About Butches Q & A

Tcountry · 09-18-2010, 07:15 PM

Ahhh Butch-ness...there is nothing like it for me...It was not a decision or something I thought about until a year ago (roughly). I kno who I am and what I like. Not coming out till I was 20yrs old but didnt even change one thing about the way I dressed(someone should have told me it was "ok" much sooner)...
It is a part of me from who I am attracted to...to how I dress and hair-style... to my lack of decorating sense, but can build u just about anything. It is the innate skills and desires we have.
I don't have to have an identifier/label to know this is who I am...but it does fit me quite well

sweetbutch26 · 09-18-2010, 07:18 PM

caustic i was wondering where all the femmes into butches were. i didn't think they existed anymore LoL

Rockinonahigh · 09-18-2010, 08:19 PM

Looking back over the years I figure out a long time ago when I was about four I wasnt like my girl cousins and never would be.When my mom amd aunts would get all of us together to go buy school clothes or something nice for the hollidays I was usely off in the boys clothes department cause thats what I was suposed to wear...not girlie things.I didnt have much of a choice so I had to go along with it cause mom said so..big time.Funny thing is mom never had a prob buying me boys clothes for the most part,just as long as I wore the dam girl stuff when I had to.Many time is in school I got the evil eye from mother superior about my rough and tumble ways,u bet I got the u r a girl talk even tho in my mind and heart I knew I was somewhere in between she/he.I learned a lot from bothe sided of my growing up,one side made me strong,able to hande many things others couldnt.The other gave me enough girl smarts to stay out of trouble because by time I was old enough to figure out I was a queer baby butch that I needed to keep myself safe cause if I didnt who else would.I took a lot of greif about it but made it through the worst ok.Things are still a work in progress and will always be so.
More later.

CausticPrincess · 09-18-2010, 08:35 PM

SweetButch.....I am here....others...cant say...but good gawd amighty I cant find MY Butch!!!

sweetbutch26 · 09-18-2010, 09:17 PM

yea i can't find my femme feel free to pick up an application and message it to me

Tuff Stuff · 08-03-2015, 10:06 PM

Speaking for myself only,I would hate it if my lady told me she likes fucking straight men..like WTF!!
It would be I suppose a jealous thing for me,because I like to think I can fullfill my lady's needs in everyway possible.

This is the kicker..ready?

I do fuck men.I am a butch woman..I don't see anything wrong with me doing it.I mean i'm not involved with any bio-man at the moment.But it was not that long ago that I had an affair with a man,which ended as quickly as it started.She knows about these 'flings' and told me its just primal urges *snort*

If She had any primal urges like mine,i'd probably end the relationship.

Is it a double standard?

Affair to me means some romance and then wham bam thank you,i'm gone.

I don't think i'm cheating on her,she doesn't either.

I'd like to marry this woman some day,but I wouldn't blame her if she left me tomorrow.

JDeere · 08-03-2015, 10:10 PM

Personally my opinion that's a double standard.

09-18-2010, 07:15 PM	#1
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Ahhh Butch-ness...there is nothing like it for me...It was not a decision or something I thought about until a year ago (roughly). I kno who I am and what I like. Not coming out till I was 20yrs old but didnt even change one thing about the way I dressed(someone should have told me it was "ok" much sooner)... It is a part of me from who I am attracted to...to how I dress and hair-style... to my lack of decorating sense, but can build u just about anything. It is the innate skills and desires we have. I don't have to have an identifier/label to know this is who I am...but it does fit me quite well __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way" Last edited by Tcountry; 09-18-2010 at 07:16 PM. Reason: spelling

08-03-2015, 10:10 PM	#7
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Personally my opinion that's a double standard. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

09-18-2010, 07:18 PM	#2
sweetbutch26 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/stud/boi Preferred Pronoun?: mr/he :p Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Goldsboro NC Posts: 55 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 66 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1508	caustic i was wondering where all the femmes into butches were. i didn't think they existed anymore LoL

09-18-2010, 08:19 PM	#3
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Looking back over the years I figure out a long time ago when I was about four I wasnt like my girl cousins and never would be.When my mom amd aunts would get all of us together to go buy school clothes or something nice for the hollidays I was usely off in the boys clothes department cause thats what I was suposed to wear...not girlie things.I didnt have much of a choice so I had to go along with it cause mom said so..big time.Funny thing is mom never had a prob buying me boys clothes for the most part,just as long as I wore the dam girl stuff when I had to.Many time is in school I got the evil eye from mother superior about my rough and tumble ways,u bet I got the u r a girl talk even tho in my mind and heart I knew I was somewhere in between she/he.I learned a lot from bothe sided of my growing up,one side made me strong,able to hande many things others couldnt.The other gave me enough girl smarts to stay out of trouble because by time I was old enough to figure out I was a queer baby butch that I needed to keep myself safe cause if I didnt who else would.I took a lot of greif about it but made it through the worst ok.Things are still a work in progress and will always be so. More later.

09-18-2010, 08:35 PM	#4
CausticPrincess Junior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: . Posts: 12 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23 Thanked 29 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 3672	SweetButch.....I am here....others...cant say...but good gawd amighty I cant find MY Butch!!!

09-18-2010, 09:17 PM	#5
sweetbutch26 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/stud/boi Preferred Pronoun?: mr/he :p Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Goldsboro NC Posts: 55 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 66 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1508	yea i can't find my femme feel free to pick up an application and message it to me

08-03-2015, 10:06 PM	#6
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	Speaking for myself only,I would hate it if my lady told me she likes fucking straight men..like WTF!! It would be I suppose a jealous thing for me,because I like to think I can fullfill my lady's needs in everyway possible. This is the kicker..ready? I do fuck men.I am a butch woman..I don't see anything wrong with me doing it.I mean i'm not involved with any bio-man at the moment.But it was not that long ago that I had an affair with a man,which ended as quickly as it started.She knows about these 'flings' and told me its just primal urges snort If She had any primal urges like mine,i'd probably end the relationship. Is it a double standard? Affair to me means some romance and then wham bam thank you,i'm gone. I don't think i'm cheating on her,she doesn't either. I'd like to marry this woman some day,but I wouldn't blame her if she left me tomorrow.