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I've done the speed dating thing one time and wasn't really impressed with it but wanted to know what others thought about it!
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Of course, I kept hoping I could have more time, but still had so much fun with what time I was given with each and every person I was blessed enough to share that special time with. ![]()
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Thank you Ms MaggieBlues!!!
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I've never done it but willing to try if the opportunity arises!!
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It's a tool in the art of dating and it has its place.
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I wanted to thank everyone that posted on this thread and it has helpped me with the feed back I hope others will also voice thier opinions as well! Thank you again !
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I cant say that I understand the rationale for the speed dating concept. To me, it is a reflection on our short attention spans, pursuit for efficiency, and time management obsession.
Dating, to me, is investing the time getting to know someone. It is a time to savor, an energy to share, commonalities to find, differences to explore, adventures to take. To me, it is settling for a big mac when what you really want is beef wellington. |
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I've never done it, but have watched videos of it online.
I think it would be a way to sample many women, and ask those important questions you have. I think it could separate the good from the bad, especially if you have good intuition. Deborah |
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Not for me thanks. I prefer taking the time to truly get to know someone before a date of any sort.
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If you'd just get that Hello Kitty tattoo, women would be coming up to you on the street, handing you their numbers. Just saying.
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I've never speed dated before. It could be a hoot! I'm game!
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It sounds like an oxymoron to me and makes me feel like taking a nap. But more power to those who enjoy it!
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If I were more extroverted, I would consider it. It seems like a fun way to meet potential "real" dates.
However, I am super duper introverted and pretty sure I'd suck at it. ![]() |
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Quite! I wouldn't consider speed dating to be akin to real dating. Seems like it could be a step up from just going to a place with lesbians with the hopes of striking up a conversation.
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Bahahaha whatever! No HK tat for me.
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I've never done it, but I think it would be a way to screen and get to the winners, to have a greater chance of dating someone who could be a match. Just my opinion. Deborah |
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I am shy until I get to know someone then I open up to them
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Would I do speed dating? Maybe, if it was an option where I lived and I was interested in being in a relationship. I do know from mistakes in my past that it's important to do a screening process and not just based on appearances. Deborah |
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