't care for "Dear" or "Sweetie". They remind me of my former mother-in-law, who thought I was neither 'dear' OR 'sweet' & used them with dripping sarcasm............bless her heart. ~I enjoy being called "baby" or "girl" by the right one......"Honey" or "Darlin"? Again....depends on the user. ~And I find "Mujer" to be rather hot....but again...coming out of the correct mouth. ~Edited to add: ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah..........

09-02-2010, 06:00 PM	#11
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,413 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9668976	I go by my name, which is Lynn, really and truly. Some people call me Lynnie, which is OK, but not really how I see myself. Don't call me "dear" or any other sugary endearment unless you mean it. Used as a sarcastic preface to a criticism or reprimand, it will not win you any points. I started using my own name when I realized how uncomfortable I was, trying to engage with anyone on a hopefully meaningful level, using an alias. Also, I've learned that privacy is an illusion on the internet. The people I try to avoid always find me anyway, so I figure, fuck it. __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c

09-03-2010, 02:42 PM	#14
Toughy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: pervert butch feminist woman Preferred Pronoun?: see above Relationship Status: independent entity Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,826 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,068 Thanked 7,654 Times in 1,523 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	T or Toughy works for me. Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy. __________________ We are everywhere We are different I do not care if resistance is futile I will not assimilate www.butchfemmesocials.com/

09-03-2010, 05:33 PM	#18
nowandthen Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Butch Preferred Pronoun?: S/he Relationship Status: In a realationship with my PhD. Dissertation work for the next 3 years Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: West Coast Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 400 Thanked 947 Times in 325 Posts Rep Power: 6580599	Tee By most My birth name by relatives :-( In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat __________________ "Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you." "Does it hurt" asked the Rabbit, "Sometimes", said the Skin Horse, for he was always honest. " It's a Kind of testing, The kind of testing that spiritual warriors need in order to awaken their Heart" PC