The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Sweepea · 09-04-2010, 01:06 AM

I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance.

I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole.

I should have kept my butt home. lol

That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

lipstixgal · 09-04-2010, 04:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweepea

I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance.

I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole.

I should have kept my butt home. lol

That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

I feel for ya sweepea everyone is so young at those bars, you really do feel out of place. I don't go anymore except when there is a Butch-Femme social they I go because there are people my own age!!

On to other things Good Morning, dogs got up early today and wanted to eat and go out to potty but I headed back to bed once the one dog settles down, he's hyper so he needs time to settle back down!!

MysticOceansFL · 09-04-2010, 06:57 AM

I used to attend butch and femme dances here in Tallahassee but that was years ago now it's just dancing at a local place in town on special holidays which is great but I don't see many single femme's there around my age range!

cuddlyfemme · 09-04-2010, 03:07 PM

Hi Lofters!!! I hope everyone is good. Its been a month or so since I've been around but have been busy around the house. I hope everyone is having a good evening!

ruthie14 · 09-04-2010, 03:12 PM

Last night went to a bday party

The rest of the weekend I am dog and cat sitting.. and reading. Went to the library and got out 3 books .

No money so not going to some of the things my friends are going too. Double trouble.. cant go (asbury park nor sisterspace sigh) and so my friends are out of town so I can't go out with them either. DAMN

Oh well... I will get lots of reading in!

Galahad · 09-04-2010, 04:00 PM

I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.

lipstixgal · 09-04-2010, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.

I'm in the same boat people no money either so its homework and watching movies on tv and relax!! Have Jewish holidays to contend with..going to take a hot shower and then get ready and go which is good to get out of the house!!

09-04-2010, 01:06 AM	#1
Sweepea Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Highland CA Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 31 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 80	I missed my 30's I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance. I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole. I should have kept my butt home. lol That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

09-04-2010, 06:57 AM	#3
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I used to attend butch and femme dances here in Tallahassee but that was years ago now it's just dancing at a local place in town on special holidays which is great but I don't see many single femme's there around my age range! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

09-04-2010, 03:07 PM	#4
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Hi Lofters!!! I hope everyone is good. Its been a month or so since I've been around but have been busy around the house. I hope everyone is having a good evening!

09-04-2010, 03:12 PM	#5
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Last night went to a bday party The rest of the weekend I am dog and cat sitting.. and reading. Went to the library and got out 3 books . No money so not going to some of the things my friends are going too. Double trouble.. cant go (asbury park nor sisterspace sigh) and so my friends are out of town so I can't go out with them either. DAMN Oh well... I will get lots of reading in!

09-04-2010, 04:00 PM	#6
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.