Seeking advice from the Butches...Please...

[Velvetkitten]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Is work the right place?

Isn't there some other social network?

Caustic P if a cute Butch is sitting in your chair go for it. You are in the proper line of work for it and as Kim said just use a neutral line of questions.

[KimKawashima]

Originally Posted by Velvetkitten

Caustic P if a cute Butch is sitting in your chair go for it. You are in the proper line of work for it and as Kim said just use a neutral line of questions.

Absolutely, Hair Dressers actually have a lot more freedom than some other lines of work depending on the salon. Being in a mall on your breaks or before or after work you have a lot of people around you as well. Good luck in your search!

[betenoire]

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

I prefer a good slap in the face, but that's a different thread...

Dirty!

I think the OP should try the greyhound station. No exaggeration, but I've met several Butches at greyhound stations. I don't know what that's all about. The cutest one EVER was in Detroit - but I was attached at the time so I just chatted and smoked and left.

Seriously. Greyhound.

[Ebon]

Originally Posted by KimKawashima

I don't understand your logic and you don't understand mine. Can't it just left at that. And my original point was why start with someone for using a so called stereotype if that is what we choose to do? So me expressing wanting to use them and you telling me it offends you is no different than you telling me I can not tell your offense to my stereotyping is offensive. It is a vicious cycle. So needless to say if you want to have at it. Call me old fashioned, but I have better things to do like fight for our rights as I have since high school and not waste any more of my energy on this

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

We call out stereotypes because some of us do not fit them and it makes it difficult and frankly it's offensive to be cast into something we are not.

I am still ok with calling them out even though you think it is not ok.



Snow~A Masculine Femme Top Leather Daddy who hates the kitchen and leads her household.

Kumbaya!!!!!!!!

CP welcome to the planet. I hope you enjoy....

I do love it here and I enjoy it here with all of my brothers and sisters.

[waxnrope]

And awayyyyy we go ...

Seriously, you wouldn't find me or SOME other butches at the mall. Just saying. Then again, unlike the other posts, I haven't any other real useful suggestions Perhaps a concert or other musical event. A dance? Then again, library? Lol. I have a few butch friends who are librarians, if you like that stereotype. Lol. Why limit yourself to one location? If you persist, as was suggested on the first page, you'll do fine.

[sweetbutch26]

what wax said. you can't limit yourself to one specific place. you kind of have to put yourself out a little more. if you live in a large lgbt community check for local events coming your way.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by betenoire

In my purse I carry whatever I happen to be reading at the moment, my new Nintendo DSi (woo!), a black magic marker, and my cigarettes.

I do not carry a lighter. Instead I just stand around holding my cigarette to my lips and looking helpless until some drooling masculine type rushes up to light it for me.

It should be a red marker. I saw an American Dad episode where Stan took his son, Steve, to a war re-enactment. They used red markers instead of weapons. I think it could catch on.

Originally Posted by EzeeTiger

Black magic marker??? What are you a tagger?

That's classified.

Originally Posted by betenoire

No. It's just sometimes I come across things that need to be edited.

So, YOU'RE the one......

Originally Posted by betenoire

Thanks.

Now I feel insensitive for talking about smoking.

You should be.

My lungs are offended at the very mention of it.




to BFP, CausticPrincess!

Just be yourself and those who you are meant to meet, you will.

[Guy]

You would find ME at the mall, jus sayin'

[Sam]

uses a barber..